What to do? Next or?

[anour]

Hey DJ’s

i’ve approached a chick a while ago at the gym, we had a little conversation in which we exchanged instas’. After that we spoke a little on insta, was trynna setup the date got ghosted, i then see her again in public transport and we try to setup a gym-workout together she wanted me to change my workout schedule so that we workout together, i refused and held my frame and told her to swap her workouts instead of me doing it, gym thing didn’t happen. I then see her at a university event and i ask her again what’s she upto and i wanted to see her, she gave me the bull**** response i’m busy.

Yesterday i saw her at the gym, and she intercepted (approached me) my walk to a different gym equipment, and then initiated convo to ask me how was i doing and all of that and she left.

I think she has a low interest judging by her actions, so should i initiate convo next time i see her and setup a date or just next her and find someone else?

 

[ThisIsSparta]

At this point (that many interactions) you should at least have had set up a(1) date with her.

Thats what you really want from her, not her being an anker to your training efforts.

So yes, there is definately low interest from her asides from gym-friendzoning you.

I mean, just play this along in your mind...... how often do you wanna workout with her until you ask her for your first date?

Move on dude!

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Move on OP, this girl isn't in to you.

 

[Macadellic]

She just wants your attention giving you nothing in return. Move on!

If you see her again she doesn’t exist to you.
If she tries to talk to you be polite with a time constraint and excuse yourself.

She does not get your time and attention anymore unless she earns it.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Low interest. Spin more plates.

 

[Young OG]

Hey DJ’s

i’ve approached a chick a while ago at the gym, we had a little conversation in which we exchanged instas’. After that we spoke a little on insta, was trynna setup the date got ghosted, i then see her again in public transport and we try to setup a gym-workout together she wanted me to change my workout schedule so that we workout together, i refused and held my frame and told her to swap her workouts instead of me doing it, gym thing didn’t happen. I then see her at a university event and i ask her again what’s she upto and i wanted to see her, she gave me the bull**** response i’m busy.

Yesterday i saw her at the gym, and she intercepted (approached me) my walk to a different gym equipment, and then initiated convo to ask me how was i doing and all of that and she left.

I think she has a low interest judging by her actions, so should i initiate convo next time i see her and setup a date or just next her and find someone else?

Low interest and she just want’s attention. Also, stop getting women’s IG’s. Don’t accept anything but the phone number.

 

[Grounded eagle]

Hey DJ’s

i’ve approached a chick a while ago at the gym, we had a little conversation in which we exchanged instas’. After that we spoke a little on insta, was trynna setup the date got ghosted, i then see her again in public transport and we try to setup a gym-workout together she wanted me to change my workout schedule so that we workout together, i refused and held my frame and told her to swap her workouts instead of me doing it, gym thing didn’t happen. I then see her at a university event and i ask her again what’s she upto and i wanted to see her, she gave me the bull**** response i’m busy.

Yesterday i saw her at the gym, and she intercepted (approached me) my walk to a different gym equipment, and then initiated convo to ask me how was i doing and all of that and she left.

I think she has a low interest judging by her actions, so should i initiate convo next time i see her and setup a date or just next her and find someone else?

If you have to ask….Next.

 

[anour]

When she approached you how did you respond to how are you? Its my guess you jumped right in the convo? Oh I am good etc etc...?

100% percent

 

[anour]

Low interest and she just want’s attention. Also, stop getting women’s IG’s. Don’t accept anything but the phone number.

Will do so next time, you have any texting tips i wanna work on my texting, but if i get ghosted everytime doesn’t help..

 

[anour]

I

If you have to ask….Next.

I like the mentality

 

[anour]

Low interest. Spin more plates.

Hermano you got any texting guides

 

[anour]

She just wants your attention giving you nothing in return. Move on!

If you see her again she doesn’t exist to you.
If she tries to talk to you be polite with a time constraint and excuse yourself.

She does not get your time and attention anymore unless she earns it.

Putting value to your attention, top tip G

 

[anour]

Move on OP, this girl isn't in to you.

Appreciate the response Adonis, you got any texting guides that you’d recommend?

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Hey DJ’s

i’ve approached a chick a while ago at the gym, we had a little conversation in which we exchanged instas’. After that we spoke a little on insta, was trynna setup the date got ghosted, i then see her again in public transport and we try to setup a gym-workout together she wanted me to change my workout schedule so that we workout together, i refused and held my frame and told her to swap her workouts instead of me doing it, gym thing didn’t happen. I then see her at a university event and i ask her again what’s she upto and i wanted to see her, she gave me the bull**** response i’m busy.

Yesterday i saw her at the gym, and she intercepted (approached me) my walk to a different gym equipment, and then initiated convo to ask me how was i doing and all of that and she left.

I think she has a low interest judging by her actions, so should i initiate convo next time i see her and setup a date or just next her and find someone else?

Comply or bye.

Hotter girls are turning 18 everyday. Act accordingly.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Hermano you got any texting guides

I sure do. Im gonna copy pase from another thread, hope it helps:




DJ bootcamp? Your TASK was to talk to girls?

Im sorry I disagree with all of this. I dont like the mindset.

That stuff never really worked for me. Becuase the focus was on getting the girls. While this might work for some people, for me it created scarcity mindset.

What recently worked for me was focusing on doing stuff I actually enjoy, while triple booking with OLD matches the same date, time, and place to come and join me.

If none of them cancelled, I would go out with the hottest one and I would make something up to flake on the other girls. My main focus was enjoying the actual date more than the girl herself.

Btw, I dunno if Murphys law or what, but when I singled book, the girl would sometimes flake. When triple booking, none would cancel and I had to flake on the other girls.

I would invite them to a restaurant I was actually craving for, or to watch the latest blockbuster I actually wanted to see. I believe that being focus on enojying the actual date would give off the abundance mindset instead of neediness or scarcity mindset and girls would somehow sense it and they loved it.

Texting was nothing special. No PUA tricks.

Text One: "Hey girl. How´s ur weekend going?" When matching during weekend. If matching Monday/Tuesday it was "Hey girl. How was your weekend?". If matching Wednesday/Thursday "Hey girl. Any cool plans for the upcoming weekend?"
Her: Bla bla bla

Next text: "Cool. What do you enjoy doing with your free time?"
Her: bla bla bla

If we have suff in common:

"Looks like we have a lot in common. Im craving my favorite sushi place, wanna meet 5:30ish pm next saturday?" Maybe Im implying that since we have stuff in common I wanna get to know her better.

If we dont have that much in common:

"I live in X city by Y mall. Anything interesting near your house?"
Her: Bla bla bla
"My favorite Burger place is very close to your house. Wanna meet Next saturday evening and grab a bite?"


If there was a new movie I actually wanted to see.
"I wanna watch the new Marvel movie. Lets go on day 1 to avoid spoilers. My favorite movie place has a show at 6pm"

No long texts. No double texting. No over-talking or over-sharing. STFU, Keep it simple and more or less mirror her response time.

So she showed up at the date. Cool. At the end tell her something like "Text me when u are home safe". When she texts u shes home, I just reply "Descansa" which is similar to have a good nights sleep or something like that. Dissappear 1-3 days and ask her out again.

If she shows up AGAIN, she probably has high interest. U r probably in the clear now. As long as u dont mess it up or lose interest in her urself, u will bang this girl sooner or later. Just remember to escalate.

Have you give exclusivity to a girl before? Ok, Never again give exclusivity to a girl unless you like her more than your last ltr, or at least as much. No way u gonna settle for less.

U in a ltr? How frequent is the sex? No point being exclusive if you are getting less amount of sex than u could get spinning plates. She should want sex more than you or at least just as much; dont became on of those guys in an exclusive relationship who only gets laid once in a blue moon.

 

[anour]

Not sure about this girl but if the opertunity arises and she opens you. Cooly brush her aside.

But me personally I would have been a bit of a prick at that point but thats just me. Use your own style.

Wdym by cooly brush her aside? Like reject her?

 

[anour]

Comply or bye.

Hotter girls are turning 18 everyday. Act accordingly.

Preach my guy

 

[anour]

I sure do. Im gonna copy pase from another thread, hope it helps:




DJ bootcamp? Your TASK was to talk to girls?

Im sorry I disagree with all of this. I dont like the mindset.

That stuff never really worked for me. Becuase the focus was on getting the girls. While this might work for some people, for me it created scarcity mindset.

What recently worked for me was focusing on doing stuff I actually enjoy, while triple booking with OLD matches the same date, time, and place to come and join me.

If none of them cancelled, I would go out with the hottest one and I would make something up to flake on the other girls. My main focus was enjoying the actual date more than the girl herself.

Btw, I dunno if Murphys law or what, but when I singled book, the girl would sometimes flake. When triple booking, none would cancel and I had to flake on the other girls.

I would invite them to a restaurant I was actually craving for, or to watch the latest blockbuster I actually wanted to see. I believe that being focus on enojying the actual date would give off the abundance mindset instead of neediness or scarcity mindset and girls would somehow sense it and they loved it.

Texting was nothing special. No PUA tricks.

Text One: "Hey girl. How´s ur weekend going?" When matching during weekend. If matching Monday/Tuesday it was "Hey girl. How was your weekend?". If matching Wednesday/Thursday "Hey girl. Any cool plans for the upcoming weekend?"
Her: Bla bla bla

Next text: "Cool. What do you enjoy doing with your free time?"
Her: bla bla bla

If we have suff in common:

"Looks like we have a lot in common. Im craving my favorite sushi place, wanna meet 5:30ish pm next saturday?" Maybe Im implying that since we have stuff in common I wanna get to know her better.

If we dont have that much in common:

"I live in X city by Y mall. Anything interesting near your house?"
Her: Bla bla bla
"My favorite Burger place is very close to your house. Wanna meet Next saturday evening and grab a bite?"


If there was a new movie I actually wanted to see.
"I wanna watch the new Marvel movie. Lets go on day 1 to avoid spoilers. My favorite movie place has a show at 6pm"

No long texts. No double texting. No over-talking or over-sharing. STFU, Keep it simple and more or less mirror her response time.

So she showed up at the date. Cool. At the end tell her something like "Text me when u are home safe". When she texts u shes home, I just reply "Descansa" which is similar to have a good nights sleep or something like that. Dissappear 1-3 days and ask her out again.

If she shows up AGAIN, she probably has high interest. U r probably in the clear now. As long as u dont mess it up or lose interest in her urself, u will bang this girl sooner or later. Just remember to escalate.

Have you give exclusivity to a girl before? Ok, Never again give exclusivity to a girl unless you like her more than your last ltr, or at least as much. No way u gonna settle for less.

U in a ltr? How frequent is the sex? No point being exclusive if you are getting less amount of sex than u could get spinning plates. She should want sex more than you or at least just as much; dont became on of those guys in an exclusive relationship who only gets laid once in a blue moon.

You the G man, who posted that thread? Can you provide me with the name of the thread?

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Appreciate the response Adonis, you got any texting guides that you’d recommend?

This site would find my texting Cringe Lordworthy lol

 

[Dr.Suave]

You the G man, who posted that thread? Can you provide me with the name of the thread?

I will try to find the thread bro