What would you do if a guy makes you very *uncomfortable*

[Exo]

Hey,

Got out of HS recently(GCE technically), and the person in question is thankfully nowhere to be seem. Basically this guy keeps ****ing hitting on me! This went on for the better part of the whole school year and nothing seemed to really dter em: talking to a friend(his best mate), explaining staright up that I'm strait, punch in the face, NOTHING!

The ******* actually DJ principals too(kino, the handshake trick, C/F, etc). During on of our finals exams we were waiting in line and this ****let is standing WAY too close(like a dry hump)- quick jab in face did the trick for a while there.

Anyway I'm prety sure I didnt handle the situations very well since I had a bit of a dry spell last year and this crapza almost spreads rumours that I'm gay or something. So what would a good way of handling things like this be in future?

Thanks in advance

 

[diplomatic_lies]

First of all, are you a guy? Second, if so, is this guy gay, or just being a d!ck?

 

[Exo]

Yeah I'm a guy, and I guess he's gay on top of being a needle ****(never really said it but didnt deny it either).

 

[DrBeard]

Giv him a blow job + bite his d!ck off or flick his balls real hard!

 

[Skel]

give in to his advances and let him have his way with you

 

[Exo]

Wouldnt want to take any of your action away skel..

 

[Shiftkey]

Get a restraining order

 

[ethnomethodologist]

I say double on the restrainging order...

go to the plice station and say you'd prefer a female... if she's not hot, tough luck, than say you want a restraining order against the guy. He won't stop touching you, and your afraid for your manhood.

I'd be afraid to go the bar if I were you, he might slip you something in your drink. Then you would wake up in the morning wearing a **** ring, a ball gag, and with a butt plug in your ass all tied up in a room full of mirrors or something

 

[KarmaSutra]

Giv him a blow job + bite his d!ck off or flick his balls real hard!

priceless!

 

[backbreaker]

i've been asked out by a couple of guys.. one actually asked did I want to **** him in so many words.

In all honestly, and this is my viewpoint on it. I am not homophobic in the least bit. I don't buy all of the gay sterotypes or anything like that either.

We talk about men not having the balls to appraoch women they are interested in, so if a guy sees me, and has the nerve to actually ask me out, with the odds being slim to none that I will say yes simply because there aren't that many gay people in the US (actually more than I thought), I am not in the least bit offended.

A simple "no, I don't swing that way" or something like "no thanks" is simple enough, and they understand and respect you for it.

What gets me is when you make it known you don't get down like that and they still persue you. I've had a guy stalker before.. it's not fun because everyone assumes you are gay as well.. also considering I wear slacks alot..yeah, it's not fun

but to answer the question, reject them like we wish girls would reject guys that approach them.. short and to the point, but respectful

 

[Cruise]

Say in your gayest tonality, "I'm taken honey, sorry, whoop whoop!" and walk off like your walking the catwalk.

 

[Exo]

Things eem to have worked out..

I ran into the ******* again the day after posting: he lost a good part of his left canine and that seems to have done the trick( he was near a friends house and said hey, asked for directions and kept clean).

Sayt backbreaker what hapened with stalker?

 

[shydude]

Well first see if he acts like that with all guys! He has any gf?? And if he acts liek that more, just talk to him! U might start actin gay with him somewhere in private that way if he is not gay, he might even get scared and just nor mess u anymore!! Like in the movies oemtimes guy huggs hip and the gay guy that pretends to be gay just runs away!!!

 

[Gonzalo]

Make him buy you dinner, then don't answer his calls.

 

[tipsy_619]

When he whispers sweet nothings in ur ear
Just blurt out " NO I WILL NOT HAVE SEX WITH YOU!"
out loud in front of everyone.

 

[Exo]

So far so good, no sign of em and now there's a guy at a local burger place who seems to be coming on to me. Maybe it's just me(really been of my game after that incident) gives me the slow talk(doesnt with anyone else that I can notice) and a sort of "checkin out" smile. The food aint that great so I dont go there anymore(most of the guys that work there are desperate so rather not get em fired if it can be avoided easely).

I'm just going to go hit on some ho's as far as my rep is concerned but have any of youi ever had trouble with people thinking your gay? NFI on how many people believe it or how far it's spread but DAMN it's really throwing of my game(yea I know all in my head).

 

[Wyldfire]

lol...sorry, but this is kinda humorous. Look at it this way...now you know exactly how girls and women feel when some lecherous f*cktard we don't like and don't want near us continues to slobber all over us even after being told in no uncertain terms to piss off. It's not pleasant, I know...but look at it this way...at least you are probably just as strong physically as he is so if it comes down to it, you can defend yourself against him. That means you mostly feel really uncomfortable but don't really fear him in the same way a woman likely would.

 

[Exo]

Lol thats a nice way of looking at it, though I got to disagre on the details: if it were a woman it woul'nt atleast spread rumours of being gay, being starit and in a bit of a slump doesnt do much for you mojo.

I'm going to that burger place in a few minutes(mom's making me - everywhere else is closed). Well I'll have a talk with the manager if he doesnt stop. God ****ing damnit!

 

[Wyldfire]

I have two highschool aged sons. There is a boy who rides their bus and goes to their school who is gay. He tries to flirt with my older son all the time. My boys laugh about it and tease each other in good fun. They both have girlfriends and even if they didn't, they wouldn't be too bothered by it. I think part of the problem with your situation is that the way you are reacting to it. I think the more upset you get by what he's doing, not only the more he's going to do it but the more people will wonder about you. A guy who is secure in the fact that he's not gay will laugh about it, and say something in a lispy voice like "I know you want me but only a chick can handle a man like me." or something similar.

I can't help but wonder if there is a bit more to this story than you've shared with us. It's not really common for a gay guy to do what this guy is doing to you. Have you ever made rude comments to or about him being gay? If you have done anything like that at all, he might be doing this in retaliation for that. I'm not trying to say you brought it onto yourself at all. This is just really odd behavior. I've known plenty of gay people and I've never known someone to behave like that.

 

[picard]

Giv him a blow job + bite his d!ck off or flick his balls real hard!

That's funny. tell him buzz off bucco or else you will get a baseball bat to your head. :trouble: