What is with all the girls having sex with guys threads?

[SoldMySoul]

Been seeing this a lot as of late. What is the big deal? Girls have sex too... The thing is if it is that big of a problem do not chart that territory by even discussing sexual past. Period! Don't do it if what she tells you can potentially affect your feelings.

I have had sex with probably 30 or so women, not a huge number, but some women may be turned off on it and I have engaged in some wild $hit too. I just would not get into that women UNLESS I suspect she is a freak and then it might add to it.

Guys, you are letting your mental facilities run wild on you. People have sex!!!

That is like asking me what I want from her. If it is just sex, then GREAT!! IF I want a LTR then I might think twice about making a slut it. Depends on what you want!

 

[Scion]

Probably because some guys sleep with significantly fewer partners than most women and grow to feel like there's sometime wrong with them because they aren't sexually experienced. Just a guess though.

 

[SoldMySoul]

I noticed you posted one of them My man and I am not trying to bust your balls about it. You either accept women fvck or you try and find virgins. I have been with two virgins and they can be taught, but they are NO fun in the bed.

Take the pornstar Houston 500... She got the 500 for a reason. If you do not know, she screwed 500 dudes in one setting. If the girl you like is like that, I could see why it would bothersome to you. Would I hit Houston? Hell no!!! But there are plenty of porno babes I would!!! The 500 is just ridiculous and sad!!!

 

[kingsam]

b'coz they let their emotions control them, rather than learning to be unaffected

 

[Scion]

My thread was more about dealing with jealousy. Doesn't matter if she's sleeping with other dudes or just dating them. By telling me she works too much to chill and then banging/dating other guys she's basically telling me that I'm not good enough. I'm not insecure because a girl has had sex before.

 

[SoldMySoul]

My thread was more about dealing with jealousy. Doesn't matter if she's sleeping with other dudes or just dating them. By telling me she works too much to chill and then banging/dating other guys she's basically telling me that I'm not good enough. I'm not insecure because a girl has had sex before.

Then accept my apologies, I read just a small bit of the thread. Then you have another problem. Little to no interest, of course then move on. It sucks to get in the mindset YOU are not good enough and it hurts the ego, man I know the feeling and it happens! Scion, don't give up on yourself, first and foremost, stay on this site and stop caring about trying. When you stop caring things will fall naturally. Stop forcing the issue and You shall overcome it. I am dealing with my own set of esteem issues too and I am trying to overcome them.

 

[Real Talk]

Its cuz 60-70% of posters here are virgins

 

[EA Gold]

1. No one here can not judge a person if he's a virgin or not.

2. There's is nothing wrong with being a virgin, most people say that they wished they had waited to do it with someone who they really cared about instead of some slvt.

 

[Real Talk]

1. No one here can not judge a person if he's a virgin or not.

2. There's is nothing wrong with being a virgin, most people say that they wished they had waited to do it with someone who they really cared about instead of some slvt.

You're right, I have that train of mind too, I'm just serious about my estimation.

People who concern themselves with what other people are doing sexually if they aren't getting it themselves. It's that way IRL and i suppose its like that here too.

 

[SoldMySoul]

I was fortunate because when I was a virgin, I lost my virginity to another virgin. I did not know what the hell I was doing and neither did she. My grandfather had a saying, "The piece you turn down, may be the best piece you ever had." This has always been in my mind of course as long as she is decent looking enough and I am safe all is good.

I am going to tell something else here too. Every time I treated a women like JUST a lay, it seemed to have worked out better for me. I know the game now and will always keep my feelings in check because if I don't, then I lose the frame! I am not saying treat women like *****s or crap, but always let them seem to have more interest works!

I do not regret my first lay when I was 16 as it was nothing special. Hey we all got to start somewhere.

Its cuz 60-70% of posters here are virgins

Is that true? I had no idea really as I am usually slumming the Mature Male section and I would think most whom are 25+ years old have had sex.

 

[Real Talk]

Is that true? I had no idea really as I am usually slumming the Mature Male section and I would think most whom are 25+ years old have had sex.

I'm not 25 so I usually don't look in those forums but you are probably right. I'm going from my experiences on this discussion forum.

 

[Maxtro]

According to my poll. 30% of the members are virgins. An additional 34% have been with 5 or less.

My issue with female sexuality is not that they have sex, but that they have a lot of it. It's also a bit of jealousy.

The only thing that stops a girl from having sex whenever she wants with whomever she wants, is herself. They have it so easy.

 

[Plinco]

So what? Why should I care? Seriously, think about it.

...and anybody here can also have sex at practically any time, we all know that sex is not the issue.

 

[Maxtro]

...and anybody here can also have sex at practically any time, we all know that sex is not the issue.

Uh, the results of the poll suggest that the majority of people here cannot have sex at practically any time. 64% of members have been with 5 or less women.

That means there is a huge amount of guys here who are not having regular sex.

 

[Chromeo]

I banged a slut my first time, I would have to say it was a better choice, as I did not get super attached as you may with someone you really care about. To each his own.

And ya everyone (pretty much) has sex, with probably multiple people before you. I dont have any problem with that. In fact, the best lays i've had, are of course with the girls I assumed to have the most experience,... I mean come on its kinda obvious.

There's even girls I've slept with who im good friends with other guys they banged and we(the boys) joke about it. No big deal. But these girls are just lays. Have no feelings for them.

Now what I do have a problem with, if its a girl I got feelings for, I cant stand if shes talks about someone else she slept with, let alone even mention the name of someone she had slept with. Bad jealousy, you shouldnt care but should they even be bringing it up?

And honestly its only like once they put a name to the guy. This one chick I was diggin was telling me how in highschool she got caught banging in the handicap elevator. Now she didnt say I got caught with so and so (not that I would know him anyway) but basically all you can do is picture yourself in that situation and there is no jealousy. Even if I didnt know the guy, the dude in the elevator still has a name, hes someone other than me, and if I did know the guy... christ.

I dont even really have a problem with them saying oh I used to date so in so. Its like only the specific act of mentioning sex with another man makes me want to kill someone.

Does anyone truly not care. I had friends in highschool, like three of them dated the same girl at different times, I could not handle that ****. I mean I know they werent exactly cool with it either....

Does anyone here truly not care about who sleeps with who? I mean would you date some girl (you really like her) your best bud banged and passed? What about your cousin? What about your brother?
What if your currently dating and you know shes dating someone else too? what if you know the other guy? do you care?

 

[Plinco]

Uh, the results of the poll suggest that the majority of people here cannot have sex at practically any time. 64% of members have been with 5 or less women.

That means there is a huge amount of guys here who are not having regular sex.

I know two average-little below average girls (hb 4's or 5's) I could have sex with within 24 hours of now. The question is, do I want to, or would I rather spend some time and work hard for those 7+'s?

edit:

I am pretty sure that generally people's experiences are similar.

 

[Scars]

I've only met like two other girls that were worse than me (in numbers) so it doesn't really bother me too much. That's just for flings though. If I were to ever date a girl she's NOT going to have some ridiculous a$$ number. Red flag.

 

[nismo-4]

I noticed you posted one of them My man and I am not trying to bust your balls about it. You either accept women fvck or you try and find virgins. I have been with two virgins and they can be taught, but they are NO fun in the bed.

Take the pornstar Houston 500... She got the 500 for a reason. If you do not know, she screwed 500 dudes in one setting. If the girl you like is like that, I could see why it would bothersome to you. Would I hit Houston? Hell no!!! But there are plenty of porno babes I would!!! The 500 is just ridiculous and sad!!!

You gotta have something really good about you to get a pornstar! But I prefer cougars and milfs.

 

[Sir Psycho Sexy]

If it is just sex, then GREAT!! IF I want a LTR then I might think twice about making a slut it.

I think most guys agree with this statement.

For me, its about having standards. Just like I want a girl whos cute or shorter than me; she also has to have some class and self-respect....

You either do or dont care about a girls past sexual history just like you either do or dont like fatties.

Simple as that.

 

[PappyS]

The problem with a lot of women is they slut it up in their teens and twenties, then expect to find some punked out sucker they're not attracted to pay for all their sh!t when they're used up. This is after they're finished having "fun". By "fun" I mean hot sex.

Fvck paying for a b!tch who's had freaky sex with all kinds of men but won't do the same for me. Nobody wants to be the husband of the ex freak of the week and have to beg and plead for boring sex every 6 months.

Also many of these sexually promiscuous women can be annoying hypocrites. They do whatever they want and sleep with whoever they want. But then they turn around, with hypocritical phony righteousness, criticizing what other people do. They complain about men being dogs, about prostitution, and about pornography. Meanwhile they'll do whatever they want or did whatever they wanted when they were younger.