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what physical flaw(s) do you have?

david90

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No this is not another "does looks matter" thread :) .

For me, my ears kinda stick out.
 

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My flaws

I'm not that tall (5'8")

The bridge of my nose is slightly crooked from boxing (it's generally only noticeable in photos).
 

BLUEox117

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Originally posted by david90
No this is not another "does looks matter" thread :) .

For me, my ears kinda stick out.
i am dirty becaus ive been too lazy to use soap in the shower for 3 days
 

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Uh, who cares who has what flaws? It shouldn't matter. I'm sure I have flaws that I can pick out... but since my confidence level has gone up tremendous amounts since high school, nobody seems willing to call me on them anymore. As a person, you just don't notice flaws with people unless you are looking for them. Ever notice how the more you get to know someone, the more you like their personality, the more their physical flaws tend to disappear?

Why even start a thread like this? Are you trying to feel better about yourself cause you don't want to feel like you're the only one with flaws? Just don't worry about it!
 

BLUEox117

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Originally posted by Skweints
Uh, who cares who has what flaws? It shouldn't matter. I'm sure I have flaws that I can pick out... but since my confidence level has gone up tremendous amounts since high school, nobody seems willing to call me on them anymore. As a person, you just don't notice flaws with people unless you are looking for them. Ever notice how the more you get to know someone, the more you like their personality, the more their physical flaws tend to disappear?

Why even start a thread like this? Are you trying to feel better about yourself cause you don't want to feel like you're the only one with flaws? Just don't worry about it!
maybe he has a 3rd degree burn on his face and hes got nowhere to get the money for plastic surgery (as most health plans dont cover that because its not life-saving surgery)
 

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The flaws that I'm most self conscious about are:

Stretch marks (from my days being overweight)
Frown lines
Hairy shoulders (though easy enough to shave or wax)

I've always been really self-critical when it comes to appearance, but I'm realising now I'm advantaged in so many ways, so I have no grounds to complain.
 

BLUEox117

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Originally posted by Jariel
The flaws that I'm most self conscious about are:

Stretch marks (from my days being overweight)
Frown lines
Hairy shoulders (though easy enough to shave or wax)

I've always been really self-critical when it comes to appearance, but I'm realising now I'm advantaged in so many ways, so I have no grounds to complain.
yo stretch marks are not a flaw but a badge if you workout
and the rest of that crap is irrellevant
 

sfalexi

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Re: My flaws

Originally posted by Sweetcheeks
I'm not that tall (5'8")
Got ya beat. 5'4" here. And a very bad case of acne (incurable as of yet with any method with scars to boot)
 

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I feel ya, man

Hey sfalexi,

I actually used to have a severe problem with acne, too. It was so bad it actually hurt, and believe me, it really did a number on my self esteem. I had it dealt with about 5 years back with a 3 month cylce of Accutane. Talk to your doctor about it, I was ectstatic with the results.
 

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Re: I feel ya, man

Originally posted by Sweetcheeks
Hey sfalexi,

I actually used to have a severe problem with acne, too. It was so bad it actually hurt, and believe me, it really did a number on my self esteem. I had it dealt with about 5 years back with a 3 month cylce of Accutane. Talk to your doctor about it, I was ectstatic with the results.
I've done five cycles of accutane. Still got acne though. I'm down to the last resort (saving up money for laser resurfacing)
 

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Re: Re: I feel ya, man

Originally posted by sfalexi
I've done five cycles of accutane. Still got acne though. I'm down to the last resort (saving up money for laser resurfacing)
how the hell is taht laser resurfacing supposed to work anyways?
 

So Many Ways

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A few.

I have 2 metal rods in both of my legs and I walk with a slight limp.

One leg is shorter than the other.

I have a bad shoulder I got from lifting weights several years ago.

Remember, physical flaws are only an issue if you make it an issue in your head, period.
 

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i have puffy cheeks, so if i cut my hair short i look like a little boy

but my hair is curly so if its a little longer it just curls up into a gross afro

so i have to keep it really long and its like, a pretty big fro


lol
 

BLUEox117

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Originally posted by Baruch
Hm,

Overbite\crooked teeth
Weak jawline
acne scars

i look ok in pictures though, with my mouth closed.

you look pimp
get out there.
 

Sart

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NECK

When I was young I spent every fukcing minute surfing, as a result I burned the shyte out of my neck, just above the wetsuit mark. As a result my skin lacks elasticity there. It is only noticeable when I draw attention to it.

Now, I draw a lot of attention to it, to chicks. I'll grab it and say "shyte I hate this, look at it" The they'll start with the "Oh, thats nothing look at my "whatever" and there you go, they are self deprecating in no time. My job is to pinpoint the insecurity and play it.
 
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