LOL...the best/worst thing just happened to me. I was at a movie in the depths of suburbia (not my natural habitat) with a friend of mine. As we're leaving, two girls pull up in a car next to us. I say hi, they say hi, and they ask "where are you guys going?" (Or something to that effect.) FULL-ON BRAIN FREEZE! I'm in the middle of nowhere, I have NO idea what you underage (they clearly were) girls do for fun. I shot for "going to a bar" but I could tell they weren't 21, and the opportunity left me as the light turned green. Man, I need to quicken my brain.
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What the...damnit, too slow!
- Thread starter Tyler
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damn, that sucks!
I know the feeling though ;
At the lights a week ago, look over at the car next to me, 2 HOTTIES waving at me, i put the window down and smile "hey, how u ladies doing" there like all giggly with huge flirtatious smiles "we are good..what are you up too?" damnit.. brain freeze!!!
"Not 2 much...how about you" Lights turn green, they were still waiting for me to make a move, holding up the traffic, but no, i SUCK. Stupid slow arse brain.
I know the feeling though ;
At the lights a week ago, look over at the car next to me, 2 HOTTIES waving at me, i put the window down and smile "hey, how u ladies doing" there like all giggly with huge flirtatious smiles "we are good..what are you up too?" damnit.. brain freeze!!!
"Not 2 much...how about you" Lights turn green, they were still waiting for me to make a move, holding up the traffic, but no, i SUCK. Stupid slow arse brain.
Dee-Zy
Master Don Juan
don't sweat it - it takes time and experience.
Once, my friend was trying to hook up with this girl. He was doing ok - he did not use the greatest DJ tactics but at some point he asked what she is doing sathurday (I think we were a fri or thur) and this is how the convo went.
girl: "What ARE we doing?" (To her bestfriend)
Girl's bestfriend: "I don't know/nothing" (I forgot the exact words)
girl: "What are YOU guys doing?"
My friend: "I don't know (asking me) what are WE doing?"
me: "We are doing whatever nikky and sarah are doing"
I didn't even think about it - I was just pissed at the whole 'I don't know' refutations that was flying around. It just slipped out of my mouth.
The girl blantly stared at me like 'oooh sh!t'
Her bestfriend (which was my target at the time) just froze and stoped doing what she was doing.
My friend just looked at me like: "niiiiiiiiice". With a very surprised look and a smile that went further then each ears.
Then they exchanged numbers
When I thought about it latter - I should of said 'we are taking sarah and nikky out to blablabla at 9:00' but blah. It worked anyways.
Once, my friend was trying to hook up with this girl. He was doing ok - he did not use the greatest DJ tactics but at some point he asked what she is doing sathurday (I think we were a fri or thur) and this is how the convo went.
girl: "What ARE we doing?" (To her bestfriend)
Girl's bestfriend: "I don't know/nothing" (I forgot the exact words)
girl: "What are YOU guys doing?"
My friend: "I don't know (asking me) what are WE doing?"
me: "We are doing whatever nikky and sarah are doing"
I didn't even think about it - I was just pissed at the whole 'I don't know' refutations that was flying around. It just slipped out of my mouth.
The girl blantly stared at me like 'oooh sh!t'
Her bestfriend (which was my target at the time) just froze and stoped doing what she was doing.
My friend just looked at me like: "niiiiiiiiice". With a very surprised look and a smile that went further then each ears.
Then they exchanged numbers
When I thought about it latter - I should of said 'we are taking sarah and nikky out to blablabla at 9:00' but blah. It worked anyways.
DjDreamer
Master Don Juan
Make your thoughts flow. Meditation, exercise and eating well will increase your mental alertness. Being proactive about your mental health is your ticket to avoiding another situation of appearing dumbfounded.
You should have said...
"We're going to heaven to tell god we're thankful he gave us the oppurtunity to meet two of his finest creations. Just kidding. We're not heading to any where special. We're just enjoying the moment. We're just cruising around town. What about you two ladies? Do you all want to meet somewhere?"
...when you experience no excessive stress, you will most likely not screw up conversation so take care of your brain.
You should have said...
"We're going to heaven to tell god we're thankful he gave us the oppurtunity to meet two of his finest creations. Just kidding. We're not heading to any where special. We're just enjoying the moment. We're just cruising around town. What about you two ladies? Do you all want to meet somewhere?"
...when you experience no excessive stress, you will most likely not screw up conversation so take care of your brain.
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