What should I do? What should I do?.... (Repeat a lot of times)

SergeP

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What should I do?

I like a chick (7/10) (I could post pics (actually links to a Swedish facebookesque site) but I don't think that's polite). (Even though she's 7/10, she's "Hawt"-est in my school).

She doesn't go in my class, but we study some courses together (Now: CAD, Design, GIS. Used to: Architecture, Italian).

And I have some problems.

What should I do? (I've reed both "Book of Pook" and "Weapons of Mass Seduction").

Here's some problems I have:

1:I normally don't look into peoples eyes when I talk to them, but she doesn't even look at the speakers direction when someone talks to her, and you never know if she's listening. You'll only notice when she'll smile/laugh/answer.

2: She doesn't talk much, (well, she talks a lot with her friends), and I don't know how to make her start. We've talked a bit (about the Religion course, where she laughed when she heard that I wrote a paper about Conjuration (Especially Daemon summoning). And we've talked a little bit of random small-talk, where I've told about my friend "Sexy Telephone voice-Anders", unlike the other girl between us, she laughed when I told about him (He has a sexy voice when talking in telephones, and once a woman called to sell stuff and telemarketing and such. He started to talk to her and flirt. It ended with him driving to her town and f***ing her. Just one call!)). Otherwise she doesn't speak much. (Note: She laughs a lot and is quite childish.)

3: I don't know what to do. I'm not brave, I'm almost fearless. (Brave is Heroic, Fearless is stupid). I don't know what to do. Most times I approach her, I get almost paralysed and don't know what to do.

What should I do?
 

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Your gettin so nervous cause you like her so much and she can and will see right through you.

I KNOW whats going through your mind.You keep following this MM formula and keep reading these books and think "OMG What should I say?What If she doesnt respond how I want her too?Does she like me?".Listen dont worry about those things alright.Theres this quote I remember reading once on a website from someone which went something like "The best kind of actor is the one in which the audience doesnt realize he is acting".Thats the kind of mentality you should focus and that in a sense you are gaming her,dont make it seem blatantly obvious that you are and just go with the flow.

The best way to get her to talk is to get her talking about something she likes.Girls LOVE talking about themselves.Even if you dont like the subject,who cares!Ask away!.Also I have made this mistake too many times and just remember,DONT ALWAYS TALK ABOUT SCHOOL SUBJECTS WITH HER!.

If you end up going out with her or hanging out,the most important quote to remember (from the movie Hitch) is....

"When your wondering what to say, or how you look... just remember... she is already out with you. That means, she said yes, when she could've said no. That means she made a plan... when she could've just blown you off. So that means it is no longer you job to make her like you... It’s is your job NOT TO MESS IT UP. "
 

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But what/how should I do?
What should I talk about?
I'm a hateful man who rarely falls in love, and I don't want to screw this up.
What is "To friendly"? What is "Girly chit chat"? I like fashion and movies and art and such, are those good topics?
We've known each other for almost 3 years, and it feels awkward to just, just do that. And I've changed a lot, and many times the last 3 years.
(1st year: badly clothed geeky gamer geek who loves violence and MMA.Totally unknown. 2nd year: Mediocre clothed, somewhat feared Cagefighter who likes art. Still somewhat unpopular, but having a reputation of being able to kick anyone in schools ass in the cage. 3rd year: Chic fashion/art/aesthetics/culture lover, usually best clad. Rumored for great fighting abilities. Rumors of being gay due to being a chic fashion lover. Feared, counted as most likely to go postal and make a school-massacre, reputation of being strange, sick and insane.)
 
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