What to do after reading Book of Pook?

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Hey guys im from turkey and im too bad with women. So where can i start? I just read the Book of Pook. So what should i do now?
 

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No magic bullets. Work hard to Improve all areas of your life. Fake it till you make it.
 

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Increase your SMV, hitting the gym to get jacked, making money, surround yourself with people, be very social or practice it, have hobbies of the things you like, ideally with other people that will help you be more social, then start approaching women.

Don't expect to have results if you're fat, boke that can't take a girl on a date, have crooked teeth that can't even smile, have a bad really bad haircut that doesn't look good on you, doesn't know how to dress to go out.
No magic bullets. Work hard to Improve all areas of your life. Fake it till you make it.
I was 90 but i had depression then I have become 135 kg and lost my confidenxe. Now im 115 and still losing weight. So Until im normal it's better to not trying women right?
 

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You need to fix yourself, before anything with women. Results take time. Improve yourself in ways you never knew it was possible for you, that will increase your confidence in who you are, then you start practicing with woman, it only takes 1 yes to start believing in yourself.
no. Unless you are disgusting right now. I had planned on joining Tinder when I got a 6-pack. Well. I’d still be waiting. And joining Tinder was one of the best things I ever did. So. again. Unless you are really horrific, don’t wait. Improve yourself, but keep on trying for women.
 

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no. Unless you are disgusting right now. I had planned on joining Tinder when I got a 6-pack. Well. I’d still be waiting. And joining Tinder was one of the best things I ever did. So. again. Unless you are really horrific, don’t wait. Improve yourself, but keep on trying for women.
Ive gotten laid multiple times just by showing my sixpack on tinder. I love pvssy.
 

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Go out and do approaches
 

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I read it in 2009 after that I hit the field like a mad man, now adays the average guy is swiping left and right like a mad man lol
Agree. Swiping has replaced approaching for the typical average frustrated chump, beta male. Back in the era of Neil Strauss first learning from Mystery (early to mid-2000s), average frustrated chumps were drinking in bars and making alcohol fueled approaches. Men today would rather sit at home and swipe.
 

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Agree. Swiping has replaced approaching for the typical average frustrated chump, beta male. Back in the era of Neil Strauss first learning from Mystery (early to mid-2000s), average frustrated chumps were drinking in bars and making alcohol fueled approaches. Men today would rather sit at home and swipe.
I can't blame them, now a days if you wanna meet hot women at the club you gotta buy bottle service the average 21 year old doesn't have that money and imagine waiting for an hour paying $20 just to get in the club, stand around and see all the hot girls at the table with men 10-20 years their senior popping bottles with the smoke shows

It's gotta be depressing. I don't do clubs anymore I'm in my late 30s I have a mentee who is 27, and he does very well (he's a millionaire 5'7 but smashes model-tier-looking women) we talk about the nightlife all the time and the only way to meet hot women at the club in 2023 is by having a VIP table, it may be different in other cities but this wtf is going on in mine.
 

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I can't blame them, now a days if you wanna meet hot women at the club you gotta buy bottle service the average 21 year old doesn't have that money and imagine waiting for an hour paying $20 just to get in the club, stand around and see all the hot girls at the table with men 10-20 years their senior popping bottles with the smoke shows

It's gotta be depressing. I don't do clubs anymore I'm in my late 30s I have a mentee who is 27, and he does very well (he's a millionaire 5'7 but smashes model-tier-looking women) we talk about the nightlife all the time and the only way to meet hot women at the club in 2023 is by having a VIP table, it may be different in other cities but this wtf is going on in mine.
Nightclubs with music and dance floors are not the only type of nightlife venue. Regular bars are more prevalent in my city than nightclubs. Even the regular bar scene in my city is challenging. The upside of regular bars is that most of them don't have cover charges, but drinks can be expensive.

I think a lot of what you say about nightclubs is true, but regular bars aren't easy either. Ratios often suck and a lot of women have their defenses up expecting to be approached. Additionally, on Friday/Saturday nights at regular bars, there are too many beta males still out there approaching them with bad game and turning them off.
 

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If you've just read the book of pook and need direction you should probably read it again
 

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Nightclubs with music and dance floors are not the only type of nightlife venue. Regular bars are more prevalent in my city than nightclubs. Even the regular bar scene in my city is challenging. The upside of regular bars is that most of them don't have cover charges, but drinks can be expensive.

I think a lot of what you say about nightclubs is true, but regular bars aren't easy either. Ratios often suck and a lot of women have their defenses up expecting to be approached. Additionally, on Friday/Saturday nights at regular bars, there are too many beta males still out there approaching them with bad game and turning them off.
Hey brother I check your Dallas thread all the time, I've been to Texas (Houston and Austin) but Dallas is on my bucket list
I'm in the Midwest and the bar scene compared to Pre-covid is dead, nothing but homeless people downtown Minneapolis and the liberals and BLM killed uptown Minneapolis you can go to the Northeast part but most of the women are older 35+ (white)and looking for white men (nothing wrong with that but I'm not white lol)
 

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Hey brother I check your Dallas thread all the time
Thank you. I appreciate that. Dallas has far more bars than nightclubs. Yes, there are nightclubs here but many of the main nightlife districts in Dallas are more bars than nightclubs.
 
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