what is she up to?

[Jaun_Don]

Okay I am going to the movies tommorow night with a cute 21 year old and we are getting drunk before hand...(for a laugh) we have been to the movies before and we enjoy each other's company and get on really well, but she is seeing another dude, (I think they are still on I'm not really sure she hasn't said anything).

She has told me that we are friends (in front of her BF while ignoring him no less... ) anyways I don't really want a r/ship with this girl (If it happened great but I'm not sure I'd trust her) but I do find her sexually attractive and was just looking for advice...do friends actually go out on Friday Night's?...(that's date night right? and why me over the dude she is seeing?)

She has txted me a lot this week and has called me as well.

She has invited me to her place before the movie...so any advice fellas?...I just plan to play it cool and see what happens.

 

[Jaun_Don]

anyone please?

 

[Kenturkey]

Mincing words...

Juan,

If you're truly not interested in a relationship with this girl, why are you worried about what she's doing? If she's doing stuff with you on friday night, you're getting drunk at her place, etc. just hit it if you can as long as you can.

I had a 20 year old f_ckbuddy for a year, it was great, but just don't get attached. She's doing some other guy, accept that, don't get jealous, and have fun. She's your fun, and you're hers. When you start getting jealous and posessive, you're not fun to her any more, and you'll be gone.

Chris

 

[Bible_Belt]

Work the kiss close. Forget the bf.

 

[Desdinova]

do friends actually go out on Friday Night's?...(that's date night right? and why me over the dude she is seeing?)

Every night is date night. There's no universal rule on which night you're supposed to go on a date. With damn near every girl I've dated, Friday and Saturday night were my nights to have fun with my friends. I usually dated during the week.

I just plan to play it cool and see what happens.

I love this line. This is AFC talk for "I haven't a fvcking clue what I'm going to do to make this woman attracted to me".

 

[Jaun_Don]

Originally posted by Desdinova


I love this line. This is AFC talk for "I haven't a fvcking clue what I'm going to do to make this woman attracted to me". [/B]

First of all **** you for callling me an AFC and secondly podna...No it's not!, it's me saying that I'm not going to lunge at her like a desperado...she already is attracted to me idiot.

 

[Desdinova]

First of all **** you for callling me an AFC and secondly podna...No it's not!, it's me saying that I'm not going to lunge at her like a desperado...she already is attracted to me idiot.

If she's already attracted to you, why are you only a "friend"?

She has told me that we are friends (in front of her BF while ignoring him no less... ) anyways I don't really want a r/ship with this girl

If you don't trust her, why are you pursuing her?

 

[Omni]

Jaun_Don, you're being used to:

1) Make up for the attention the bf isn't giving her

2) Build her ego

3) Try to make the bf jealous

4) Give her someone to fall back on as tear-wiper and transitional man if things don't work out with the bf

Every night you hang out with her is a night you could have been meeting the right kind of woman... a wasted night, in other words. Don't play her game; go out and meet someone new.

 

[Desdinova]

Omni knows WTF is going on, and he doesn't have the words "Senior Don Juan" under his name.

 

[Lost In Translation]

damn Omni you got x-ray vision good post


Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

 

[Jaun_Don]

Originally posted by Desdinova
If she's already attracted to you, why are you only a "friend"?

She has told me that we are friends (in front of her BF while ignoring him no less... ) anyways I don't really want a r/ship with this girl

If you don't trust her, why are you pursuing her?

I am not really, I guess I just want something casual but like a lot of you said she is good practice, I actually met her on My Space and she has her status as single so I'm not sure what the deal is with that dude, I like hanging out with this girl, she is fun and we get on well and you know it's good to have as many girls as possible in your life so you learn things.

She might be sick of the BF and seeing what I'm about, this is the 3rd time we have gone out or done something together...who knows really, look all I know is I have had such a busy week and I just want to get drunk with some good company.

 

[SoCalMike]

I had a similar situation with a girl not long ago. She seemed interested, called/emailed all the time... but after going out a couple times, I could tell it was going nowhere. I think she just liked the attention.

Sounds like you may be in the same situation. I say give it 2-3 dates, and if nothing happens, bail.

 

[Jaun_Don]

Originally posted by SoCalMike
I had a similar situation with a girl not long ago. She seemed interested, called/emailed all the time... but after going out a couple times, I could tell it was going nowhere. I think she just liked the attention.

Sounds like you may be in the same situation. I say give it 2-3 dates, and if nothing happens, bail.

I know but really does seem like she is into me you know...

Last night she was all flirty(always twirling her hair) with me tonight and we watched a movie very close together (shoulder to shoulder) and teased each other and both played kino on each other... and when we had to go to the bathroom I held her hand (there and back) ...yada yada...anyways we went back to her place and she got a call from her BF so I walked off and sent her a txt that said "You are gorgeous...No argument"
(she doesn't think she is..but she is)

and she sent me one back that said "why the hell did u leave"?...and isn't replying back to my txts which are just normal ones...

Before we went to the movie she said too come out after the movie too and then she looked me and said oh yeah (BF) will be there so you might not want to come but I would really like you too.

 

[t00dumb]

you might like what's going on now but maybe you need to step back and look what's ahead if everything pulls through. if she gets with you, later on you might be the boyfriend who she pays less attention to and does the same flirtatious thing to her new friend. but yeah, look at ur options if positives weigh more than the negatives. good luck to your bro.

 

[IronFar]

WTF is this AFC kids' little problems being posted in the MATURE forum???