whats your pace during sex?

[Scar Tissue]

Just curious how long you guys can usually pound away during sex without stopping or slowing down.

I dont have a problem with premature ejac but I am usually only able to keep the rhythm going for 30 seconds to 1 minute before I have to slow down or stop for a second.

I know porn isnt realisist sex but those guys are able to keep going in one position for 10 plus minutes sometimes it seems like.

And keeping rhythm is key to making a girl cvm from intercourse.. so what do you guys have to say on this topic?

 

[speed dawg]

Dude don't go by porn. You ever seen those shows where they kinda go backstage and show the making of it? They stop the scenes a good bit - especially the big time shoots with the real porn stars in it. The guys there have big d1cks for one (that's how they got the job), they are used to screwing alot so they're desensitized, and they stop so they don't reach that point as quickly. And they have all kinds of techniques to keep their mind off coming.

Not to mention the fact that they are taking all kinds of stuff of keep their d1ck hard and to produce more cvm and all sorts of sh1t. And they are all in good shape - I mean, if working out was key to my job I'd do it too.

Look at those lollypop internet scenes that are like 20 or 30 minutes long - they are more realistic. Half the scene is just foreplay.

Yeah I watch a little porn, so what?

 

[Scar Tissue]

lol thanks but I dont watch porn often. And like I said,.. porn isnt realistic. But it also isnt 100% fake...

Either way, im not interested in hearing about porn, whats normal for you guys during sex?

 

[Taviii]

If sober then going full speed makes me *** quite easily so my secret is to mix it up a lot, or, to ejaculate once from a ******* and then the next time it's a lot longer.

If I had a few beers then it gets perfect, going at it like a pornstar and I am still able to *** if I want to.

If I'm drunk then I can go full speed and feel nothing so I have to stop when I'm tired. It gets frustrating if I cant ***.

A lot of exercise helps if you cant keep the rhythm for a long time, for me it depends on the position, if I am comfortable then I have no problem going for 3-4-5 or more minutes until I am all sweaty.

 

[Scar Tissue]

thanks for the reply Taviii. So about 4 or 5 minutes at times? Thats what I was asking. With practice I should be able to get up there.

I thought I would get more replys than I have gotten, I guess not as many guys here are having sex like they claim.

 

[speakeasy]

If I have a condom on, I can last almost as long as want. But if it's rawdog, I could damn near bust within a minute if I let myself.

 

[Scar Tissue]

If I have a condom on, I can last almost as long as want. But if it's rawdog, I could damn near bust within a minute if I let myself.

Yes im the same way, condoms desensitize too much. But are you saying you can pound away for 30 minutes straight without needing to catch your breath?

Im asking how long can you keep a rhythm going without needing a break/pause due to losing the pace or being tired.

 

[Kerpal]

I'm wondering something similar. My girlfriend really likes it when I **** her as hard as I can, but I can only last like 30 seconds doing that before I have to slow down again so I don't ***. If I'm just going at a normal pace I can last pretty much as long as I want, but I'd really like to figure out how I can **** really hard for longer periods of time. I don't get too out of breath doing it, I just feel like I'm going to *** after 30 seconds. I don't understand how porn stars do it.

 

[speakeasy]

Yes im the same way, condoms desensitize too much. But are you saying you can pound away for 30 minutes straight without needing to catch your breath?

Im asking how long can you keep a rhythm going without needing a break/pause due to losing the pace or being tired.

I don't believe in keeping the same rhythm for 30 minutes. I think you should change things up to keep it interesting. A little fast, a little slow, then maybe pull it out and go down on her for a few minutes, stroke her g spot for a few minutes with your fingers, then stick it back in and leave it there while you neck her, then maybe flip her over and go doggy style. I like to keep her guessing as to what I'm going to do next. As long as I'm changing things up, I won't bust to fast, but if I'm in one position pounding away raw dog, I won't last too long.

 

[(JJ)]

it seems to me that when it's my first time with a new girl i can go waaay less time than if it's a girl i've regularly been having sex with.

with my current girlfriend, when we first started having sex, i could only go about 10 minutes total... but i admittedly was really worried about premature ejac so i didnt really pound it too hard for any length of time at all. but the second and third and each time after, i've been just in the moment and not worried about it. I've also started doing a lot of kegels. these two things (whether they're real or in my head) have made it so i can go for about 3 minutes solid of straight POUNDING the sh1t out of her before i actually get physically winded. then i slow down for a bit to catch my breath and talk some dirty sh1t in her ear lol but then when i get back to pounding it's usually for a little bit less time each occasion. rinse, lather, repeat.

but im always drenched in sweat when i get done, and it's not cuz i'm out of shape. i get after it

 

[Scar Tissue]

Thanks for the replys

I don't believe in keeping the same rhythm for 30 minutes. I think you should change things up to keep it interesting. A little fast, a little slow, then maybe pull it out and go down on her for a few minutes, stroke her g spot for a few minutes with your fingers, then stick it back in and leave it there while you neck her, then maybe flip her over and go doggy style. I like to keep her guessing as to what I'm going to do next. As long as I'm changing things up, I won't bust to fast, but if I'm in one position pounding away raw dog, I won't last too long.

That sounds a lot like what I do. Do you ever have girls climax when you change it around so much?

Because the girl iv been with really enjoys it(breathing hard, moans, arms sprawled out, hips match my movement, ect) but never cvms.

I blame it on the fact that I never pick one rhythm and stick with it for 3-4 minutes. Iv read that a continuous pleasurable rhythm is how you get a women to build up to a climax from intercourse.

 

[speakeasy]

Thanks for the replys




That sounds a lot like what I do. Do you ever have girls climax when you change it around so much?

Because the girl iv been with really enjoys it(breathing hard, moans, arms sprawled out, hips match my movement, ect) but never cvms.

I blame it on the fact that I never pick one rhythm and stick with it for 3-4 minutes. Iv read that a continuous pleasurable rhythm is how you get a women to build up to a climax from intercourse.

Yeah you may be right. I usually get them to climax by going down on them.

 

[synergy1]

Yeah you may be right. I usually get them to climax by going down on them.

yeah thats the reliable way to do it.

I gotta change pace, just to keep it interesting. I don't bust w/ a condom on tho ever. Without is a different story.