what the the hell is this

[vinkoch]

If gf says she has strong feelings and still loves you doesn't want to be gf/bf right now but be exclusive friends and get things done so we can try again later

 

[foreverAFC]

it means she isnt interested in you

 

[Starwolf]

Friendzone City :yes:

here's a good tip (not my idea credit goes to a guy on you tube..forgot his channelname)

Ask yourself the following every time you're in doubt:

"If I was Brad Pitt, Would she tell me this sh!t?"


helps to cut out the BS and move on to the next!

 

[asa_don]

she is telling you indirectly that the relationship is over and she wants new meat. is this the chick that farts on you?

its win/win.

you have been dumped and are being sold on a pretty lie

there is no win when you are dumped, there is no win going back to an ex for sympathy sex, that is being a beta.

getting dumped is a loss, it is never a win, you are wrong.

 

[vinkoch]

you have been dumped and are being sold on a pretty lie to keep you around to emotionally support her during her grieving for the end of the relationship.

you judge EVERYONE by their actions, not their words

this is a fundamental rule of game and seduction.

"i love you but we cant be a couple right now " = wtf!? feelings of confusion

but if you pay attention to the behavior it all becomes clear. which is: you are not banging her and you are no longer a couple nor does she want you to be.

and voila! it all makes perfect sense.

the reason girls tell a guy they "love" him after they just ripped his heart of out of his chest and show it to him is because there is a disconnect in the female mind between the conscious, aware part of her brain and the sub-conscious that acts autonomously and "behind the scenes" so to speak.

on the hand one she tells herself that she "loves" you. i mean she should right? you had a relationship with sex at one point with lovey dovey feelings and great times and all.

but in reality her hind brain knows she no longer has any more interest in you than she does in doing the dishes or laundry. in fact her pet gold fish has more priority than you now.

fear not for this is why guys like me are here. to show you the path to premature enlightenment.

you can still get her back by going witht he breakup and employing a strict nc for a about a month, start lifting HARD, update that wardrobe, get a new chick and start being an aloof sexy @sshole.

its win/win.

she either calls you back within a couple weeks to try and "work things out" in which case you seduce the shlt out of her and bang her like a porn star. throw the shades on, light stogie and head out the door while shes an emotionally and physically satisfied mess still trying to figure out wtf just happened and you get an "i love you, we should get back together" text 10 mins after leaving

or

her interest in you was beyond recoverable but you now have seen the light and have everything to look forward to with your new found knowledge of women and what it is to be a man

Not me. I don't want commitment now I'm getting a divorce. It's My friend. I went through something similar earlier this year. We were still banging, but i called her out on it and she got royally pissed, denied it and turned cold as a freezer. But my friend right here just heard this last night. I told him if he wants her back don't do what i did.

 

[vinkoch]

she is telling you indirectly that the relationship is over and she wants new meat. is this the chick that farts on you?




there is no win when you are dumped, there is no win going back to an ex for sympathy sex, that is being a beta.

getting dumped is a loss, it is never a win, you are wrong.

Lol no she's been throwing hints at being a couple but like i said i don't want a relationship right now.

 

[El Payaso]

She's dumping you and keeping you on a leash to keep you around as an emotional tissue paper.

 

[VladPatton]

Tell her you're gonna delete her number and eventually you'll text her to grab a nice milkshake, although you're lactose intolerant and hate dairy. That makes as much sense as what she told you. Retarded, and an insult to you manhood in my opinion.

Erase and replace...move on man, nothing here but hot air.

 

[mikey2012]

She may have feelings for you but she doesn't know what she wants. Just go NC. She may or may not come back.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

i called her out on it and she got royally pissed, denied it and turned cold as a freezer. But my friend right here just heard this last night. I told him if he wants her back don't do what i did.

I wouldn't call her out on it in this situation. There's a time and a place to do that. In this situation, all you two would end up doing is having a logical discussion/argument that wouldn't do you any good. Which you seemed to figure out.

I'd try to be 100% cool with it: "No problem babe, yeah, exclusivity's a big commitment, lets wait." *gives her a hug* "See ya!"

*Hamster begins a slow rotation*

Then: soft next, maybe NC, act dis-interested, then follow some of the advice from the other posters here.

*Hamster gains momentum*

And, next time she wants to see you, make her work for it.

Her: You want to go see a movie tonight, maybe get a drink, catch up?
You: Sorry, can't tonight, how about some other time.

*Hamster at full speed*

Re-build your frame. And, most importantly, when/if you two get back together, keep that frame. She most likely lost attraction for you somewhere along the lines because you proved yourself to be a wuss. <----remember this.

 

[gravityeyelids]

So she's gonna keep him on a chain with no sex or romantic relationship while she rides the c0ck carousel to find another guy she can branch swing to? Sounds like a solid deal to me.

But really though. Non red-pill friends rarely listen to good advice. If your friend is a beta b!tch that wants to stay with her, nothing that you or I say can change his mind. He's going to have to learn the hard way.

 

[asa_don]

I wouldn't call her out on it in this situation. There's a time and a place to do that. In this situation, all you two would end up doing is having a logical discussion/argument that wouldn't do you any good. Which you seemed to figure out.

I'd try to be 100% cool with it: "No problem babe, yeah, exclusivity's a big commitment, lets wait." *gives her a hug* "See ya!"

*Hamster begins a slow rotation*

Then: soft next, maybe NC, act dis-interested, then follow some of the advice from the other posters here.

*Hamster gains momentum*

And, next time she wants to see you, make her work for it.

Her: You want to go see a movie tonight, maybe get a drink, catch up?
You: Sorry, can't tonight, how about some other time.

*Hamster at full speed*

Re-build your frame. And, most importantly, when/if you two get back together, keep that frame. She most likely lost attraction for you somewhere along the lines because you proved yourself to be a wuss. <----remember this.

no point in any of this, she already rejected him, no hamster will spin, by the time he rebuilds him frame she will be with another guy. he should rebuild his frame for new women to enjoy, not one who rejected him.

even if it does, there is no use in going back as a consolation prize, she is holding all the power.

 

[mikey2012]

even if it does, there is no use in going back as a consolation prize, she is holding all the power.
That's right once she has all the power it's difficult to get it back . Learn from it and move forward...

 

[GS750]

She may have feelings for you but she doesn't know what she wants. Just go NC. She may or may not come back.

Pretty much. Sounds like one of those "we're not together anymore but I'll keep in contact with you just in case I get bored/lonely/the guy I'm seeing doesn't work out". Girls are selfish. Go NC. Walk away...that will at least show that you've moved on and aren't waiting around for her. Fvck that noise. Plan B is no place to be.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

no point in any of this, she already rejected him, no hamster will spin, by the time he rebuilds him frame she will be with another guy. he should rebuild his frame for new women to enjoy, not one who rejected him.

even if it does, there is no use in going back as a consolation prize, she is holding all the power.

He is rebuilding his frame....for all women...and her! People break up and get back together all the time, dude. He can decide later on what he wants to do, when his frame is strong. When this happens, he wil not be the consolation prize. And just by saying this:

"No problem babe, yeah, exclusivity's a big commitment, lets wait." *gives her a hug* "See ya!"

He is removing half her "power" from the get go.

Also, since you won't take my word on it, read and study up on this OP, it's exactly the type of thing I'm talking about: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=216695

no point in any of this, she already rejected him, no hamster will spin

The OP made a one sentence post, how do YOU know exactly what will happen ? How do YOU know anything that will happen? HOW can you be so sure of what will, or won't, happen in the future? Do you have some type of magic ball? Are you a wizard that carries around a staff??? Once sentence OP. One sentence.... Although I 100% agree, she was probably just letting him off easy at the time, I don't know what her motives are. I don't know how she really feels, or will feel, or what's going through that brain of hers......one sentence.....

 

[Dhoulmagus]

If she's not putting out than I would leave. Also, the brad Pitt thing is horse ****. Celebrities get played all the time. Im also in a similar situation. I got drunklingly mad and dumped her, apologized a few days later and we agreed that we jumped in a relationship to fast and to be exclusive partners. I went afc for a while, but I saved myself and I withdrew my attention and started treating her like a plate. Im talking to another girl right now, but if I tell her than its over. You need to ghost her for a week to recharge. Anything you do will be afc at the moment, so take a break and rebuild your frame.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

He is rebuilding his frame....for all women...and her! People break up and get back together all the time, dude. He can decide later on what he wants to do, when his frame is strong. When this happens, he wil not be the consolation prize. And just by saying this: He is removing half her "power" from the get go.

Also, since you won't take my word on it, read and study up on this OP, it's exactly the type of thing I'm talking about: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=216695


The OP made a one sentence post, how do YOU know exactly what will happen ? How do YOU know anything that will happen? HOW can you be so sure of what will, or won't, happen in the future? Do you have some type of magic ball? Are you a wizard that carries around a staff??? Once sentence OP. One sentence.... Although I 100% agree, she was probably just letting him off easy at the time, I don't know what her motives are. I don't know how she really feels, or will feel, or what's going through that brain of hers......one sentence.....

From what I get from this site is that if the woman doesn't drop everything she's doing to come blow you at command than she's currently riding the carousel.

 

[Octogonal]

If gf says she has strong feelings and still loves you doesn't want to be gf/bf right now but be exclusive friends and get things done so we can try again later

She is demoting you to ride other sticks until she can find someone else.

 

[Fireballs]

Words don't mean sh!t, judge her by her ACTIONS.

 

[astrn]

Dude just NC and improve yourself. In time either she comes back (usually they come) or they will be busy with another mayonaisse bottle... When and if they come back just show your newself and they will be impressed by how far you achieve higher without them!

Dont make it a big deal. Believe me everytime there will be better girls coming up! Just be ready when they hit you again!