DoubleC
Don Juan
What's up everyone, been reading for a while now but decided to finally post. Here's the background with this girl:
We're both in the same grade, we had been going out for almost 1.5 years now. Over the past month, she started becoming slightly flakey, and we stopped talking/hanging out as much. I attributed most of this to graduation and stuff, but things didn't change. A week or so after graduation, we decided to cut off the relationship, but continue to hook up and remain friends (I know, bad idea). She said that making out is ok, but anything past that would make things awkward, and I agreed, for the time being.
A week went by, we didn't really talk or hang out much, as I was busy with other friends and didn't have time for her. We hung out one night, she was on her period but she gave me head, and after we hung out it came up that she had made out with a guy at a party the night before. (I had some mutual friends at the party, which was small, and I know for a fact it was just a makeout.) This annoyed me, but not so much that I cut off all talking to her. For the next week, we rarely talked and didn't hang out at all. I hooked up with another chick, and then her best friends, who basically sided with me on the issues of the relationship, called me to tell me some news, and that was at another party, her and another guy ended up fvcking, no condom.
Now I obviously never want to talk to her again, but she thinks I don't know and she's still talking to me like nothing happened. I was wondering what the best way to approach the situation would be. For now, I have been playing ignorant when she texts, acting like everything is normal, and I was gonna wait to confront her about it until the next time we "hung out," where I would have brought it up right away.
What would be the best approach? Play along until I get the chance to see her face to face, or just confront her about it over the phone and end things there? Also, her best friends still said they want to be friends with me even after I cut off everything with my ex. They've been awesome to me the whole time, and have basically stopped hanging out with my ex-gf because they're "embarrassed by her."
Sorry for the long first post, but I was wondering what the best thing to do is in this situation, and I figured you guys here would have some good ideas.
We're both in the same grade, we had been going out for almost 1.5 years now. Over the past month, she started becoming slightly flakey, and we stopped talking/hanging out as much. I attributed most of this to graduation and stuff, but things didn't change. A week or so after graduation, we decided to cut off the relationship, but continue to hook up and remain friends (I know, bad idea). She said that making out is ok, but anything past that would make things awkward, and I agreed, for the time being.
A week went by, we didn't really talk or hang out much, as I was busy with other friends and didn't have time for her. We hung out one night, she was on her period but she gave me head, and after we hung out it came up that she had made out with a guy at a party the night before. (I had some mutual friends at the party, which was small, and I know for a fact it was just a makeout.) This annoyed me, but not so much that I cut off all talking to her. For the next week, we rarely talked and didn't hang out at all. I hooked up with another chick, and then her best friends, who basically sided with me on the issues of the relationship, called me to tell me some news, and that was at another party, her and another guy ended up fvcking, no condom.
Now I obviously never want to talk to her again, but she thinks I don't know and she's still talking to me like nothing happened. I was wondering what the best way to approach the situation would be. For now, I have been playing ignorant when she texts, acting like everything is normal, and I was gonna wait to confront her about it until the next time we "hung out," where I would have brought it up right away.
What would be the best approach? Play along until I get the chance to see her face to face, or just confront her about it over the phone and end things there? Also, her best friends still said they want to be friends with me even after I cut off everything with my ex. They've been awesome to me the whole time, and have basically stopped hanging out with my ex-gf because they're "embarrassed by her."
Sorry for the long first post, but I was wondering what the best thing to do is in this situation, and I figured you guys here would have some good ideas.
