What would make you immediately dump a girl?

[RKTek]

Scenario:

You've been dating for a couple of months (60 days) she's gorgeous ("8"+) and have had sex at least twice. What would she do, say, show, or divulge about herself that would make you immediately dump her? I include a partial list for your consideration:


-body piercing
-tattoo(s)
-drug use
-cheating
-incredibly disgusting past (she was a 'ho') but now says she's changed
-lesbian relationship
-criminal record
-lying
-physically violent
-desire for kinky sex (way past your own preferences)


Which of the above, or other things would you consider to be non-negotiable to either never date a girl in the first place or to unceremoniously dump her the moment you found out?

I'm editing this to add:

-STD (herpes, syphillis, ghonorrhea, AIDS, or any other yucky body stuff)
-doesn't shave
-poor hygeine (mouth, body, body odor)
-used to be really fat, but lost weight to better date

 

[Epic]

Cheating would be one for me, but it would all depend on how many times she has done it. Also, I would do it if she was physically violent. Those are just two things I do not have the patience to deal with and chances are if she has done it once she'll probably do it again.

 

[Kwah]

Cheating is the only one I can say for certain I would dump her ass in an instant.

 

[Disco]

Cheating
Criminal Record
Lying - I hate liars
Physically Abusive

That's just me. But I won't even think about dating a girl unless she has a college degree or is working towards a better future. Why should I be the only one with the cheddar?

 

[Ace of Spades]

Originally posted by RKTek
Scenario:




-drug use
-cheating
-incredibly disgusting past (she was a 'ho') but now says she's changed
-criminal record
-lying
-physically violent
-desire for kinky sex (way past your own preferences)

All of those, plus:

Smoking

 

[trajhenkhet]

I used to wonder about this one myself but not anymore. If she actively flirted with other dudes or got other dudes numbers then send her butt back home and stay away. Or if your just looking to bump uglies, I recommend being as explicit to her as possible and keep things sexual. The desire for odd "sex" early on is a warning sign. If she don't get it from you she will get it from someone else.

 

[InLawsHateMe]

Nothing says 'I'm dumping yo ass' more than when a chic sells ya out. My ex-wife was a sellout.... once a sellout, always a sellout fellas. If her word doesn't mean anything to her, then it don't mean a thang to me..... DUMPED BABY!

 

[Don Ronny]

InLawsHateMe,

why do your inlaws hate you?

 

[InLawsHateMe]

Originally posted by Don Ronny
InLawsHateMe,

why do your inlaws hate you?

They don't really. ....they love me. It's more or less, a joke these days.... I don't know anyone that 'hates' me ...and even if they did, I can give a rats ass.

I should just change it to 'SomeFathersDontTrustMeWhenTheyFirst MeetMeBecauseI'mForRealandyourDaughterisHavingSexWithMe'...


When I met my ex-wife, her dad onced told me if I ever broke his daughter's heart, he'd shoot me.... I said, 'Will you shoot her if she breaks mine? ....Dad?' .... probably shouldn't have said that.. but he was a great guy, I really liked him.... when her and I separated, I called him to apologize to him for hurting her feelings. He lived 1000 miles away. He thought I was a pretty stand up guy for doing that.... he told me during that phone conversation that, 'I know you want to work this out, but if you guys get together, and down the road, have another fallout, let it go... it's done.' ..wouldn't you know it, down the road, we had a fallout and I told her, 'I promised your dad that if we had another fallout, I would file for divorce, and save ourselves from anymore misery.' she was like 'HE TOLD YOU WHAT?!?!'

My present gf, who is pregnant with my first child..well, her Dad threaten to cut off my balls. 8) ....he's a good guy, he's happy for us.

BTW...
F! all the haters.

 

[Don Ronny]

Originally posted by InLawsHateMe

I should just change it to 'SomeFathersDontTrustMeWhenThey MeetMeBecauseI'mForReal'...

LOL..I hear that! I once had this girl's pops chase me with an axe after he found us doin the wild thang his Dodge! He never liked me to begin with and always told me to "watch myself"

The girl turned out to be a psycho (big surprise)

 

[mahon83050]

Originally posted by Don Ronny
LOL..I hear that! I once had this girl's pops chase me with an axe after he found us doin the wild thang his Dodge! He never liked me to begin with and always told me to "watch myself"

The girl turned out to be a psycho (big surprise)

How about if you were about to go down on her and she had skid marks all over her panties?

 

[FlyGuy]

Originally posted by RKTek
Scenario:

You've been dating for a couple of months (60 days) she's gorgeous ("8"+) and have had sex at least twice. What would she do, say, show, or divulge about herself that would make you immediately dump her?

-body piercing
-tattoo(s)

Personally I like tattoos and plan on getting several myself. Nothing wrong with body art necessarily, people get them for different reasons. You wanna use these as red flags fine, but you're stereotyping.

-drug use

My caveat would be habitual drug use. I drink and toke on occassion myself so I can't hold it against a girl. If she lets it rule her life however, that's a different story.

-cheating
-incredibly disgusting past (she was a 'ho') but now says she's changed

Definitely!

-lesbian relationship

I'm down with bi chicks, thats just me though.

-criminal record
-lying
-physically violent
-desire for kinky sex (way past your own preferences)

Definitely. Although I'd like to say I'm open minded about sex, some things would just be too much for me (IOW it wouldn't even be a turn on for me it would just be weird)

I'm editing this to add:

-STD (herpes, syphillis, ghonorrhea, AIDS, or any other yucky body stuff)

Most definitely

-doesn't shave

This one depends for me, I'd be down with a hot French chick even if she didn't shave her pits or legs (as long as they weren't too hairy)

-poor hygeine (mouth, body, body odor)

definitely

-used to be really fat, but lost weight to better date

Hey, I can't hold this one against a lady. As long as she is in better shape and plans to stay that way I don't care.

 

[Don Ronny]

Originally posted by mahon83050
How about if you were about to go down on her and she had skid marks all over her panties?

Eeewwwwwwwwwwww!!

 

[Luscious]

-drug use
-cheating
-incredibly disgusting past (she was a 'ho') but now says she's changed
-criminal record
-lying
-STD (herpes, syphillis, ghonorrhea, AIDS, or any other yucky body stuff)
-doesn't shave
-poor hygeine (mouth, body, body odor)


I suppose you could say I'm really picky, but I don't think so.

A lot of these factors really apply to the 'well-worn girls' or 'party girls', most of the time...

I'm really satisfied with the kind of women that I can usually pull in. They usually aren't headcases with a list of faults that reads like a horror movie.

 

[InLawsHateMe]

Re: Re: What would make you immediately dump a girl?

Originally posted by Luscious
-drug use
-cheating
-incredibly disgusting past (she was a 'ho') but now says she's changed
-criminal record
-lying
-STD (herpes, syphillis, ghonorrhea, AIDS, or any other yucky body stuff)
-doesn't shave
-poor hygeine (mouth, body, body odor)


I suppose you could say I'm really picky, but I don't think so.

A lot of these factors really apply to the 'well-worn girls' or 'party girls', most of the time...

I'm really satisfied with the kind of women that I can usually pull in. They usually aren't headcases with a list of faults that reads like a horror movie.

You, are not picky bro.

Actually this list is probably the foundation fellas should go by.

 

[( . )( . )]

Originally posted by RKTek
Scenario:

You've been dating for a couple of months (60 days) she's gorgeous ("8"+) and have had sex at least twice. What would she do, say, show, or divulge about herself that would make you immediately dump her? I include a partial list for your consideration:


-body piercing
-tattoo(s)
-drug use
-cheating
-incredibly disgusting past (she was a 'ho') but now says she's changed
-lesbian relationship
-criminal record
-lying
-physically violent
-desire for kinky sex (way past your own preferences)


Which of the above, or other things would you consider to be non-negotiable to either never date a girl in the first place or to unceremoniously dump her the moment you found out?

I'm editing this to add:

-STD (herpes, syphillis, ghonorrhea, AIDS, or any other yucky body stuff)
-doesn't shave
-poor hygeine (mouth, body, body odor)
-used to be really fat, but lost weight to better date

im actually banging a chick with all the above , so i guess im out

 

[Howie Farkes]

Re: Re: What would make you immediately dump a girl?

used to be really fat, but lost weight to better date

I have no problem with this. If she's got the strength of character to lose fat and keep it off then I find that admirable.

If on the otherhand she starts off slim but begins packing on the pounds and has no intention of slowing down on the cookies and bon bons... well to quote Homer Simpson "Welcome to Dumpsville, population... YOU".

 

[jbrunner_ipa]

well, i would break up with her if i found out she's slept with some other guy in the meantime ...probably if she's done drugs b/c only knowing her that long i most likely wouldn't be commited enough to her to help her out and i don't need that in my life....as far as body piercing and tattoos, what's wrong with it?? I have a couple of tattoos, but they are greek texts that are very personal to me and my beliefs so i can't see how you can judge a girl for tattoos and body piercings, sometimes its justified.

 

[RazzleDazzle]

Mental stuff is what gets me.

-lying

definetly

-cheater

If it's habitual yes. If it happend once or twice, nah. We've all made mistakes. Not once or twice with you by the way, i mean in her past.

-mindgames

get the f*** out, she ain't worth a minute of my time. Go back and play with your barbies woman.

-fake

Otherwise known as two-faced. Lots of women are, you have to watch them closely.

-Klingy

Get her off me!

-Controlling

My life, my relationship, my rulez period.

PHysical stuff

-STD

Shows she doesn't take care of herself. Should always ask before screwing, sounds rude but think of the consequences.

-Lesbian, fat, BO.

Shows she has no self-esteem and the lesbian part because, well i don't want to lose a girl to a girl.

Those are the main ones.

 

[Oxide]

ill quote NWA. "it makes a girl think she is better than me" that is a NEXT right there.

if a girl acts different when i am around her alone rather than we are with a complany, that is a questionable NEXT.

Smoking, ill tell her to quit, if she doesnt that's a NEXT.