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What to do when i see a hot girl on the street?

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So i was walking down the street, and this hot chick just past me by. I didn't know what to do. She wasn't looking at anything or stopping, so i couldn't start up a conversation. The only thing that came into my mind was asking for help or something. Idk how a conversation like that would go but yeah.. how would i get a number?
 

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You have to also consider how things might look from her point of view as well.
It would seem strange to her if all of the sudden,out of the blue,some random guy who she's never seem before just stops her in the middle of the street asking for her number. So if the two of you happen to be walking towards each other,I'd just do as your name says and keeprolling.
 

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Why are you even asking this question???????????

You smile, introduce yourself, make some small talk, a joke and ask for her number. Who the hell cares how you come off? It's not like you are trying to make out with random strangers in public.
 

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^ what he said.

But seriously, i'm not one too talk, I always end up slapping myself hard over missed opertunities like this. The only way to stop that feeling is making sure to aproach at LEAST 1 girl a day. At least then your doing something and your subconcious won't hate you as much.
 

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I'm no expert by any means, but the few times i have managed to get numbers from girls on the street, i've used the

"excuse me, is your name Melissa ?"

Just pretending that you think you may know them is a great in.
 

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Peterpack said:
I'm no expert by any means, but the few times i have managed to get numbers from girls on the street, i've used the

"excuse me, is your name Melissa ?"

Just pretending that you think you may know them is a great in.
Yes, but this is as old as the hills. I think most girls know this trick.
 

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A friendly non threatening hello is the best imo

Just gauge her reaction

does she smile and slow down or turn her head backwards as you pass by?

if so then you got one... just reel her in


If you are feling extra confident sometimes the cliched over then top ones could work like

whats cookin good lookin - said in a joking manner

Both of these are field tested


The big thing in a street approach imo is lack of sexual outcome dependence

The outcome you are shooting for is to have fun and every girl is into that...its really just a better mindset to come from

then if that hooks her try saying something like

i know its completely random to say hi but I just couldn't help myself (diffusing the obvious unusal situation/comfort)

im in a rush to blah blah blah (flase time constraint)

you know we should exchange numbers my friend is having a party this week (social proof/value)


the last part someone else told me about but I haven't field tested it...he would just say that to get a girl's number and say the party fell through during their txt messages...
 

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Say a cheesy pickup line like did it hurt when you fell from heaven. Or say: Excuse me, what would happen if your donkey ate my rooster's feet? Youd have two feet of my c o c k of your ass. And then if you havent been rejected by this point (ie, she giggled/laughed), tell her you are going to start hitting on her.
 

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The best way is to go direct in my honest opinion. If she's coming toward u, put ur hand up and say stop with a smile. Then say a direct line. The hotter she is, the more effective it is. Coming from experience, this works best for the girls ur attracted to the most. The other methods, imo...can work but this is the most effective. Hell it was funny, i said hi to some girls as above, they were like hi, but then when i went direct, they totally were much more receptive and showing much more interest. If she's walking ahead of u already, i'd say "Excuse me...stop :)" if its from the side, same thing. Try it, u'll be surprised. Remember, just do it for girls u desired the most rather than an average chick, they won't respond as well as its either hard for some of them to believe OR they're so shy. Try it, trust me :) I find this is the best way to seduce a woman who's walking.
 

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when i was in college and i got my results after my exams, i had 3 a and 2 a+s

i was in full confidence as i had just completed the gym..

i was walking back from the gym smiling and saw this FLYYYYY!! mamasita walking towards me.

i was like..really loudly.."Uh OH!!!..warning!cheesy pick up line trigger activated...Warning Warning!....Warn!hey beautiful..can i take a picture of you so i can show santa what i want for Christmas?!!...

she just burst out laughing and people across the street were like o my gosh that is so funny..there two girls walking behind her and they were cracking up as they walked past and said "never heard it said like that before..."!

she finished laughin i think she was also blushing and shy hence more laughing...anyway she said OK take a picture..so i pointed my cam phone at her, she posed, then i turned the camera on me, took a pic..she was like HEY!..i then took a pic of her and said well Santa needs to know what you want for Christmas too right?!!! she was like..plz! stop!

anyway after the pic i said "i need a name for the picture on my phone..."
she: Tessa
Me: And a number..so Santa can track you down when he puts u in his bag.
she: xxxx xxx xxx, will Santa track me down soon?
Me: He sure will..coz my Christmas is this saturday..

anyway..2 years later..shes still on my list and one of the best lays ive had...hands down.

That was pretty much my BEST street pick up...Tessa and me still laugh about that she just thinks im crazy and spontaneous..
i try to use similar styles..
 

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woah i might try that. Thanks bud. I guess im just too shy to talk to random ppl and you know.. im afraid.. like, if i say something like that, everyone around me will hear it.. and if she rejects me or ignores me, it'll be embarrassing.
 

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o_O, wow this was my last post I was gunna read B4 sleep...

WOW,

WOW.

Credit slickaz, I'm cracking out that shit as soon as possible.
 

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Day-game is high risk, high reward. Because of that you may as well go direct:

"You are *completely* adorable/cute/whatever. I knew if I didn't come over and say h, I'd be kicking myself the rest of the afternoon. Hi, I'm ____."
 

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+1 rep slick. classic. fits perfect with my personality.. so im stealin it! in a good way :)
 

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You could also try to print a sheet of paper with the photo of a puppy, and say that you're helping a friend to find a place for the little fella. You can start the convo by telling the girl "you seem like a nice person" and start talking about the puppy, and you can pick her numbers if she's interested ;) You can always say that your friend found a place for the puppy.
 

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hahaha..thanks you guys..appreciate it.

i got a TON!!!!! of pick ups that just came out of the blue and spontaneity seems to be the success factor.

i guess the way i approach picking up is, if the girl is really something, and its not something that beautiful you see everyday, i just try to be as genuine yet funny and non intrusive.

From that pick up i learnt that in some situation with some girls its actually an advantage if you do that with the attention of people around you, that way ((AND ONLY IF ITS REALLY FUNNY!!!)) everybody finds it funny in a nice way and she takes it as a compliment yet laughing about it.


But go ahead, feel free to use any of my pick ups i post here, Only condition! i want credits in the form of her screaming "Yes! SLICK O YES YES YES YES SLICK BABY!!MMMMMMM YESSSSSSS!!!!!!!OOOHHHHHHHHHHHHHH (*100000)!!!" instead of your name....
 

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I like this idea.. Just do it based on pure attraction and let what happsne happen without expecting anything..... Makes sense to me man thx for the help
 
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