what to do after eyecontact

[mastervampire]

Ok ive been going out down the street to Malls and stuff, trying out some pickup techniques and stuff but with eye contact when i lock onto a girl and she is looking at me as well, after she smiles or i smile and i know shes interested what should i do then?

how should i approach, when , what to say etc.... cause usally ill get embarresed if i dont have anything good to say or know what to say

 

[white_hype]

i am in the same boat man

i just started school (university, 50,000 people there) and am getting better and better with girls

what i do is take it slow, first make EC, then smile (kinda smirk not a gay smile)

if she smiles back APPROACH HER (use the 3 second rule which is you have only 3 seconds to go up and talk to her or else dont bother, she will see this and think you have balls of sttel and lots of confidence and will TURN HER ON rather than if you wait 2 mins to go talk to her)

matt ala cassanova has a good opener which i will try this monday

after you smile and she smiles back go up to her and say

"what all that work for a smile and no hello?" (and grin at her)
she'll say, HI!! or laugh

either way be like "whats up, im white_hype" and shake her hand
and take the convo from there (so where you headed, what have you been doing today, i gotta run but give me your number and we can continue this convo later"


or... just go up to her and say.. HEY WHATS UP!

let me know how it goes
later

 

[mastervampire]

hmmmmmm i see

any other tips?

 

[DarkfalconIV]

Let me break it down for you say

'Hey'

A salutations used to greet other persons.

'How you doing?'

A universal conversation starter. Implies you care about her feelings and that you and her are on friendly terms. (Don't let her know that you don't know her until later)Even though she can't remember you.

SAy those words like you've know her all your life. She won't ask how you know her until mid-convo.

 

[felony]

I find its easier to approach her if u get closer to her before establishing all the EC. SMiling etc. This way you don't have the dodgy walk over to her- even after doing the walk so many times i still don't feel totally comfortable with it! And its extra time to let your mind try to doubt your ability.

So get close then you don't have a massive long walk to do while she looks and you funny and you are suddenly aware of your arms and stuff like that!

Then once you are there, it's easy. "Hi, What's your name?"

Just do it!
felony.

 

[Atratus]

I like Matt's opener.

I often say or suggest or carry the attitude that something is amiss. I usually don't know what, and sometimes nothing comes up anyway, so you can just drop it.

You can walk to someone and say "something is amiss."
"What?"
Then you have all the time to check her out, make EC, smell the air, look around, as though you are inspecting or looking for something. After all, you're supposed to be finding something amiss.

Then, you could also say: "You're a miss! Aren't you?" (i've never said that)
Or: "i know! You haven't got whipped cream and strawberry jam all over you!" Go get some from the grocery store.

Usually though, there's something 'amiss' that i can come up with and sort out right there. Which means you'll actually be doing something useful. Maybe you've got some groceries to shop for. Ask her if she does, propose to shop around with her for a sec.

It shouldn't matter how far away you're standing, but it would seem a bit strange if you walked across a room of people just to talk to two strangers, unless of course they're HB's and you are macking.

However, there is nothing wrong with being aware of your arms and stuff like that. Sure it might be distraction, but you've got to take notice of the way you walk sometime
I have this long corridor i walk down outside my room. It's a perfect place to practice walking. Yes i practice it, because i imagine it would take quite a lot of practice to walk well.

I don't know for a fact, but i'm sure chicks notice and dig someone who's not just walking but also learning to walk.