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Out of nowhere my ex texted me asking if I wanted to go to the movies Friday with her and some friends. She said something along the lines of "hey its (name), if you dont text back I understand but a few of us are going to the movies Friday if you're not busy I'd like you to go."
We've been broken up for about 3 months btw.
 
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amnbyrd said:
I have no interest in her whatsoever. Does it mean she still likes me though?
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It seems to be that she still likes you and wants to get on better terms. Or it's a setup so you can meet her new boyfriend.

Either way just don't respond to her and don't go to the movies.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
It seems to be that she still likes you and wants to get on better terms. Or it's a setup so you can meet her new boyfriend.
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The latter's probably unlikely, unless you broke up on bad terms. She may want to hook you up with one of her friends. She probably showed a couple of pictures of you to one of her friends and her friend fancied you. If you have facebook/myspace, this happens often.

The biggest possibility is that she still has some unexplained feelings for you, but she doesn't want to jump right back into a relationship without testing the waters. Did you break up with her or was it the other way around?
 
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Well this girls got issues so it was one of them situations and we fought a lot and got back together though the last time was because she broke up with me since I wasnt a christian and she said that bothered her. But theres no way in hell I'd go back to her.
 

If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.

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amnbyrd said:
Well this girls got issues so it was one of them situations and we fought a lot and got back together though the last time was because she broke up with me since I wasnt a christian and she said that bothered her. But theres no way in hell I'd go back to her.
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She doesn't have issues unless she is a hor! I take it that she didn't give you her ass, and that is what you wanted, so she departed - is this right?
 
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amnbyrd said:
Out of nowhere my ex texted me asking if I wanted to go to the movies Friday with her and some friends. She said something along the lines of "hey its (name), if you dont text back I understand but a few of us are going to the movies Friday if you're not busy I'd like you to go."
We've been broken up for about 3 months btw.
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she wants to either get back on terms or get something from you which she hasnt gotten in the past.

if you looking to game her again, this is a sign of slight interest.
if you dont want anything at all, discard the message. simple :)
 
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amnbyrd said:
Out of nowhere my ex texted me asking if I wanted to go to the movies Friday with her and some friends. She said something along the lines of "hey its (name), if you dont text back I understand but a few of us are going to the movies Friday if you're not busy I'd like you to go."
We've been broken up for about 3 months btw.
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Maybe she doesn't want to be a 5th wheel at the movies. Maybe she wants you to see her new boyfriend. Maybe she looks ridiculously hot now and wants to show off. Maybe she doesn't have enough money to pay for herself. Maybe she needs you to give her a ride home.
 
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You guys are forgetting the reason why she left him and why she contacts him now!!

He deleted his original post --- she left him because he wasn't a christian!
 
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she broke up with me since I wasnt a christian and she said that bothered her.

Although the passage is about marriage, in the Bible it actually says not to leave someone just because they are not a Christian. If she was trying to treat you as a wife treats a husband, she did the exact opposite of what the Bible says.
 
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haha I know what you should do!

Go and relpy to her text and say "SURE!" with so much emphasis and emotion to show that you miss her so and your hearts still broken and sh1t, when she replys and says great meet me just say ok see you tonight cutie and remember say "I missed you," with the sincerest voice . When you get there and she is with her friends go up to them and stop abruptly look bewildered but make it obvious and be close so they can ask what's wrong, when they do and she walks up to you say "I'm sorry but I thought you were someone else......I totally forgot about you!" Then say sorry you gotta go but dont leave and call up your pals and just tell them the story right in front of her and her friends about how you came thinking it was the girl you met on SATURDAY and you were going to take advantage of her and say you will meet your friends up to go to a club tonight and have some fun....then hang up turn around and wave and say "BYE" and leave.

HAHAHAHA ohh sh1t that would be awesome....actually I wanna do that to someone now....lol.
 
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amnbyrd said:
Well this girls got issues so it was one of them situations and we fought a lot and got back together though the last time was because she broke up with me since I wasnt a christian and she said that bothered her. But theres no way in hell I'd go back to her.
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I had the same problem with a girl once. She was christian, i wasn't. We broke up, months later she asked me "out." I went. I thought she was trying to get something going again, and that i didn't have feelings for her anymore. I was completely wrong about both. She was really "nuetral" and it was kind of hard seeing her again.
 
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Don't do something just to spite her. That is a bigger AFC move than crawling back to her.

Well this girls got issues so it was one of them situations and we fought a lot and got back together though the last time was because she broke up with me since I wasnt a christian and she said that bothered her. But theres no way in hell I'd go back to her.
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Can anyone else see the irony in this? :p

Anyway if you have different values it was never going to work out.
 
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Uggg...she sounds a little self righteous. I'd decline.
 
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