Ive been seeing someone for a while, and shes on BC. Sometimes we dont use condoms, but I never nut in her, ever. We've talked about kids and birth control, and shes been adamant that she doesnt want kids for a long time. Heck, shes usually the one who has to remind me about condoms if I get carried away in the moment.
That said, in the heat of the moment yesterday, she said she wishes she was closes to her period so I could nut in her. Basically, even though shes on BC, the timing would be closer to her period. Less risky. However, still a dumb idea anyways because Id be cumming in this girl.
Anyways when she said this, my eyes got big and I told her "psssh are you crazy?". And she explained that shes never felt a guy come in her without a condom and she was curious to how it felt. I asked her "what if you get pregnant...what would we do?". I then tell her how its not uncommon that women change their mind after they fail pregnant. And she of course says shes not having kids, and that its cool if Im not comfortable nutting in her.
Jaylan is a cautious cat though. So now Im edgy wondering about this girl's intentions. I feel like I know her enough to know shes not ready for kids...but lets be real. Dudes have been married and had a woman 180 on them. Ive only been dating this girl a few months...so Im super analytical of what goes on with us.
Im thinking I have to really keep my eyes and ears open now.
That said, in the heat of the moment yesterday, she said she wishes she was closes to her period so I could nut in her. Basically, even though shes on BC, the timing would be closer to her period. Less risky. However, still a dumb idea anyways because Id be cumming in this girl.
Anyways when she said this, my eyes got big and I told her "psssh are you crazy?". And she explained that shes never felt a guy come in her without a condom and she was curious to how it felt. I asked her "what if you get pregnant...what would we do?". I then tell her how its not uncommon that women change their mind after they fail pregnant. And she of course says shes not having kids, and that its cool if Im not comfortable nutting in her.
Jaylan is a cautious cat though. So now Im edgy wondering about this girl's intentions. I feel like I know her enough to know shes not ready for kids...but lets be real. Dudes have been married and had a woman 180 on them. Ive only been dating this girl a few months...so Im super analytical of what goes on with us.
Im thinking I have to really keep my eyes and ears open now.