Whats your number limit with Plates, contacting women, etc?

[marmel75]

This is a topic that probably doesnt come up enough for discussion but should. Once you have gotten to a certain level, most of the dates you set up will not flake, most of the dates you go on will want to see you again and most of the new women you contact will want to go on dates.

This brings us to a very good but tough situation. You have more interested women than time for them.

Once you have had sex with enough of them, what is your plate limit? What is your maximum number of dates in a week limit? How do you manage your rotation?

This plate management topic is not discussed enough on here. But once a guy finds himself in this situation, it becomes a little harder to manage while maintaining interest.

For instance, I got to a point using OLD where I was getting lots of numbers, setting up lots of dates, having a very low flake rate(like 1 in 20) which meant I was meeting a lot of the women and almost all of them wanted to see me again. Out of maybe 10 dates, 9 of them wanted to see me again. I can't manage 9 women so I ended up cutting it down to 7. For about 2 months I was seeing all 7 and banging all of them in rotation...once every 10 days with my top plate or two in there twice.

This literally became physically exhausting to the point my d!ck started hurting from having so much sex. It was sore when I woke up, it hurt to pee(not from catching anything I'm clean) and it got to the point I was having to turn down dates and sex...

I'm just wondering what everyone else's experience with this is and how did you manage your plates. Whats the most you had in rotation at once? How did you maintain interest, etc.

Hopefully this can be a thread where guys can discuss what to do once you have a lot of women interested in you instead of how to get a lot of women interested in you...

 

[AttackFormation]

What happened to your marriage/relationship?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

This is a topic that probably doesnt come up enough for discussion but should. Once you have gotten to a certain level, most of the dates you set up will not flake, most of the dates you go on will want to see you again and most of the new women you contact will want to go on dates.

This brings us to a very good but tough situation. You have more interested women than time for them.

Once you have had sex with enough of them, what is your plate limit? What is your maximum number of dates in a week limit? How do you manage your rotation?

This plate management topic is not discussed enough on here. But once a guy finds himself in this situation, it becomes a little harder to manage while maintaining interest.

For instance, I got to a point using OLD where I was getting lots of numbers, setting up lots of dates, having a very low flake rate(like 1 in 20) which meant I was meeting a lot of the women and almost all of them wanted to see me again. Out of maybe 10 dates, 9 of them wanted to see me again. I can't manage 9 women so I ended up cutting it down to 7. For about 2 months I was seeing all 7 and banging all of them in rotation...once every 10 days with my top plate or two in there twice.

This literally became physically exhausting to the point my d!ck started hurting from having so much sex. It was sore when I woke up, it hurt to pee(not from catching anything I'm clean) and it got to the point I was having to turn down dates and sex...

I'm just wondering what everyone else's experience with this is and how did you manage your plates. Whats the most you had in rotation at once? How did you maintain interest, etc.

Hopefully this can be a thread where guys can discuss what to do once you have a lot of women interested in you instead of how to get a lot of women interested in you...

Well they say a rotation of 3-5 is optimal.

I'd like to understand uoir system and dating required to build your rotation.

 

[marmel75]

What happened to your marriage/relationship?

This was past tense, not now. A plate management thread was needed as there is precious little talk about this but needs to be.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

This was past tense, not now. A plate management thread was needed as there is precious little talk about this but needs to be.

I want to see how and if you wasted money on dating. How did you transitioned to sex? How did the texting go? The details.

 

[marmel75]

I want to see how and if you wasted money on dating. How did you transitioned to sex? How did the texting go? The details.

Dates were pretty much always low key...first date was drinks or if nice out walk in park/ice cream. In almost all cases if there were more than one round of drinks the woman offered to buy the next round.

Subsequent dates consisted of various things but pretty much whatever we did they either paid half or I paid one thing and they paid the next. It was never me paying for everything. Most dates were under $20.

Within a short time most dates consisted of us doing somwthing and then banging at their place afterwards and then in winter a lot of times me just going over and us cooking together, watching movie and banging.

Did I spend some money? Yeah of course, you have to. Did I spend a lot of money? Hell no...maybe a couple hundred bucks a month total at first and then maybe a hundred fifty a month after.

 

[Ero]

Have you tried doing threesome with these chicks?

 

[marmel75]

Have you tried doing threesome with these chicks?

Nope, one area where I admittedly never got to. If someone could chime in with be I they were able to make this work I'd like to know just for future reference if I ever need it.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Did you mention sex in the OLD chat? Or that didn't come up till dating?

 

[marmel75]

Did you mention sex in the OLD chat? Or that didn't come up till dating?

Nope nothing about sex in OLD or in texting unless they brought it up. My only goal was to meet in person because I knew it was a high probability they would be into me after that.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Nope nothing about sex in OLD or in texting unless they brought it up. My only goal was to meet in person because I knew it was a high probability they would be into me after that.

The first and second date ideas where important. Quiet enough for her to get to know you, fun and cheap enough that there was nothing to lose.

 

[Spaz]

I'm just wondering what everyone else's experience with this is and how did you manage your plates. Whats the most you had in rotation at once? How did you maintain interest, etc.

Hopefully this can be a thread where guys can discuss what to do once you have a lot of women interested in you instead of how to get a lot of women interested in you...

At once max was 7, that was the days before smartphones. It was physically exhausting and the stupidest thing I ever did. Juggling them just drained my spirit to such an extent that I was practically hiding from some. Women have tremendous s€xual appetites that I swear it felt on most days like a job I had to do.

Now, after years of rotating, at home base, for me max rotation is 3, anything more I can't handle. 2 would be lovely but I currently have 3.

 

[marmel75]

At once max was 7, that was the days before smartphones. It was physically exhausting and the stupidest thing I ever did. Juggling them just drained my spirit to such an extent that I was practically hiding from some. Women have tremendous s€xual appetites that I swear it felt on most days like a job I had to do.

Now, after years of rotating, at home base, for me max rotation is 3, anything more I can't handle. 2 would be lovely but I currently have 3.

Haha, that's almost exactly how i felt when it was that high...it almost became not even fun anymore...

 

[Bible_Belt]

The real benefit to maintaining interest is that the woman doesn't have sex with someone else, which is how you get an std.

 

[Spaz]

Interesting topic though, I mean the management part.

I think only certain type of men can pull this off, nothing to do with game imo, any man can pull chicks with some learned game, but he must have an inherent ability to dismiss women.

Well that's how I "think" i manage it.

Others have asked me how I manage the emotional aspects as they couldn't keep up. They could pull women and maintain the physical aspects but failed on the emotional aspects. Even having 1 plate was just too much to handle for most.

All those dismissals does eat at the "soul" over time, happened to me - perhaps this is my midlife crisis, hence with the 3 current plates; at times just wanting to reduce it to zero.

 

[Murk]

I've gone back down to 0. I mean I could make some calls and get something going, but for the past 1-2 months I have dialled back my effort to focus on myself and my new job. I feel great for it.

 

[Spaz]

If only women stops calling, messaging and sending revealing selfies, that would be of tremendous help.

It couldnt be just me, don't any of you get into that situation?

 

[R.U.G.]

I keep them around until they want to leave, throw ultimatums or start to be a pain. As Sweet Brown once said, Ain't nobody got time for that.

 

[Macaframalama]

Nope, one area where I admittedly never got to. If someone could chime in with be I they were able to make this work I'd like to know just for future reference if I ever need it.

Proximity, alcohol and willingness to make it happen. Pull your d!ck out, seriously. It would be easier telling you how many times I haven't made a threesome happen by trying to coax bisexual women into threesomes with words. ZERO! Me and a friend met a chick i was fvcking around with and her friend at the lake to drink. Long story short, we made out and i got her hot enough to let me pull her shorts down, whip my d!ck out and slow stroke it down right in front of the homie and her friend. It was a surreal experience. I would stab it and pull out and make remarks about how good it felt while making eye contact with her friend. We all went back to her friends house and ended up in her pool and swapped chicks back and forth. Another time, me and a fwb went to the city for a few days and ended up in the pool of this seedy hotel drinking where another couple was. I ended up telling my girl that i was going to snatch dudes chick and did, right there on the spot. That was another bizarre experience. Seems like every time i ended up in threesomes, trains, swaps, etc they happened along extremely wild circumstances. The second chick ended up putting her legs over her head after i busted, saying she was trying to get pregnant. I also met a white supremacist stripper at a full nude club that same week. I remember the amount of blonde headed highschool daddy's girls shacking up with thugs on Friday night blowing my mind. I ended that weekend stopping traffic in a travel plaza projectile vomiting in front of school bus full of highschool cheerleaders.

 

[Spaz]

Only 3 guys here posting their s€xual experiences/techniques with multiple women/plates/fwb?

Where's the bunch of guys who continously hound threads with their theories of chads, monkey branching, cheating, etc ? Come tell us ur real life experiences so that others might learn and benefit from it.