She has to have a decent body. Looks in the face are not that important to me, but she has to be fit and healthy for her age. This is screening criteria.
The most important subjective trait to me is that she has to be willing to put some effort towards me and is willing to chase. Otherwise what's the point. It's like fishing, you toss in the line and you wait for the nibble... I'm not jumping int he water and try to swim after them, the fish always wins and all you get is wet.
After that, she has to be able to hold her own in a conversation... I don't like stupid women. I don't care what she is interested in but she has to have an opinion about something and can talk about it... and it has to be more than her kids or her cats. Sex takes 20 minutes after that... I don't want to hear about the personalities of her different fvcking cats.