Glassguy
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Its quite simple. Your purpose should be YOU.
I know that AMS focus on purpose and I agree. But AMS also focuses that purpose on entrepreneurship. Not everyone is designed or meant to be an entrepreneur. Some people already have a solid career and career advancement is their purpose. Or they have already topped out in their career advancement, make good money to live comfortably.
Your health (eating right, being physically healthy, working out, being mentally and spiritually healthy) is something that should be on everyone of our purposes. Its something that is never conquered and we have to keep working on it to maintain it.
Your finances- as long as you can live the life that YOU want to live and do so without tons of added stress to your life, you are winning. Not everyone can be a millionaire. Logistically speaking it is impossible. But everyone can achieve a $100k+ salary/earning if you are willing to put in the time and effort (skills, schooling, entrepreneurship).
Your look- You dont have to spend $200 for a Versace tee. You can find very affordable shoes, shirts, button ups, jeans, etc for minimal prices. I recommend buying a few new outfits to add to your wardrobe every month-2 months. Do a few in the summer, a few in the fall. That also covers you in the summer and winter. Stay in shape and in the course of a year you will still fit (better) into the clothing you've purchased over a 12 month period and everything is still in style.
You guys are doing things to impress women. Stop. Start doing things to better YOURSELF and you will start impressing women without trying.
Try hards are a dime a dozen out there. People who can make themselves their purpose and stay on that purpose will be happy people who are living the life THEY want to live. That is attractive to women.
That is the attraction that women will naturally see. The better the version of yourself, the more women that you will have attracted to you at your disposal. Which is also a key element in building and maintaining a rotation. If you are the best they can get, they wont go anywhere because they know as a woman that has a ticking clock, they wont find better.
All of you know that my theories are based upon self improvement. There are no magic lines or quick fixes in this game of attraction.
Stop letting society dictate who you should be, what job you should have, how much money you should make. Not everyone can look like a male fitness model making high end salaries.
But getting on a purpose to better YOURSELF.........now you are onto something. And its something that will LAST because you will see the benefits in all aspects of life. You will be happier. You will be better motivated. You will be in better shape. All while living the life you want, but continuing to chase the best version of yourself thats possible. Women will not be the scale of which you determine your value. You will determine your own value. Women will only add to that value when you have more to choose from.
It seems weird but although I do approach some women, I get a lot of women that approach me. In person, social media, etc. It seems that when I am best on my purpose of making ME better (fitness, my business, etc) that is when I get them most women coming into my orbit. Its weird but I understand why........
Its because I become a very confident version of myself when I see the results to the hard work that I have put into the one person that I have total control over: ME.
Today is the day to start making yourself better.
The first step is the start to a thousand mile journey.
Failure is the result of effort and risk. Embrace it and get back after the success. When you fail it is not time to quit, rather the time to try harder.
I know that AMS focus on purpose and I agree. But AMS also focuses that purpose on entrepreneurship. Not everyone is designed or meant to be an entrepreneur. Some people already have a solid career and career advancement is their purpose. Or they have already topped out in their career advancement, make good money to live comfortably.
Your health (eating right, being physically healthy, working out, being mentally and spiritually healthy) is something that should be on everyone of our purposes. Its something that is never conquered and we have to keep working on it to maintain it.
Your finances- as long as you can live the life that YOU want to live and do so without tons of added stress to your life, you are winning. Not everyone can be a millionaire. Logistically speaking it is impossible. But everyone can achieve a $100k+ salary/earning if you are willing to put in the time and effort (skills, schooling, entrepreneurship).
Your look- You dont have to spend $200 for a Versace tee. You can find very affordable shoes, shirts, button ups, jeans, etc for minimal prices. I recommend buying a few new outfits to add to your wardrobe every month-2 months. Do a few in the summer, a few in the fall. That also covers you in the summer and winter. Stay in shape and in the course of a year you will still fit (better) into the clothing you've purchased over a 12 month period and everything is still in style.
You guys are doing things to impress women. Stop. Start doing things to better YOURSELF and you will start impressing women without trying.
Try hards are a dime a dozen out there. People who can make themselves their purpose and stay on that purpose will be happy people who are living the life THEY want to live. That is attractive to women.
That is the attraction that women will naturally see. The better the version of yourself, the more women that you will have attracted to you at your disposal. Which is also a key element in building and maintaining a rotation. If you are the best they can get, they wont go anywhere because they know as a woman that has a ticking clock, they wont find better.
All of you know that my theories are based upon self improvement. There are no magic lines or quick fixes in this game of attraction.
Stop letting society dictate who you should be, what job you should have, how much money you should make. Not everyone can look like a male fitness model making high end salaries.
But getting on a purpose to better YOURSELF.........now you are onto something. And its something that will LAST because you will see the benefits in all aspects of life. You will be happier. You will be better motivated. You will be in better shape. All while living the life you want, but continuing to chase the best version of yourself thats possible. Women will not be the scale of which you determine your value. You will determine your own value. Women will only add to that value when you have more to choose from.
It seems weird but although I do approach some women, I get a lot of women that approach me. In person, social media, etc. It seems that when I am best on my purpose of making ME better (fitness, my business, etc) that is when I get them most women coming into my orbit. Its weird but I understand why........
Its because I become a very confident version of myself when I see the results to the hard work that I have put into the one person that I have total control over: ME.
Today is the day to start making yourself better.
The first step is the start to a thousand mile journey.
Failure is the result of effort and risk. Embrace it and get back after the success. When you fail it is not time to quit, rather the time to try harder.
