Hi I wrote about this before but have a update and would like if somebody could explain why this all happened.
I work in a mall and I go to a Chinese resturant for lunch etc everyday. Well back in the summer I was standing outside of my workplace and this girl from the chinese resturant "Amy" was standing outside her resturant. I felt like somebody was looking at me. I looked up and it was Amy. I thought hmm interesting. She is shy and we never spoke to each other. Well I continued going there and thinking she is beautiful but never spoke to her.
So a few months later she asks me if I work at XYZ. That was the first time we spoke.
I really started to like her and being shy like her I got the nerve to talk to her. It was the day after Thanksgiving. I said "How are you today?" she said "OK" then she just stared at me like a deer in the headlights. I got nervous and thought gee I better say something else. She then talked a little bit to me and I said Ok I will see you. I started to walk away and she almost yells "Have a nice day!! Bye Bye" I thought gee why so loud. I then thought ok well now we sort of know each other and we will speak to each other when we see each other. I went in the next day and she did not say anything to me.
Then I was walking through the parking lot of the mall and here she was also walking through the parking lot in front of me and off to the right. Her friend turned around and saw me and then tapped her on the shoulder and pointed me out to her. " I was not looking at them. I found out another way." I of course thought that was a good sign. Another time she is walking in to work and see looks at me I was turned around and she points her hands over her face and looked down at the ground then looked up at me then would walk some then look over at me again. She continued looking over at me when she would come to work well she kind of stopped recently well last week she kind of peeked and then her friend looked over. I thought why would she always look at me? She must like me? All my friends agreed. Is there another reason why she would look at me all the time?
The week before last she asks me again "You work at XYZ right?" I told her yes she then said "where do you work where they repair cars?" I said no. She did not saying anyhting else. So I was thinking why is she asking me this? She knows darn well where I work what does she think I am some weirdo who stands outside of the mall everyday.
Well one day I go up to pay for my food and she says give me 2 minutes. She was adding up reciepts. I said Ok and next thing I know she pops out of the chair giggling like I made her nervous.?
Now Sunday I am getting my food in there with a co-worker and he says she is looking at me. I then thought I have to do something. It was just my co-worker, myself and another employee of the chinese resutrant standing by each other so I walk behind this other woman and say to my co-worker "that Amy is Hot." Then this other girl that I wanted to hear it went over and was talking to Amy. I assumed that she told her what I said. So either it was my imagination or something else but MOnday when I went in there she seemed very friendly.
*** I come to work today and this girl I work with said that Amy was in the store I work at with a guy. I said was it a friend or a boyfriend? She said it was a boyfriend I think. She and him were giggling and hitting each other and he rubbed her back! I of course was in shock. I mean why did it seem like she liked me? So I am telling this crazy woman at work and she decides to go over there and ask her if she has a boyfriend. She went over and said "what did you get for Valnetines day?" She said 1 rose. She said so you have a boyfriend? She said Yes. Then she said the reason why I am asking is because my friend who works at xyz likes you. She said OH then said have a nioe day. like she wanted to get rid of her. ***********
So I am wondering did she not like me from what I have typed? this is the first woman who I thought liked me that all my friends agreed that she did. Amy only has 1 day a month off and she works from open to close everyday. How she had time for a boyfriend I don't know. The somebody mentioned to me why would this be the first time that she was in the store? Which is a good question I nor anybody else has ever seen her in the store until yesterday. Did she purposely come in the store with her boyfriend to make me jealous or something?
My question is Did it not seem like she liked me? One main reason I thought she liked me was she was always looking at me when she came to work. I nor any of my friends could come up with another reason why she would look at me all the time unless she liked me. What should/could I do now? Thanks
I work in a mall and I go to a Chinese resturant for lunch etc everyday. Well back in the summer I was standing outside of my workplace and this girl from the chinese resturant "Amy" was standing outside her resturant. I felt like somebody was looking at me. I looked up and it was Amy. I thought hmm interesting. She is shy and we never spoke to each other. Well I continued going there and thinking she is beautiful but never spoke to her.
So a few months later she asks me if I work at XYZ. That was the first time we spoke.
I really started to like her and being shy like her I got the nerve to talk to her. It was the day after Thanksgiving. I said "How are you today?" she said "OK" then she just stared at me like a deer in the headlights. I got nervous and thought gee I better say something else. She then talked a little bit to me and I said Ok I will see you. I started to walk away and she almost yells "Have a nice day!! Bye Bye" I thought gee why so loud. I then thought ok well now we sort of know each other and we will speak to each other when we see each other. I went in the next day and she did not say anything to me.
Then I was walking through the parking lot of the mall and here she was also walking through the parking lot in front of me and off to the right. Her friend turned around and saw me and then tapped her on the shoulder and pointed me out to her. " I was not looking at them. I found out another way." I of course thought that was a good sign. Another time she is walking in to work and see looks at me I was turned around and she points her hands over her face and looked down at the ground then looked up at me then would walk some then look over at me again. She continued looking over at me when she would come to work well she kind of stopped recently well last week she kind of peeked and then her friend looked over. I thought why would she always look at me? She must like me? All my friends agreed. Is there another reason why she would look at me all the time?
The week before last she asks me again "You work at XYZ right?" I told her yes she then said "where do you work where they repair cars?" I said no. She did not saying anyhting else. So I was thinking why is she asking me this? She knows darn well where I work what does she think I am some weirdo who stands outside of the mall everyday.
Well one day I go up to pay for my food and she says give me 2 minutes. She was adding up reciepts. I said Ok and next thing I know she pops out of the chair giggling like I made her nervous.?
Now Sunday I am getting my food in there with a co-worker and he says she is looking at me. I then thought I have to do something. It was just my co-worker, myself and another employee of the chinese resutrant standing by each other so I walk behind this other woman and say to my co-worker "that Amy is Hot." Then this other girl that I wanted to hear it went over and was talking to Amy. I assumed that she told her what I said. So either it was my imagination or something else but MOnday when I went in there she seemed very friendly.
*** I come to work today and this girl I work with said that Amy was in the store I work at with a guy. I said was it a friend or a boyfriend? She said it was a boyfriend I think. She and him were giggling and hitting each other and he rubbed her back! I of course was in shock. I mean why did it seem like she liked me? So I am telling this crazy woman at work and she decides to go over there and ask her if she has a boyfriend. She went over and said "what did you get for Valnetines day?" She said 1 rose. She said so you have a boyfriend? She said Yes. Then she said the reason why I am asking is because my friend who works at xyz likes you. She said OH then said have a nioe day. like she wanted to get rid of her. ***********
So I am wondering did she not like me from what I have typed? this is the first woman who I thought liked me that all my friends agreed that she did. Amy only has 1 day a month off and she works from open to close everyday. How she had time for a boyfriend I don't know. The somebody mentioned to me why would this be the first time that she was in the store? Which is a good question I nor anybody else has ever seen her in the store until yesterday. Did she purposely come in the store with her boyfriend to make me jealous or something?
My question is Did it not seem like she liked me? One main reason I thought she liked me was she was always looking at me when she came to work. I nor any of my friends could come up with another reason why she would look at me all the time unless she liked me. What should/could I do now? Thanks