1) getting a woman to go out with you is easy - just ask her.
how many women are you asking out to dinner? unless you're coming back to me with 5-10 a month, then you don't have a problem yet. if you're asking out 10 women a month and they are all turning you down, then you've got a problem.
2) getting women to sleep with you is easy
if a woman goes on a date with you, she's willing to sleep with you, it's THAT simple. all you have to do is not act like an AFC on your date. I recently had a date with a woman. she has a highly successful career (makes over 6 figures, easy). pretty hot, hb8 or so. we go out and she sh*t tests me during the beginning of the date. i didn't let it get to me, i brushed it off no problem.
i didn't say anything, but i showed her through my behavior that i was losing IL in her. at which point she started to through out all kinds of complements (instinctively trying to get my IL up). as she worked harder, i would take a little more interest in her.
anyway, by the end of the date i still was very 'coolish' over this woman. her sh*t test put her behind the eight ball and she was not out of trouble yet.
end of hte night i drop her off and she invites me up to her apartment. i declined and she looked at me with this "let me get this straight? im offering to f*ck you and you are declining?!" kind of look.
i smiled and told her to have a great night and left.
I turned her down because after our date i didn't feel she was quality material. when i was younger i would have banged her for the hell of it. but at this point in my life, it just didn't appeal to me.
the POINT of my story however is... simply by NOT acting like an AFC i had a fairly hot woman who i treated luke warm at best on our date, ready to toss her panties off just to get my approval / attention.
remember, if you are the PRIZE, then you're doing women a favor by asking them to dinner. so start asking more women out and always see yourself as the prize when you are out on the date. do those two things and you'll get laid so much that you'll actually want to a break from it all.
oh and as for all the dating games that go on. just remember, YOU are the prize and as such YOU determine what is and is not acceptable behavior. if I'm on a date with a woman and she misbehaves, i either start pulling back from her on the date, or in extreme cases i'll actually end it on the spot and take her home.
let me tell you, almost NOTHING is as funny as when you basically end a date short on a hot chic and reject her completely by taking her home early. it completely messes up their minds - it confirms every single insecurity they ever had about themselves. the look on their faces is priceless.
