What went wrong?

AriMamba

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It seemed like the text conversation was going well, to the point where she suggested we go to a strip club to celebrate our birthdays.

Then i said, "oh you stripping? I'm down ;)"
And she replied with "No I don't strip sorry"

Of course I said it was just a joke but she never responded back.

What can i do?
 

SayWhat

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Look I'm just a beginning dj, but what I get from this is she was just testing. You're reply from 'it was just a joke' might have made it worse, never apologize for what you said even not in the form of it was a joke, only if it was really wrong like saying something about a dead pet etc...

Have a solid frame
 

Yewki

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She sounds uptight and is maybe a prude. Probably not your type anyways.

Your biggest mistake was to relent and say it was just a joke, as SayWhat pointed out.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Yorkex

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Another reason WHY you DONT flirt over text , expecially with a woman you are not married to or see on the regular.

These sort of convos are for the phone or in person , when she can sense the playful tone of your voice and the sarcasm. ( A woman you are dating or married to knows your tend acids and will likely read the text in your playful voice )

Consider this a lesson , save the texting for short convos and setting up dates.
 

AttackFormation

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Yewki said:
She sounds uptight and is maybe a prude. Probably not your type anyways..
This is what I take from it too.
 
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