What to do when she's turned cold?

Jespin

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There's this girl I got her # last week and we hit it off great. But on Friday night she changed. So on Tuesday I sent her a text asking if she was ok and she replied "I'm fine...honestly!" But she's still cold. She takes forever to respond,she doesn't laugh at my jokes anymore, and she also said "you're the guy text me first or we don't talk" after I asked her to text me. So on Wednesday I sent her a text saying how I miss our old convos and I asked her to tell me her feelings towards me (I know huge mistake!)...and no response.
So I decided that I'm not going to Chase her anymore. Maybe I'll go MIA and initiate contact in a few weeks.
What should I do?
 

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Game over with this one. Delete her number. Lol.
 

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You f*cked up if she was even interested to begin with, delete her number.
 

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"I'm so hot for her, I'm so hot for her, and She's So cold."

Jespin said:
Wednesday I sent her a text saying how I miss our old convos and I asked her to tell me her feelings towards me

and no response.

Maybe I'll go MIA and initiate contact in a few weeks.
Don't say stupid sh1t like that to chicks because you will always get no reponse after you turn them off.

Why bother initiating contact? It's over, she won't reply. Do you think she is going to forget about that last text you sent? LOL

Don't be a troll and come back and say that after a week of NC you got her in the sack after you made a fatal mistake like this. ;)
 
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Hey Jespin!

It's very easy to get carried away when a woman shows interest in you, especially being younger. There's not much you can do at this point, but FORGIVE YOURSELF! Understand that you chased her too hard. Put your palm against the wall and give it a push. The harder you push, the more resistance you get.

The most important thing to do is forgive yourself and move on to the next one. Deleting the number and contact information helps.
 

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I'm pretty sure this is GG, even without that final texting blunder, her going cold is a sign of the end
 

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Yeah oh well. I don't know what I was thinking, but I learned from my mistakes. Thanks
 

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Live and learn.
Delete the number and move forward. This is why it is important to have a few 'plates' spinning, so you don't over invest in one prospect.
In future, don't get caught up in text conversation. Build rapport when you first meet and keep texting to a minimum, especially early on. Just use it to set up your next meeting.
 

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Jespin said:
There's this girl I got her # last week and we hit it off great... So on Tuesday I sent her a text asking if she was ok and she replied "I'm fine...honestly!" But she's still cold. She takes forever to respond,she doesn't laugh at my jokes anymore, and she also said "you're the guy text me first or we don't talk" after I asked her to text me. So on Wednesday I sent her a text saying how I miss our old convos and I asked her to tell me her feelings towards me...
Why do so many guys underestimate the power of clarity?

What did you want from this girl? Approval? Friendship?

What was it about her that interested you in the first place? Is it the texting? Is it the fact that she laughed at your jokes? Did you just want to talk?

Have you even f*cked this girl?

I have never seen a case of a man texting his way into a girl's pants before...I'm sure no one else has either, so what does constantly texting her ACTUALLY accomplish?

Just something to think about OP...
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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I've texted my way into a few pants.

Not worth the effort though to be honest, and they weren't very attractive either. I've come a long way since then haha.
 

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Jespin said:
There's this girl I got her # last week and we hit it off great. But on Friday night she changed. So on Tuesday I sent her a text asking if she was ok and she replied "I'm fine...honestly!" But she's still cold. She takes forever to respond,she doesn't laugh at my jokes anymore, and she also said "you're the guy text me first or we don't talk" after I asked her to text me. So on Wednesday I sent her a text saying how I miss our old convos and I asked her to tell me her feelings towards me (I know huge mistake!)...and no response.
So I decided that I'm not going to Chase her anymore. Maybe I'll go MIA and initiate contact in a few weeks.
What should I do?
This chick is done. What should you do? Never text her again and move on to a better, hotter chick once you've improved upon yourself.

Start off by not texting so frequently so as to create some mystery, and make DAMN SURE you aren't having in-depth convos with her via text as if you're a dude with no life and too much time on your hands. And even if this is the case, with women, perception is reality. You're a high-value man with too much stuff to do and too many chicks to contact to be texting her all of the time. Get it?

Go back and read Anti-Dump's stuff.
 

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Your princess is in another castle. Erase and replace, she already did that to you. Chasing is a lost cause in these cases anyway.

Case closed.
 
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