What % of people hookup in clubs & bars?

mr. kennedy

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I was having this debate with a buddy of mine. On a given night, what % of people hook up in a club or bar? I would say no more than 10%. Seems like the great majority of chicks go back home with their friends.
 

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It all depends on the place and you.

I had a place that, for a while, I was literally 50% on taking a girl home. This place was gold. It worked great for me, a little divey but in a good part of town with higher class women. There was also dancing there which I'm pretty good at. It was perfect for me.

There was another place I woul go to as well, you could say it was a "Cheers" type place. I've hooked up there once out of probably around one hundred times. 1%
 

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The reason most guys don't go home with girls is because the vast majority of them don't do approaches. They stand there and talk to their friends. Then even if they do approaches, they eject way too early.

In my experience, 5-10% of approaches result in eventual lays (usually not that night, but at some point). That may seem like a low success rate but one can easily do 10 or more approaches per night.
 

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I would say 10% of guys get a one night stand and about 25% managed to know girls which will give them sex later on.

Some are not goodlooking enough, some dont approach while others approach but make very big mistakes like going to random girls dancing and rubbing their c0cks on their asses without having the model look to support such aggressivness.

There are even some that do it all correctly and have the look but fail sh1t tests like taking a no as no and not instinting to take the girls home, I found many times that girls say no but when I point at a taxi they hold my hand and follow me.
 

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Are any of you guys actually pulling in bars? Every time I go to a bar I usually see this:

1. No single women alone, the women are all in packs or out on drink dates with other guys. A 2 set is manageable, but beyond that forget it.

2. Sausagefest- Sometimes a 5 to 1 ratio or worse. I went to a bar the other night and there was 14 guys and 2 women. 1 woman spent the entire night staring at her phone (browsing facebook) I assume.
 

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Ive managed to pull a few ONS. When it comes to this getting done though, the girl needs to be heavily attracted to you or your flirting skills need to be top notch because she will more than likely not be alone (in a group, with a mixed group and you my get blocked by a guy, It may be her and her friend only but the other will block yo etc.) Ive pulled few girls out of their group but only because her friends thought i was hot. When its just two girls, your wing man is crucial IMO to distract the other girl.
 

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I would say a very small percentage (5-10%). That is people who don't know each other prior to stepping into the bar. The good thing is that once your game is tight you can be in that small percentage consistently. Most guys have terrible game.
 

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Dust 2 Dust said:
Are any of you guys actually pulling in bars? Every time I go to a bar I usually see this:

1. No single women alone, the women are all in packs or out on drink dates with other guys. A 2 set is manageable, but beyond that forget it.

2. Sausagefest- Sometimes a 5 to 1 ratio or worse. I went to a bar the other night and there was 14 guys and 2 women. 1 woman spent the entire night staring at her phone (browsing facebook) I assume.
I do and have done so for a little while so I know the whole song and dance.

If you look at most guys, 90% of them aren't having a very good time. Even if the ratio is bad, you can use this to your advantage. Bad ratios do kill, but if thats what you have to work with than so be it.

The key is being able to determine what prospects are AWs and which ones will possibly result in something worthwhile. Most dudes end up going after one braodski and than he gets nothing because she was never interested in the first place. I am good at filtering the pretenders from the real potentials. If you can tell which ones want to go home, than you will get something out of it. No wishy washy signs, its got to be all the sexual stuff within a short time of meeting you.

but the reality is even though my game can be lethal at time, it can strike out too. You have to be in the right mindset. you have to be in the right spot. And lastly, theres gotta be horny women who want to meet you!
 
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