What to do when a girl tests you on your character?

[carlitos]

For example..a girl says she likes you and you guy have been flirting for a while..then all of a sudden one day she says she got drunk one night and doesnt remember what she did..how should you respond do this? if you react it shows you have boundaries but she might also feel your possesive..but on the other hand if you don't it becomes a sign that she can do it again..i guess if you guys already had sex its a lot easier..but lets say we're in the initial stages of gaming what would you guys do?

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Ok I understand your question. But, is this a girlfriend or a girl you just started dating. Have you even had sex yet?
Does she do this often.

If you arent in a relationship with her yet. There is no line to be drawn. If you are committed to this girl and that happend. I would wonder what kind of girl I'm dating and what did she not remember? Depends where and who she got drunk with. Also, why werent you getting drunk with her.

Somethings to think about... I need a lil more info.

 

[carlitos]

this is just a girl i started dating and we havent had sex yet..
i wasn't getting drunk with her because we're not in the same town right now..she's a girl i met when i was on a trip but only reason why i'm asking this is i felt the vibe was there that we could escalate and i don't mind keeping this girl either..she seemed jealous when she found out about a fling i had even before talking intimate with her..
also put it this way..when you expect someone to get jealous you put them on the spot..maybe thats what she's trying to do because now its hard for me both ways..if i act indifferent it shows that i dont care about her but if i act affected it shows i'm possesive..whats your best solution?