I met a girl the other day at my work, and it seems like me and her would get along pretty well. I was going to ask her out until she told me that she has a boyfriend.
I joked around with her one time about going out, and she seemed to like it. Every now and then she says I am Number 1 in line for her.
Before you say anything about me being a AFC; I didn’t really take it as much, and I'm not going to sit around on my ass and wait for her to break up with her boyfriend. There is no way in hell I would do that. I'm going to keep L-I-V-I-N. But after talking to her for awhile, and knowing her friends pretty well I can tell that she would make a good girlfriend. From what her best friend tells me she enjoys being around me, and that she is not "playing" with me. She seems to be a mature confident girl.
She has said a few things about her boyfriend, and seems like there close, but comparing the way he lives to her is different. Basically this is no guy that she would ever get married to. I think she likes the fact that he is basically a bad ass.
Now I have to work with her quite often. At our work it's just two people behind a counter, and there is quite a bit of down time. So there is a lot of talking going on.
Now with knowing this how do I keep out of the friendship zone with her so maybe some day I can go out with her if things by chance work out. Basically I just want to know how to act around her if there is a way to keep me out of the friendship zone. What to talk about and stuff like that.
Stuff like this happended before (cool girl w/ a boyfreind), and I have just said "**** it" basically and walked away. But I figure why not take a chance this time.
I joked around with her one time about going out, and she seemed to like it. Every now and then she says I am Number 1 in line for her.
Before you say anything about me being a AFC; I didn’t really take it as much, and I'm not going to sit around on my ass and wait for her to break up with her boyfriend. There is no way in hell I would do that. I'm going to keep L-I-V-I-N. But after talking to her for awhile, and knowing her friends pretty well I can tell that she would make a good girlfriend. From what her best friend tells me she enjoys being around me, and that she is not "playing" with me. She seems to be a mature confident girl.
She has said a few things about her boyfriend, and seems like there close, but comparing the way he lives to her is different. Basically this is no guy that she would ever get married to. I think she likes the fact that he is basically a bad ass.
Now I have to work with her quite often. At our work it's just two people behind a counter, and there is quite a bit of down time. So there is a lot of talking going on.
Now with knowing this how do I keep out of the friendship zone with her so maybe some day I can go out with her if things by chance work out. Basically I just want to know how to act around her if there is a way to keep me out of the friendship zone. What to talk about and stuff like that.
Stuff like this happended before (cool girl w/ a boyfreind), and I have just said "**** it" basically and walked away. But I figure why not take a chance this time.