what to do from here

[goodfornothing]

hi , i met this girl some months ago as a volonteer in africa , i could feel she was attracted to me but somewhere on the way it just stopped i guess it was from my part since we live pretty far from each other in our country , but when i got back like 2 weeks ago , she left before i left i was there for 3 months she was there for 2 , she called me and told me she was moving to they same town as i live in now.

we met 2 days ago going out with some other ppl we both knew since africa, and, dont know if she still got feelings for me or if i blew it , like the last 2 weeks with her in africa i was very short with her since i knew it was no idea i did not want long distance relationship been there done that before and it was not my thing.

but now since she gona move here in one month.

anyway to see if she still likes me or got feelings for me without asking her,

i have not made a move or anything , but im not realy her friend either .

just tell me what more u need to know , and i fill u in.

 

[Lord Sidious]

Bro,


First of all, learn how to compose a text. It´s hard to follow your ideas. That´s my first advice.

Second, you are/were (?) in Africa and met her there. You feel she is/was attracted to you and you didn´t make any move?!

When women are interested on a guy and give them a chance to advance, but they (guys) don´t do it, they will get frustrated for them not being men and take what they wish. So, women start to ignore them.

So, the only way for you to know what she´s up to, is to make a move. Simple as that. Until then, you can only suppose. I had situations like yours and making a move will solve your doubts.

 

[goodfornothing]

sry for the text but im kinda drunk (jsut came home from a night out) its 2 am in sweden.

its more like me taking distance then her.
shes the one that sms me and calling me. not the other way around.

 

[Lord Sidious]

sry for the text but im kinda drunk (jsut came home from a night out) its 2 am in sweden.

its more like me taking distance then her.
shes the one that sms me and calling me. not the other way around.

Well, I guess it´s better for you to write and state your ideas when you´re sober...!

Anyway, you´re even giving me more reason. If she sms you and call you and you simply don´t make a move, she´ll get tired of that eventually.

Make a move, bro. Watch the way you deal with her:

- Confidence is key;
- Don´t give her all the power/control;
- Don´t ask;
- Show power;
- Be ****y and funny;
- Be a challenge;
- Read the DJ Bible;
- Read the DJ Bible;
- Read the DJ Bible...


Go for it!!!