In a couple of posts that I have made recently about this one AW that I have been "involved" with. Anyway the story goes like this. She originally approached me through a mutual friend/school, well I though that we hit it off, she was showing crazy interest, she even flat out asked my for my email within minutes of first talking to me. Then I bought my first cell phone, and within a day of me getting my friends number (the mutual one) she emails me asking for my number. I'm here thinking that things are going great for me, what can I do wrong.
We start flirting more and more, and I suggest that we hang out sometime, she seemed cool with that, but she had to find time that she could, she does work a lot (I know for a fact) but she just doesn't get back to me about our "date," yet keeps texting nonstop (I always had at least two messages a day from her), talking, and such with me. Then a week later she then suggests that we hang out, but then tells me that she again needs to figure out when she works, I didn't agree to a time because I needed to find time myself and I had a feeling she would not reply again. She doesn't give me a date, so I basically nexted her.
Last week she texts me randomly out of the blue asking if we "are just friends" because she feels like shes "leading me on, and I don't have those feeling for you". I tell her I didn't have "those" feeling for her, then she asks me for adivce on what she should do with the guy she "has feelings for," I never replied. She then texts me with an upset tone with "so you dont talk to me now" I replied that I have more important thing to do with my life then wonder what my friends are doing 24/7, and I leave it at that.
Then today I get a message from her wondering how I'm doing basically how life's going. Does this chic not get the fact that I'm not going to be some little AFC friend, is that what women like this are after, is this common for AW's to try and keep men around they feel that they can manipulate like this? Or could it be possible that this AW has still feels some sort of attraction to me? I'd really love to hit it and quit it, but I don't want to but up with too much **** trying.
any advice
We start flirting more and more, and I suggest that we hang out sometime, she seemed cool with that, but she had to find time that she could, she does work a lot (I know for a fact) but she just doesn't get back to me about our "date," yet keeps texting nonstop (I always had at least two messages a day from her), talking, and such with me. Then a week later she then suggests that we hang out, but then tells me that she again needs to figure out when she works, I didn't agree to a time because I needed to find time myself and I had a feeling she would not reply again. She doesn't give me a date, so I basically nexted her.
Last week she texts me randomly out of the blue asking if we "are just friends" because she feels like shes "leading me on, and I don't have those feeling for you". I tell her I didn't have "those" feeling for her, then she asks me for adivce on what she should do with the guy she "has feelings for," I never replied. She then texts me with an upset tone with "so you dont talk to me now" I replied that I have more important thing to do with my life then wonder what my friends are doing 24/7, and I leave it at that.
Then today I get a message from her wondering how I'm doing basically how life's going. Does this chic not get the fact that I'm not going to be some little AFC friend, is that what women like this are after, is this common for AW's to try and keep men around they feel that they can manipulate like this? Or could it be possible that this AW has still feels some sort of attraction to me? I'd really love to hit it and quit it, but I don't want to but up with too much **** trying.
any advice
