What would you do if....

[nan3109]

What would you do if your g/f was in college hanging with a guy she claimed had a g/f as well and you got on her computer and the guy IM'd you and you asked him how his g/f was and he said he didnt have one? Just wondering, i just found this out and my g/f hangs with this guy every once and awhile with groups of people.

 

[Chip]

I'd put my game face back on and go out there to make some "friends".
And the soon to be ex-g/f can just be a side-dish.

 

[Befuddled]

I dont know about you, but here's what goes through my mind.

if i were in your situation:
1. i wouldnt have posed as your gf, but thats besides the point. i understand why you did it, but that dosent make it right. Anywho...

2. The fact that you would do it, only tells me one thing. lack of trust in your relationship.

3. The F-A-C-T that he did not have a girlfriend, and she told you he did means that she definately lied to you and that you had every right to be suspicious. Now....the result of all this depends on your threshold.

Me ? i wont be able to trust her...and the question would arise....why would she lie to me about him ?

What should you do ? i think you know the situation in it's entirety and so only you can probably descide what to do now.

But... you aught to realize that you.... have the upper hand.

Hope that helped.
Cheers.

 

[NewMan]

Thoughts...

Wouldn't your GF know whether he has a GF or not?

So when you asked this question, wouldn't the guy already know that she new?

 

[jbbrain]

the key to solving the jealouisy problem is perspective:

Bungo said once "She'll make her choice"

Dont confront her about it, dont play the jealousy tip either. Wait on things, stay alert (not suspicious) and see how things unfold. good luck.