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What to say after hello?
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You could ask her questions and get her talking. Inquire about her interest or make an a general observation in the area you are both in.
If you have decent social skills and she is mildly receptive to you then conversation with happen naturally. Don't put too much thought in what to say or make it premeditated. Just go talk to her.
If you have decent social skills and she is mildly receptive to you then conversation with happen naturally. Don't put too much thought in what to say or make it premeditated. Just go talk to her.
Thanks man but NVM. She wasn't love me. She talks or messages if i make it first. Also I saw her with other guy today.
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Hello, hello. I don't know why you say goodbye I say hello.
You say, "Yes", I say, "No"...
You say, "Stop" and I say, "Go, go, go"...
Oh, no!
You say, "Yes", I say, "No"...
You say, "Stop" and I say, "Go, go, go"...
Oh, no!
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Shes a classmate, surely you can talk about class or rag on your professor.
Guy's you read seduction from Robert greene?
Im reading "the rake" and he says "what do you say, your words isn't important, Just make her feel good. It's more important"
Actually i agree with that but about the other advices i don't know.
The book says if you're rake, Make feel her like in heaven for a moment . Compliment her like she is a angel.
So i don't know, It looks like being a puppy but Everyone loves attention, even if just for a moment.
Scaramouche
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Hi Nelysses,
"Guy's you read seduction from Robert Greene?'...Read it?Robert Greenes my nom de plume....I bought up two daughters,once you start them off squarking, it's like slipping a coin in a jukebox,the problem is turning them off....Seducing a young woman is like waging a Military campaign,these days to avoid the negative effects of Students failing your course many lecturers have group assignments,talk to her group buddies,find out about her,is she local,if not where is she from?does she have a car ride a bike,take the subway or bus,does she gym,does she attend the swimming pool,any interests or idiosynchracies?...seriously Robert Greene makes a good point about compliments,they all love a bit of Jam,who doesn't?....When you meet pick up something about her appearence...Hey,thats a nice dress,the Blue really suits your eyes,is that a new score?you really have a sense of style....when you get to know her and are more confident.....Wow,that's a nice outfit,did you put it on knowing you would meet up with me?...Love your new Hairstyle makes you look good...Yellow and Black today,they go together really well,you have great sense of colour coordination...If you can't get her talking about her hair or her wardrobe then talk about any shared unit you are doing together,that latest assignment or essay,what a Biatch that new lecturer is...When you run out of steam,I'm off to the refectory/canteen to grab a coffee,lets continue this in there,once there if you can't continue the conversation,then...I'm from Letchworth are you a local?....You have a very trim figure,guess you work out?I see you drive a New Yaris I was considering getting one of those,any thoughts....Oh really it is just so simple,open ended non threatening questions and leave them to do the talking,but have an agenda,the movies,a bike ride,a hike round the Lake whatever.
"Guy's you read seduction from Robert Greene?'...Read it?Robert Greenes my nom de plume....I bought up two daughters,once you start them off squarking, it's like slipping a coin in a jukebox,the problem is turning them off....Seducing a young woman is like waging a Military campaign,these days to avoid the negative effects of Students failing your course many lecturers have group assignments,talk to her group buddies,find out about her,is she local,if not where is she from?does she have a car ride a bike,take the subway or bus,does she gym,does she attend the swimming pool,any interests or idiosynchracies?...seriously Robert Greene makes a good point about compliments,they all love a bit of Jam,who doesn't?....When you meet pick up something about her appearence...Hey,thats a nice dress,the Blue really suits your eyes,is that a new score?you really have a sense of style....when you get to know her and are more confident.....Wow,that's a nice outfit,did you put it on knowing you would meet up with me?...Love your new Hairstyle makes you look good...Yellow and Black today,they go together really well,you have great sense of colour coordination...If you can't get her talking about her hair or her wardrobe then talk about any shared unit you are doing together,that latest assignment or essay,what a Biatch that new lecturer is...When you run out of steam,I'm off to the refectory/canteen to grab a coffee,lets continue this in there,once there if you can't continue the conversation,then...I'm from Letchworth are you a local?....You have a very trim figure,guess you work out?I see you drive a New Yaris I was considering getting one of those,any thoughts....Oh really it is just so simple,open ended non threatening questions and leave them to do the talking,but have an agenda,the movies,a bike ride,a hike round the Lake whatever.
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Man I understand this. But I couldn't understand something.
There is a small line between being Rake and abuse her or beaing a puppy. I just wonder where to stop?
I know A girl doesn't want me, Book says nvm it and keep talking, keep flirty behaviors. But in normal life i don't do that. I just say okay and keep looking for other girls. I can't understand this.
Also I read Pook etc. I searched redpill and masculanity, All of them says same with me. But Book doesn't
So I couldn't understand what to do.
Scaramouche
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Hi Nelysses,
" There is a small line between being a Rake and abusing her or being a puppy. I just wonder where to stop?" What dill brain said that?it is not a fine line at all,its a multi lane highway with every shade of relationship in between...don't so much worry about stopping more about starting...We've sat you on the potty,it's for you to perform.
" There is a small line between being a Rake and abusing her or being a puppy. I just wonder where to stop?" What dill brain said that?it is not a fine line at all,its a multi lane highway with every shade of relationship in between...don't so much worry about stopping more about starting...We've sat you on the potty,it's for you to perform.
I know a girl who doesn't want me.
More precisely, I was very slow in approaching him. For months I just stared and now we've only chatted twice. I didn't compliment him in conversations either. So I feel like I'm late.
The girl doesn't say good morning unless I say it. If I don't talk, she doesn't talk to me.
I saw the girl having coffee with someone else and now I'm curious.
How should I treat the girl?
Normally I ignored it, but when I read this book, I realized that I should try my luck, even if it was small.
But like I said, I don't want to look like a dog after being rejected.
I don't know.
Also for example. Normally while I'm senging first message on Instagram, I say something about photo or I ask something about photo. Then she replies and I say something about she...
But Should I compliment in 1st message? I saw a photo but what to to than?
But Should I compliment in 1st message? I saw a photo but what to to than?
Scaramouche
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Hi Nelysses,
In life there are product people and process people.those that do and those that teach...The dating guru who published your book is one of the latter....I once worked with a Guy who produced what was the standard text for Structural Mechanics in Australia,great Guy but a hopeless Engineer,working on a Bridge,his design had so many heavy reinforcing rods in its columns that the poor Builder couldn't pour the concrete between them...You have missed the Boat on this Lady...Next!
In life there are product people and process people.those that do and those that teach...The dating guru who published your book is one of the latter....I once worked with a Guy who produced what was the standard text for Structural Mechanics in Australia,great Guy but a hopeless Engineer,working on a Bridge,his design had so many heavy reinforcing rods in its columns that the poor Builder couldn't pour the concrete between them...You have missed the Boat on this Lady...Next!
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Please tell me you aren't talking about seducing your own daughters.
Scaramouche
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Hi Nelysses,
Your spelling,sentence construction and grammer suggest that English is not your native language?Do you indeed live in an English speaking Country?
Your spelling,sentence construction and grammer suggest that English is not your native language?Do you indeed live in an English speaking Country?
No, We are speaking Turkish all the day
So I just learned 2 years English in middle School. So I don't know so good.When I go some places that speaking english I understand and i can speak a little bit but if I try to write long paragraphs I use translate.
If there is mistakes sorry for that.
Man as i said I couldn't understand English so good
Can you plase explain with less examples like Mechanics
If you tell directly I understand better.
I couldn't understand why i missed this girl?
Scaramouche
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Hi Nelysses,
Before Covid for many years during our cold winters,I would spend six weeks every year in your lovely country a week in Istanbul and the rest of the time in Fethiye or Antalya...What a great hospitable Country....I am interested in Byzantine History and Culture so imagine my pleasure at seeing buildings like Haj Sofia,the Blue Mosque also places like Troy not to mention Gallipoli which is sacred ground to Australians...Oh Friend I am at a complete loss to advise you on your problem with this Lady,I just never saw Girls or Women in Turkey I danced in Istanbul and Fethiye but the free Ladies were it seemed all Expats....the whole place of Females in Moslem Culture seems so different to ours.
Before Covid for many years during our cold winters,I would spend six weeks every year in your lovely country a week in Istanbul and the rest of the time in Fethiye or Antalya...What a great hospitable Country....I am interested in Byzantine History and Culture so imagine my pleasure at seeing buildings like Haj Sofia,the Blue Mosque also places like Troy not to mention Gallipoli which is sacred ground to Australians...Oh Friend I am at a complete loss to advise you on your problem with this Lady,I just never saw Girls or Women in Turkey I danced in Istanbul and Fethiye but the free Ladies were it seemed all Expats....the whole place of Females in Moslem Culture seems so different to ours.
Actually It isn't.
For many years there are western admirations in our teens. So actually we aren't living like Muslim Culture. But there is a problem: I don't living in that places
I am in a small town for University. So people doesn't to social.
Actually I tried to be a "Rake" in 1st class of University.
The book says It is not a problem to people knows you as a rake but in my class everyone says "He tries to speak everyone" so they didn't like it. They stay away from me.
Now I don't know should I read the book.