What would you do if you were me?

[DoleEater]

Ok heres my situation basically in a nutshell. I'm a 5th year college student with a bad rep in this college. Basically I have alot of haters who talk alot of **** about me. I don't really want to go into it since that's not really the main purpose of this thread. So pretty much for the most part trying to **** any girls on this campus is pretty much a no go. I mean I could try, but it's probably more trouble than its worth, since my social proof is shot to all hell. I used to have a sort of crew here that I chilled with, went to parties with whatever, but I started realizing these guys were the main source of all this bull****, and now we don't really chill that much. I'm not a virgin, and I've ****ed a couple different girls from when I used to still party and had connections, but I havent ****ed a chick for awhile now. I'm attractive enough to girls that I notice some checking me out frequently enough, and in the past girls have expressed interest in me. So the problem isn't really attracting girls, but getting into situations were I can **** some. So like the title says what would you do if you were me? Try for chicks in this school despite my rep (trust me its bad), try chicks in other schools? Cold approach random chicks when im out shopping/errands? Any other ideas?

 

[Alle_Gory]

Maybe you can start with the rep problem. What happened?

 

[DonGorgon]

Walk alone and strong and you will attract the independent thinkers..

 

[Groovy]

You could manage to use that bad rep problem to your advantage.

 

[Tear Gas]

how in the hell do you get a rep so bad that every girl on campus doesnt like you? i find it hard to believe EVERY girl on campus will know who you are unless you go to a very small school.

 

[jon3947]

Just act relaxed and chill, never ever get hostile, i did this with my school, and now i am better friends with the guys and all the chicks are noticing me now

 

[apusislaya]

What you really asking, is should I conform and become someone I am not, or be myself.

Now, let me tell you, I'm 27, and I am a virgin. I ain't no AFC, but I am a virgin.

It's all GREY and FUZZY because she THINKS with her FEELINGS.

She thinks differently, left side of our brains is masculine, right side is feminine. She's using more of her right side than us. We are unable to understand them, because we think differently.




Now, brother. The question "what would you do if you were me" is a like "what do I need to do to fit in".....



Walk alone and strong and you will attract the independent thinkers..

Walk with the crowd and conform to things and you will attract the normal people..

Attract the regular people or fascinating people?


Question is what do you want?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gE5rHxymrVg



I had bad rep throughout high school and college. Made me a social retard. Conform to the system and be considered normal, go against it, and be unpopular.

 

[everywomanshero]

I think, with all do respect, this bad rep excuse is the biggest pile of bull**** I've ever heard. Is this campus only 10 people large and isolated in a cornfield? People are probably far less interested in your life than you imagine, and you'd probably be surpised how many people have no clue who you are. Don't be so egocentric, people's lives probably don't involve thinking about you on a daily basis. No go out there, man up, and **** something. No excuses, make it happen.

 

[DoleEater]

I think, with all do respect, this bad rep excuse is the biggest pile of bull**** I've ever heard. Is this campus only 10 people large and isolated in a cornfield? People are probably far less interested in your life than you imagine, and you'd probably be surpised how many people have no clue who you are. Don't be so egocentric, people's lives probably don't involve thinking about you on a daily basis. No go out there, man up, and **** something. No excuses, make it happen.

Well my school is pretty small.. only 9,000 people. But I guess you're right. Besides what do I have to lose. Only thing I'm worried about is talking to some girl, then losing her if someone starts gossiping about me to her.

 

[DonJuan11]

Ok heres my situation basically in a nutshell. I'm a 5th year college student with a bad rep in this college. Basically I have alot of haters who talk alot of **** about me. I don't really want to go into it since that's not really the main purpose of this thread. So pretty much for the most part trying to **** any girls on this campus is pretty much a no go. I mean I could try, but it's probably more trouble than its worth, since my social proof is shot to all hell. I used to have a sort of crew here that I chilled with, went to parties with whatever, but I started realizing these guys were the main source of all this bull****, and now we don't really chill that much. I'm not a virgin, and I've ****ed a couple different girls from when I used to still party and had connections, but I havent ****ed a chick for awhile now. I'm attractive enough to girls that I notice some checking me out frequently enough, and in the past girls have expressed interest in me. So the problem isn't really attracting girls, but getting into situations were I can **** some. So like the title says what would you do if you were me? Try for chicks in this school despite my rep (trust me its bad), try chicks in other schools? Cold approach random chicks when im out shopping/errands? Any other ideas?

If you can attract girls easily because you are attractive, but don't want to sleep with girls at your school because of your bed rep, the try to sleep with girls outside of your school.

I don't understand the whole preface to the question.

 

[Dannyrt34]

Only 9,000? Wow you are screwed.

STOP making excuses bud, you'll be fine. Just go out and fvck girls.
That's what I would do.

 

[Perfect10]

I've got two things for you.

Go to a bar and get laid.
&
Care about yourself and let people care about you in anyway they want. It's their problem, right?

 

[Solomon]

I've got two things for you.

Go to a bar and get laid.
&
Care about yourself and let people care about you in anyway they want. It's their problem, right?

I c/s this

Either this guy got caught with his pants down in a male orgy, or he was on dateline nbc for being a pedophile

If its those two things then yeah, do yourself a favor and shoot yourself

 

[PectoralisMajor]

RE:What would you do if you were me?

learn to use paragraphs as a priority, to allow others to read your posts without causing headaches.

look - this is a paragraph.

so is this

and here

yep you guessed it, another.

 

[Metaphysical]

It doesn't matter what your reputation is like. Who cares?

Go to other places where people don't know you. I don't even like picking up girls around my zone because I don't want to run into them again once I am done with them.

 

[Groovy]

Well my school is pretty small.. only 9,000 people.

I HOPE that was sarcastic... Otherwise what are you thinking man? You stupid?

There are 500 in my school, and no one has your problem... Things are not the way you think!

Unless you WERE being sarcastic...

 

[Prodigy746]

Whats the bad rep about??? You are a player? you use drugs? you have small penis ??? We prolly need to know that...


If my rep was so bad that i couldnt get girls in college i would prolly transfer to another one and start fresh. There are literally 1000's of colleges around the world.