What to do if you dont have a car?

[qweretyuiopas]

I dont have a car and that kinda stops me from approaching because what if it works , then I dont have a car it may work for a little but they wont wanna drive me around all the time. I also have no friends peroid, so i cant borrow a car from anyone and even though Im 18 I dont even know how to drive. It really sucks, also since this is my first post ill give you some of my background. Im 18 never had sex or even kissed a girl, Ive never approached a girl and never got a phone number. I know its sad, anyway Im even nervous to the point where a girl says she likes me and I dont act on it, my coinfidence is so low I cant even make any male friends my hands also sweat all the time so how important is handholding?. Uhh...I cant think of anything else important right now so thats it, so do any of you guys not have a car and have lots of friends and a girl?

 

[Keeper]

Yeah, I don't have a car - yet have girls and friends. :-/

You just need to read a few chapters in the DJ Bible. Don't put anything off because you believe you need something to have friends or girls. I once believed I had to have a great body to get a girl... so I procrastinated for ages. After months of nothing taking any steps forward, I realized I don't need the body, it's just a bonus... and went for it... and got results.

 

[Inquire]

depends on where u live if u need a car or not. like if u live in a big city wit all the hot spots close, walk it, but if u live in a place wit everythang spread out, then car.

 

[h2o]

Look at everything as an opportunity.

You don't have a car? ...and you say no friends either? That's awesome, because now you can take the bus! Imagine how many new people you can meet on the bus!

Last year, I moved somewhere new, and I was very thankful for not having a car...I talked to so many strangers at the bus stops, and on the bus. This was way back when I just started out, and I even got a phone number, but blew it on the phone, called her too much...

...still look at the positive side of things.

As for your background, just put yourself out there. Sitting in your room all day, will get you no where. You need to be around people 24/7... you need to become super comfortable around women, so start practicing.

Study at the library, instead of your room. Yesterday I met another new person just by being in the library to study.

Join some community activities. If you are in school, join clubs/activities. Meet new people.

It's simpler than you think, it just takes patience and persevearance.

Good luck

oh, btw, I still don't have a car...and yes, I'm doing awesome. Life is awesome.

 

[TxCowboy]

bust out a window of a brand new lambo diablo , hot wire the b1tch , and take the h0 out ....

 

[qweretyuiopas]

The bus is a dangerous thing sometimes where i live and i dont have a job so i cant even pay that little bit to get on the bus

 

[qweretyuiopas]

Originally posted by TxCowboy
bust out a window of a brand new lambo diablo , hot wire the b1tch , and take the h0 out ....

Usually im a funny guy and i still am but when i fell like shlt i dont wanna hear jokes so unless you have a real answer go peddle your jokes in the high school forum, thank you

 

[DjDreamer]

Originally posted by qweretyuiopas
The bus is a dangerous thing sometimes where i live and i dont have a job so i cant even pay that little bit to get on the bus

Well... don't put the cart before the horse... get a job! Since you wanna live you gotta pay the cost of living...

 

[qweretyuiopas]

I have been trying to get a job for over 3 years and I have not found 1 place to even call me for an interview. Ive probably checked out over 50 places these past few years and i just made a list yesterday of another 23 places I wanna go check out, but my hopes arent up.

 

[PeterCrouch]

got any pics of you?

 

[qweretyuiopas]

I kinda dont see how that matters but i have a camera phone so if it is important i can get a picture on here.

 

[qweretyuiopas]

If 3 or more people reply and say they wanna see pictures I will post them, but i need help with my questions first.

 

[Centaurion]

The whole car issue really depends on where you live. Like if you live in central NY you don't need a car compared to living in the middle of a nowhere redneck town. I'm 21 years old and I don't even have my drivers license (it costs ~ 2500 USD to get one in Norway). I don't have any problems at all picking up chicks.

Public transport is your friend!

:cheer:

 

[DjDreamer]

Originally posted by qweretyuiopas
I have ben trying to get a job for over 3 years and I have not found 1 place to even call me for an interview. Ive probably checked out over 50 places these past few years and i just made a list yesterday of another 23 places I wanna go check out, but my hopes arent up.

Damn... now that's tough... I wish you luck in getting a job... you just gotta pay that cost of living in order to get good results...

 

[qweretyuiopas]

i live in the ghetto in detroit the bus is not safe i my house isnt near any party places only liquor stores and coney islands but im happy for you Centaurion living in a place that has good city transportation

 

[qweretyuiopas]

u guys have any tips to get the attention of someone who is sitting far away from u in a crowded room?

 

[green69]

dude concentrate on getting a job first, that's what I would suggest. I used to not work, and I found myself really bored at times and had no money to spend. Then I got a job, I met lots of new people (and their friends too.) It's also something to do instead of just sitting at home, plus the extra income is great to spend or save.

 

[qweretyuiopas]

didnt u see ive been trying 4 a job for 3 years that is the #1 thing now but while im waiting i can make something out of the time i have now

 

[Freeman]

Originally posted by qweretyuiopas
I dont have a car and that kinda stops me from approaching because what if it works , then I dont have a car it may work for a little but they wont wanna drive me around all the time. I also have no friends peroid, so i cant borrow a car from anyone and even though Im 18 I dont even know how to drive. It really sucks, also since this is my first post ill give you some of my background. Im 18 never had sex or even kissed a girl, Ive never approached a girl and never got a phone number. I know its sad, anyway Im even nervous to the point where a girl says she likes me and I dont act on it, my coinfidence is so low I cant even make any male friends my hands also sweat all the time so how important is handholding?. Uhh...I cant think of anything else important right now so thats it, so do any of you guys not have a car and have lots of friends and a girl?

Sounds like excuse to me man...stop whining about not having a car and approach these broads-if they worth anything they'll dig ya just as if you had one...

 

[Iamnotacrook]

I'm 19. I don't have a car, or a job, or my own place, I'm extremely skinny, my teeth are stained because I smoke a pack a day, and my past is EXTREMELY shady, and I don't hide anything about myself. I do not lie.

Still, I've got countless 9's and 10's to chauffer me around town, shopping malls, resturaunts, parks, and sometimes they don't even drive, either. I'm fully capable of making due with what I'm provided with.

I'll admit I'm not ugly, I do have goals and responsibilities, I do live in a nice house, I do know how to dress, I do have money to spend... but apart from that, the only thing I have going for me is my personality.