What to text this chick whos playing games

[jay07]

Over the years me and her have sorta been on/off. About a month ago she tells me she loves me , starts calling me "babe" and "love". I didnt send those things back, but she freaked out the other night cause she seen me on my phone, she assumed i was texting other girls and sent me "am i not trying hard enough since your texting others?"

I felt bad, but i was texting my buddy anyways. But that same night she said that she opens her phone in front of me and shes texting this dude she use to hook up with, which is one of her neighbors. I confronted her about it said i dont have time for hypocrites and she spun it saying "its not like that i wasnt trying to hide it if i was i wouldnt have opene it in front of you blaa blaa"

Well i said its fine, realizing i needed to back off her anyways. But now over the past few days shes been distant, not texting me as much and waiting a while to respond. She asked me what i was doing tonight, i ask her if she wants to go to our mutual friends bonfire together and she takes 2 hours to respond after 3-4 minute intervals. As i type this she just responded "ill def. be there going together is fine".

Im done with it, this is how its been for the past few years, i really liked her but doing this stuff over and over with her just makes me upset and stressed out, i wanna send her something telling her i know what shes doing and im done with it. Ill see her tonight so i cant just ignore her completely

 

[Pimp-sicle]

First off, this chick sounds like she sucks.

Which makes me question what you are doing wasting your time with her in the first place?

Aside from that, she's not your gf, so you really have no right (shoudn't) to be calling her out on who she is texting etc.

If she's comfortable texting a dude she use to hook up with right in front of you, she's not that into you bro.

Secondly your getting way too emotionally wound up about her. The way to get a girl like this to like/want you is to not buy into her little games. Indifference bro... it will bother her and make her try harder to get your attention.

But don't let me sway you, this chick still sounds like she sucks.

The bottom line is your stuck on this chick because you likely don't have other options that appeal to you.

Remember, having no one is preferable to dealing with a chick that sucks; its just that most guys are too scared to be alone, so they stay and continue to tolerate more and more disrespect.

What qualities does she have that make her worthy of your time?








PIMP

 

[jay07]

Well i was talking to two other girls before me and her started getting more intimate. One of them was like a hb6, the other one was hotter than the current one like hb8 but annoying.

When me and her are together its just awesome she puts me on a pedestal and i love it and the sex is awesome. Its just making me angry she plays these stupid games after everything she says. For some reason i wanna blame myself cause i was distant trying to juggle her and the other girl for a while than when i drop her it seems like she now is playing mind games and its really pissing me off.

I still have the other chicks on backup but i really like this chick but know its not gonna go anywhere anymore and its really making me angry.

Should i just start completely ignoring her and never look back, or should i send her something like "hey honestly, for someone whos on the phone as much as you its kinda weird all of a sudden its taking you forever to text/call me back, your games are not something im looking to play so see ya around"

P.S. We have a past like i said, we lived together for a while and were mutual about things but than she got a bf and kinda cut me out of her life for a few months. Now we've been hanging out alot and went camping twice and this is starting to happen when she told me she wants to work toward a relationship

 

[HedoRick]

I got sucked into one of these crazy chick vortexes recently. A rookie mistake that someone my age shouldn't have made. Some of them are as good at gaming dudes as some dudes are at gaming chicks. Don't play into the BS.

Move on and spare yourself the grief. Like another poster said this chick sounds like she "sucks" and not in a good way.

 

[youngmack]

Yea HPD next

 

[jay07]

Figures, i always run into these type. Guess ill back off and keep her around to sex up. Any type of game to hit these type with, shes honestly the craziest chick ive had in bed

 

[J Roc]

Dump That B1tch!

 

[Pimp-sicle]

For some reason i wanna blame myself cause i was distant trying to juggle her and the other girl for a while than when i drop her it seems like she now is playing mind games and its really pissing me off.

Don't blame yourself.

It seems like you guys were only casually seeing each other recently, not sure if you were bf-gf in the past when you were living with her. So if you two weren't committed, you have every right (as does she) to see and talk with other people.

I still have the other chicks on backup but i really like this chick but know its not gonna go anywhere anymore and its really making me angry.

Your angry because your investing too much energy into her and she frankly doesn't deserve it. You have her on a high pedestal....WHY???

"hey honestly, for someone whos on the phone as much as you its kinda weird all of a sudden its taking you forever to text/call me back, your games are not something im looking to play so see ya around"

Definitely DO NOT send her anything like what you wrote above.

Again your letting your emotions cloud your better judgement.

Just back off for now....only you can determine what a good amount of time is.... if she has any interest in you, she will contact you. If she doesn't, then you should realize that you were an option at best to her and someone that stroke's her ego at worst.

We have a past like i said, we lived together for a while and were mutual about things but than she got a bf and kinda cut me out of her life for a few months.

I'm kinda confused, so you guys were living together in the past? But she wasn't your gf? Were you guys hooking up during this time? Then she gets a bf and just cuts you out of her life?

Now we've been hanging out alot and went camping twice and this is starting to happen when she told me she wants to work toward a relationship

Notice the theme with this chick?

She's SAYING all the things to keep you clinging on for dear life.

While she's treating you like garbage with her actions.

You shouldn't tolerate that, you don't NEED to tolerate that.

Spend more time with your other plates, even if they are annoying, smash and get your confidence back up.

Then take the blinders off and see this chick for who she really is, rather than who you want her to be.

Bottom line: I would just ignore her for a bit, let her come to you and PROVE that she is as into you as she claims. If her actions don't add up, drop her. No need to scold her or correct her, just let your actions do the talking as well.

Girls respond to actions over words.








PIMP

 

[Slickster]

She's playing hot and cold. That's your job.

Notice she started acting distant the moment you showed jealousy about her texting the other guy.

Flip the switch man.

She WANTS to be chasing you! Let her, and don't show you give a sh!t. Read up on push-pull tactics and this chick will be crazy about you.

When she gave you sh!t about texting another girl you should NEVER feel bad about that! I'm not saying lie to her but don't worry about letting her believe there are other interested women.

You could have responded like this:

1. Nope! (Being a funny ass in regards to her question about trying hard enough)

2. LOL. (Being super vague and she doesn't know what to think. Was it another girl or not.)

3. I can't help it if chicks find me irresistible! (Being ****y and funny and again vague)


You are probably doing fine, just adjust your attitude to as I've described above.

Be a Don Juan. Walk around like every woman wants you. Don't be a d!ck about it. Just be confident and know its true inside.

 

[Montague_Leach]

How about ignoring a chick who is playing games with you? I guess that would be too easy. All you are going to get is games. Find a non game playing chick.