when a girl says the famous "but you don't know me." line

tony-montana

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what's with that sh!t? why do so many girls say that "but you don't know me" crap?
isnt that the whole dam point to get to know them?

i don't usually look through myspace but one caught my eye. a very sweet girl by the looks. very into family, christian, sorta stuff. i decided to message her ... what the hell. told her i found her profile interesting and i would like to chat to her more.

so she replies the next day, included with a load of sh!t about god... kinda funny ,here have a read.


"Im flattered that you would like to talk to me, but you dont even know me. I think the person you really want to get to know is the One who created you and knows you better than you know yourself. I suggest you pick up your Bible and read it, start at John and you will find out how much God loves you, so much that he will die for the world's sin. For God so loved the world that He gave His only Son, that who ever believes in Him shall not die but have everlasting life. I urge you to examine your life and see what purpose it holds this day, Jesus gives my life purpose He is my Hope and my Redeemer. I would also like to talk to you but dont use msn, so maybe you can just reply to this msg. God Bless Rebekah"

lol... anyway i kind of replied a bit reply back... not too big. i told her what my interests and hobbies were. i mean, what else am i gonna say? gimme your number? i don't care what outcome i get out of this. i'm just giving it a shot. yes i know myspace is gay. but like i said i just came across this. she might be one of those god freaks but hey, maybe she needs to meet someone like me.. looks like she needs to slow down on that god, church sh!t.

what are your opinions on this?
 

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Man when I was a Christian I thought I was hardcore.

Yeesh.

She's a certified fvcking fruit loop.

Anyway my opinion on your situation is take a wait and see approach and if nothing pans out and you have a twisted sense of humour like I do mess with her and get a big religious conversation going about how you've seen the light and can't wait to be forever in the loving arms of old JC thanks to her telling you all about him.
 

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tony-montana said:
"Im flattered that you would like to talk to me, but you dont even know me. I think the person you really want to get to know is the One who created you and knows you better than you know yourself. I suggest you pick up your Bible and read it, start at John and you will find out how much God loves you, so much that he will die for the world's sin. For God so loved the world that He gave His only Son, that who ever believes in Him shall not die but have everlasting life. I urge you to examine your life and see what purpose it holds this day, Jesus gives my life purpose He is my Hope and my Redeemer. I would also like to talk to you but dont use msn, so maybe you can just reply to this msg. God Bless Rebekah"
OMG I hate that religious preaching bullsh!t... nobody fvcking knows what God really is/who Jesus really was, they just elaborate on what they "learn" in church.
I would totally stay away from this girl dude... if the first thing she tells you is to go pick up a bible and try to fvck close on the holy one instead of her, you're not getting anywhere, ever.

Heh it is funny how people take this stuff so seriously. It's like it's programmed into their minds, so you never wanna argue with religious types about religion. Though if they preach they are absolute nutcases.

haha what did you say to her first anyway?
 

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LOL i know man. i don't believe in god, you know why? cause i ain't never seen him. him? it! i don't believe what i see in that bible. i must see with my own eyes.

i'll give her a chance. i just replied to her and if she keeps going on about this god crap i won't message her again. i can't deal with that sh!t.

here is what i said to her first off;

"i was just having a look around and saw your profile... interesting. i see you're into the christian thing. i been to church a few times.. alot of nice people. my name is ***, i'm 23 and i'm in *** too, *** to be exact. perhaps we could have a little chat? if you have msn you can add me: ****@hotmail.com"

it is true, i have been to church a few times and the people are really nice but i just can't get into it. besides, my cousin made me go. too weird.

after she replied with that crazy god speech, i said:

"woahhh, slow down bek...

that is true, i do not know you but isn't that the point of these messages. to get to know one another? :)

the person i want to get to know is you. let's talk about us, what ya say hmmm? let's start with, what my interests/hobbies are...
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and a heap of other sh!t about it that i probably don't wanna paste. i got carried away.

but yeah that's it.
 

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
OMG I hate that religious preaching bullsh!t... nobody fvcking knows what God really is/who Jesus really was, they just elaborate on what they "learn" in church.
I would totally stay away from this girl dude... if the first thing she tells you is to go pick up a bible and try to fvck close on the holy one instead of her, you're not getting anywhere, ever.

Heh it is funny how people take this stuff so seriously. It's like it's programmed into their minds, so you never wanna argue with religious types about religion. Though if they preach they are absolute nutcases.

haha what did you say to her first anyway?
That's why I tore up this little holy poster the other day. Check it out. I did it for his own good, but I doubt he heard me.

I hope he gets his pastor to register here so he can try to debate me. :moon:
 

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tony-montana said:
LOL i know man. i don't believe in god, you know why? cause i ain't never seen him. him? it! i don't believe what i see in that bible. i must see with my own eyes.
Drink some ayahuasca if you want to see god. I think you'll have a change of heart. :D
 

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tony-montana said:
LOL i know man. i don't believe in god, you know why? cause i ain't never seen him. him? it! i don't believe what i see in that bible. i must see with my own eyes.

man...you must not believe in love either cause you've "never seen it" :cheer:
 

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secondly im sure she is NOT the only chick on myspace that makes your jollies jingle. Since you have the time to browse ppl's profiles search for a chick that meets the requirements you like (not a total religious chick)
 

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hmmm whats my opinion. I have a rebecca too and she is the EXACT same and highly christian. I keep it brief and friendly. shes just not dating material to me. i grew up a strong believer but there is no reason to do nothing with your life because you're christian. god didnt say thou shalt not have friends, love, good job, pretty yard, and for the holiness he never said you couldn't do anything not to look good. there is a good thick stratchy line between getting tatoos blah blah blah and simply taking CARE OF YOURSELF by cutting your hair, grooming it which includes use of hair gel. and all these women let their legs and arms get hairy that just means they dont take care of themselves. god forbid the horrible smells in the air on the day such a prude gets wet and ready to reproduce. might I ask for little so much as a small amen?
 

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tony-montana said:
LOL i know man. i don't believe in god, you know why? cause i ain't never seen him. him? it! i don't believe what i see in that bible. i must see with my own eyes.

i'll give her a chance. i just replied to her and if she keeps going on about this god crap i won't message her again. i can't deal with that sh!t.

here is what i said to her first off;

"i was just having a look around and saw your profile... interesting. i see you're into the christian thing. i been to church a few times.. alot of nice people. my name is ***, i'm 23 and i'm in *** too, *** to be exact. perhaps we could have a little chat? if you have msn you can add me: ****@hotmail.com"

it is true, i have been to church a few times and the people are really nice but i just can't get into it. besides, my cousin made me go. too weird.

after she replied with that crazy god speech, i said:

"woahhh, slow down bek...

that is true, i do not know you but isn't that the point of these messages. to get to know one another? :)

the person i want to get to know is you. let's talk about us, what ya say hmmm? let's start with, what my interests/hobbies are...
*******************************************
*******************************************
*******************************************
*******************************************"
and a heap of other sh!t about it that i probably don't wanna paste. i got carried away.

but yeah that's it.
lol you don't need to bleep everything... I don't think there are any gay people on sosuave, so you'll be fine.
Anyway she'll make a good friend if shes not too crazy.

I believe in God, but I also belive that the church royally fvcks with the truth.
They corrupt the name of God and Jesus.
"Jesus loves you God loves you"
It's all a fake way to make people feel good... and it disgusts me, but only in the way they do it.

Truthfully I say Jesus was a warrior who stood up for what he believed in, one God, and was killed because of other religious selfishness. Jesus was a true leader, and he doesn't love you because you pray, but he'd respect you for what you do with your life and how you stand up for what you believe in and contribute to people just like he did.

Love and religion are completely unrelated, they just go together because the spirit desires an emotion that strong.

Don't be a slave to God like they're trying to teach you to be, look at yourself, and rethink everything.
Maybe try praying FOR God for a change.

Also just because you can't see something doesn't mean it isn't there... like how do you visually see what's in a person's mind? You can't.
God does exist, but not in any form you'd expect.
 

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
lol you don't need to bleep everything... I don't think there are any gay people on sosuave, so you'll be fine.
Anyway she'll make a good friend if shes not too crazy.

I believe in God, but I also belive that the church royally fvcks with the truth.
They corrupt the name of God and Jesus.
"Jesus loves you God loves you"
It's all a fake way to make people feel good... and it disgusts me, but only in the way they do it.

Truthfully I say Jesus was a warrior who stood up for what he believed in, one God, and was killed because of other religious selfishness. Jesus was a true leader, and he doesn't love you because you pray, but he'd respect you for what you do with your life and how you stand up for what you believe in and contribute to people just like he did.

Love and religion are completely unrelated, they just go together because the spirit desires an emotion that strong.

Don't be a slave to God like they're trying to teach you to be, look at yourself, and rethink everything.
Maybe try praying FOR God for a change.

Also just because you can't see something doesn't mean it isn't there... like how do you visually see what's in a person's mind? You can't.
God does exist, but not in any form you'd expect.
Your a smart kid. :up:
 

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everyday when i get up i get a new reply from this girl. she obviously wakes up early and goes out to work, whatever. i get up late so when i'm up she's gone. when she's up i'm asleep or something. however, the more replies i get from her the more interested i am. she's a very smart girl by the looks and i share the same thoughts apart from the god, jesus thing. i didn't want to post this, because it seemed a bit private and i'm sure she wouldn't approve of me doing this but hey, i don't know her yet and she won't see this :p

"So do you have a job? Are you studying? Do you have siblings? What kinda dog do you have? Why do you want to get to know me? Dont you already have plenty of friends? I dont have guy friends that much, I like to know I have something eternal in common with them first. You might be offended by this, but this world is full of plenty of evil and twistedness and I want to keep myself pure from this. Not that I dont talk to people who arent Christians, but my close friends have to share this with me. I know you thought I was weird saying what I said in my last msg, but you just dont know when you will take your last breath, For the wages of sin is death. Time is precious and Jesus is coming back soon and His coming back for those who have confessed their sin and who have asked Him into their heart. This world is getting crazier each day and it is awesome knowing that Jesus is the same yesterday, today and forever more, He is my constant in my life, my refuge and strength."
 

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'You don't know me'

'I can read you like a book'


This girl, however, is a nut-job and you should avoid.
 

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I could easily imagine that this girl is just ****ing with you and has no relgion.
 

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This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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My advise on the religious ones and their rants; Just ignore it as useless information and remember the stuff that matters. Remember, they're flesh and blood just like all of us. They have exactly the same desires as all of us. So the only real question is, do they repress these desires or not. Use their humanity against them and quite often, you can have your way anyway.

I personally don't mind the religion. Anything that will assist in keeping them faithful (if they become a LTR) is a good thing; including the belief in artifical gods. Also, you will typically have a power advantage since many of these types are often drawn to God because they inherently need some sort of crutch and can't "make it on their own". A big sale pitch of many churches today is pointing out how tough life is and how you can "do all things through christ who gives you strength". They prey on the weak, in other words, and get many of those types.
 

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tony-montana said:
what's with that sh!t? why do so many girls say that "but you don't know me" crap?
isnt that the whole dam point to get to know them?

i don't usually look through myspace but one caught my eye. a very sweet girl by the looks. very into family, christian, sorta stuff. i decided to message her ... what the hell. told her i found her profile interesting and i would like to chat to her more.

so she replies the next day, included with a load of sh!t about god... kinda funny ,here have a read.


"Im flattered that you would like to talk to me, but you dont even know me. I think the person you really want to get to know is the One who created you and knows you better than you know yourself. I suggest you pick up your Bible and read it, start at John and you will find out how much God loves you, so much that he will die for the world's sin. For God so loved the world that He gave His only Son, that who ever believes in Him shall not die but have everlasting life. I urge you to examine your life and see what purpose it holds this day, Jesus gives my life purpose He is my Hope and my Redeemer. I would also like to talk to you but dont use msn, so maybe you can just reply to this msg. God Bless Rebekah"

lol... anyway i kind of replied a bit reply back... not too big. i told her what my interests and hobbies were. i mean, what else am i gonna say? gimme your number? i don't care what outcome i get out of this. i'm just giving it a shot. yes i know myspace is gay. but like i said i just came across this. she might be one of those god freaks but hey, maybe she needs to meet someone like me.. looks like she needs to slow down on that god, church sh!t.

what are your opinions on this?
If you can't stand the preaching, then don't date her, even if she's hot.

There's a line from the bible about being "equally yoked" which makes a lot of sense, even for all you athiiests out there. If you don't like the "preachy freaks" then don't date them.

Personally, the volunteer witnessing and preaching isn't my style. If you want to talk about god, I'm here, and I'll defend my strong beliefs. But I'm not going to force my religion on you. I feel bad for those who are hardcore witnessed to when they don't want it and can't get out of the situaton. I will try to save friends from those people. I don't mind these guys usually, but I understand certain friends are uncomfortable about it.

I personally don't agree with "overpreaching" to new christians or people trying to figure out more about the whole god issue. Big turn off.

I don't force myself on people when I entertain, and I don't want entertainers doing the same to me. I don't want a hard sell.

By the way, don't assume that all Christian women are really sluts in disguise. Sometimes it's true, sometime it isn't.

On a different subject, one of the issues with myspace is that until you get to know someone better, it can be a lot harder to tell what they're really like. In real life, it can be easier in a lot of ways.

I think this amounts to the same thing as "I have a boyfriend" excuse. Dude, she's saying she's not interested, except in the possibility of converting you. If you keep hitting on her, you're ignoring some signs that you're not that compatable.

You're trying to hit on someone who's not "equally yolked" to you. There's got to be more women out there who are a bit more your style than a witnessing myspace chick. Let her go with the witnessing dudes.
 

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well anyway, after her last reply i replied back answering the questions she asked me. i hopped on today and noticed i didn't get a reply. she was online (myspace) and few minutes later she was offline. still no reply, although she did read my reply. i am dark/tanned by the way, i showed her pictures. maybe she don't like dark people. ahh well. NEXT!
 
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