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Master Don Juan
What exactly IS a DJ? We know that DJ Stands for Don Juan, but what exactly is a Don Juan?
Is it a guy that can pickup a bunch of women?
Is it a guy that is a dominate Alpha Male?
Is it a guy that isn't afraid of appoaching women?
Is it a guy that can easily communicate, verbually and non, with a women?
Is it a guy that has complete control over women?
It is a guy that is full of testosterone?
From my time being here on the forum, I can say the answer is YES.
I can also say the answer is NO
"yes and no"
Correct, Yes and No.
I'm going to say something, that s going to break this entire site down to 1 sentance, one sentence that I think most people loose site of.
BEING A DON JUAN IS ABOUT BEING A MAN!!!
I know, I know, you are saying "yes, we are being men, Men don't take **** from women, men aren't afraid to appraoch women, etc"
But sit down, get away from the computer, seriously... think about that for a second. Let it sink in.
It really is THAT simple. So simple in fact, that we aren't learning something new, but we are in fact teaching ourselves to FORGET the teachings a society has taught us our entire lifetime... I call it "feminism and friends"... The two killers of real men int he 90's (any guy who watches one eposide of friends has to agree that is the most patheic AFC crap you have ever witnessed)
But like i was saying... Being a Don Juan is about benig a man.
I can break it down even deeper than that, once you realize what you are saying, you aren't soo much learning something new, as you are remembering something that is hidden inside of you.
When you were a kid, well, at least when I was a kid, I had no problem whatsoever with girls. I made fun of them.. Played HIde and go seek with them, what later turned into Hide and go get it
, when all of the girls on my block would come outside and try to play with us, we made them play BASEBALL or BASEKETBALL with US instead of ever doing anything that they wanted to do. I didn't talk on the phone to girls, ever... I didn't give to flying ****s what a girl though of me..
then it hit me...
The first of the killer one-two combo was Friends.. a general term for what I call AFCness on tV. Pretty much every TV show I grew up watching had the "friends" syndrome... Saved by the Bell. Friends. Even cartoons!!! Remmeber Power Rangers?
So at an early age, the thought,something totally alien to my "childish" ways, that women weren't to be treated as women, but as a prize to be won, slowly creeped into my mind.
I remember in the 5th grade, was the frst time I ever liked a girl but was too chicken to say anything to her... Her named was Alice, and she sat right next to me in class. I would bring her candy everyday to school to "win her over"... thinking back it was quite pathetic.
things only got worse, the more TV I watched, and combied with the more generalization that women aren't in fact supposed to be treated as women, the worse I became...
and the sad thing is, I was pretty darn cute as a kid... cute enough at leat to model childrens clothing.
This goes on for years and years, this "Friends" what I like to call it. Damn you friends!!! You should have to send every m an in america a retrobution check
When I was 7, my dad, who was married with my mom, got another woman pregnant (with my now 15 year old little bother, Caleb), and my dad and mom got a divorce.. It was actually as smooth a dirovce as you could expect, no custoy battles, no name spewing or anything along thoose liens, at elast from what I can remember... BUT
It was probably the worst thign that could have ever happened tome.
I saw my dad every day still.. my mom was in school and my dad had me until my mom got out. But my mom is what you call a "feminist"... She believes that women are better then men. She believes that women out to look up to men, believes all the little crap that women feminist believe (looking back on it, I see why my dad left).. From the time I was 7, until I was 19, I had to listen to feminism day in and day out. I listened to 12 years, my mother tell me, with no male in the house to tell me otherwise (by the way, I am the only male on my mom's side of the family... ... the only male, including marrage... pretty telling) that hey, a man is supposed to be a man.
So all thoughout high school I thought that women were supposed to be charished and loved and I should be thankful if a woman is with me and do everything in my power to keep her and make her happy. I loved my dad to death, but I thought he was WRONG (my dad loves women and sleeps around).
Then one day, after sitting down annd putting my almighty powerful brain to work , I figured out, all by myself, that ALL of the girls that cheated on me, didn't want to be with me, even though I was consiered very good looking weren't stupid... It was more likely that there was something wrong with ME then with them...
That's when I stubmed upon this forum 3 and a half years ago.
I read all of the posts... "Be a man!" they said.. but none of them told you how to be a Man... so we had to figure it out by ourselves.
And then came the learning curve. I tried ****y Funny.. I tried Speed Seduction... I tried being "a mystery", I tried it all.
It wasn't until I stopped doing all of thoose things that I realzied how simplistc this statement really is.
It's not saying "Learn to be a man", meaning you have to learn how to do this... it's saying "Be something you already were".
So to answer the question above, What exactly is a DJ?
It's a man.
so now the question is what exaclty is a man?
Pook said a man is someone who isn't afraid of his testerostone, and that's a very, very good generatzation.
However I am going to try to take it a step father..
A man is, simply put, himself.
To try to make this understandable as possible, this is the problem I see with the forum now:
YOu are putting the cart before the horse.
You aren't a man if you can approach women at any time of the day... But being a man makes it possible to approach women at any time of the day.
In other words, alot of these posts on this site now, are backwards because having women "chase you", having women fight over you, etc, are ALL BYPRODUCTS OF BEING A MAN
This forum should be more like 50% self improvement, IN ALL AREAS OF LIFE, NOT JUST DJING, and 50% on women, not 1% Self Improvement, 99% women.
With self improvement, the more you are being a Man. The more of a Man you are, the more comfortable you are doing all of the things you have trouble with.
Now, I won't answer what IS a man, because that's for you to come up with, but here are some things that in my opinion DESCRIBE a man:
a) Probably the most important thing of all, he is a man of importance. He has a purpose with his life that doens't involve women, that is something he feels very passionately about.
Look at all of the "Men" in the TV... I was use James Bond because he is universal... although he liked women, he had higher prorities then them... imagine how bad the James bond series would be if he spent the entire movie chasing after them instead of the BAD guys.
By doing this, and keeping your prorities in check, you don't have to "play mysterious" or play "hard to get".... you are hard to get, because you have more important things to do, and it's not a game... if she doesn't want to play by your rules, she can shove it, you don' t have time, whereas if you are "playing" hard to get, once it is evidant that you are "playign" the ball is in her court, hence why we get **** tested time in and time out.
b) A man is someone who isn't always georgous, but keeps himself in shape and well groomed.
Now, I've never had a girl tell me I was ugly... even the girls who LJBFed... or better yet, GIRL since it only happened to me really once, told me that I was very good looking... but I have been out of shape before, and trust me when I say, a average-good looking guy that is great shape looks better than a naturally handsome guy that is out of shape..
Is it a guy that can pickup a bunch of women?
Is it a guy that is a dominate Alpha Male?
Is it a guy that isn't afraid of appoaching women?
Is it a guy that can easily communicate, verbually and non, with a women?
Is it a guy that has complete control over women?
It is a guy that is full of testosterone?
From my time being here on the forum, I can say the answer is YES.
I can also say the answer is NO
"yes and no"
Correct, Yes and No.
I'm going to say something, that s going to break this entire site down to 1 sentance, one sentence that I think most people loose site of.
BEING A DON JUAN IS ABOUT BEING A MAN!!!
I know, I know, you are saying "yes, we are being men, Men don't take **** from women, men aren't afraid to appraoch women, etc"
But sit down, get away from the computer, seriously... think about that for a second. Let it sink in.
It really is THAT simple. So simple in fact, that we aren't learning something new, but we are in fact teaching ourselves to FORGET the teachings a society has taught us our entire lifetime... I call it "feminism and friends"... The two killers of real men int he 90's (any guy who watches one eposide of friends has to agree that is the most patheic AFC crap you have ever witnessed)
But like i was saying... Being a Don Juan is about benig a man.
I can break it down even deeper than that, once you realize what you are saying, you aren't soo much learning something new, as you are remembering something that is hidden inside of you.
When you were a kid, well, at least when I was a kid, I had no problem whatsoever with girls. I made fun of them.. Played HIde and go seek with them, what later turned into Hide and go get it
, when all of the girls on my block would come outside and try to play with us, we made them play BASEBALL or BASEKETBALL with US instead of ever doing anything that they wanted to do. I didn't talk on the phone to girls, ever... I didn't give to flying ****s what a girl though of me..then it hit me...
The first of the killer one-two combo was Friends.. a general term for what I call AFCness on tV. Pretty much every TV show I grew up watching had the "friends" syndrome... Saved by the Bell. Friends. Even cartoons!!! Remmeber Power Rangers?
So at an early age, the thought,something totally alien to my "childish" ways, that women weren't to be treated as women, but as a prize to be won, slowly creeped into my mind.
I remember in the 5th grade, was the frst time I ever liked a girl but was too chicken to say anything to her... Her named was Alice, and she sat right next to me in class. I would bring her candy everyday to school to "win her over"... thinking back it was quite pathetic.
things only got worse, the more TV I watched, and combied with the more generalization that women aren't in fact supposed to be treated as women, the worse I became...
and the sad thing is, I was pretty darn cute as a kid... cute enough at leat to model childrens clothing.
This goes on for years and years, this "Friends" what I like to call it. Damn you friends!!! You should have to send every m an in america a retrobution check
When I was 7, my dad, who was married with my mom, got another woman pregnant (with my now 15 year old little bother, Caleb), and my dad and mom got a divorce.. It was actually as smooth a dirovce as you could expect, no custoy battles, no name spewing or anything along thoose liens, at elast from what I can remember... BUT
It was probably the worst thign that could have ever happened tome.
I saw my dad every day still.. my mom was in school and my dad had me until my mom got out. But my mom is what you call a "feminist"... She believes that women are better then men. She believes that women out to look up to men, believes all the little crap that women feminist believe (looking back on it, I see why my dad left).. From the time I was 7, until I was 19, I had to listen to feminism day in and day out. I listened to 12 years, my mother tell me, with no male in the house to tell me otherwise (by the way, I am the only male on my mom's side of the family... ... the only male, including marrage... pretty telling) that hey, a man is supposed to be a man.
So all thoughout high school I thought that women were supposed to be charished and loved and I should be thankful if a woman is with me and do everything in my power to keep her and make her happy. I loved my dad to death, but I thought he was WRONG (my dad loves women and sleeps around).
Then one day, after sitting down annd putting my almighty powerful brain to work
, I figured out, all by myself, that ALL of the girls that cheated on me, didn't want to be with me, even though I was consiered very good looking weren't stupid... It was more likely that there was something wrong with ME then with them...That's when I stubmed upon this forum 3 and a half years ago.
I read all of the posts... "Be a man!" they said.. but none of them told you how to be a Man... so we had to figure it out by ourselves.
And then came the learning curve. I tried ****y Funny.. I tried Speed Seduction... I tried being "a mystery", I tried it all.
It wasn't until I stopped doing all of thoose things that I realzied how simplistc this statement really is.
It's not saying "Learn to be a man", meaning you have to learn how to do this... it's saying "Be something you already were".
So to answer the question above, What exactly is a DJ?
It's a man.
so now the question is what exaclty is a man?
Pook said a man is someone who isn't afraid of his testerostone, and that's a very, very good generatzation.
However I am going to try to take it a step father..
A man is, simply put, himself.
To try to make this understandable as possible, this is the problem I see with the forum now:
YOu are putting the cart before the horse.
You aren't a man if you can approach women at any time of the day... But being a man makes it possible to approach women at any time of the day.
In other words, alot of these posts on this site now, are backwards because having women "chase you", having women fight over you, etc, are ALL BYPRODUCTS OF BEING A MAN
This forum should be more like 50% self improvement, IN ALL AREAS OF LIFE, NOT JUST DJING, and 50% on women, not 1% Self Improvement, 99% women.
With self improvement, the more you are being a Man. The more of a Man you are, the more comfortable you are doing all of the things you have trouble with.
Now, I won't answer what IS a man, because that's for you to come up with, but here are some things that in my opinion DESCRIBE a man:
a) Probably the most important thing of all, he is a man of importance. He has a purpose with his life that doens't involve women, that is something he feels very passionately about.
Look at all of the "Men" in the TV... I was use James Bond because he is universal... although he liked women, he had higher prorities then them... imagine how bad the James bond series would be if he spent the entire movie chasing after them instead of the BAD guys.
By doing this, and keeping your prorities in check, you don't have to "play mysterious" or play "hard to get".... you are hard to get, because you have more important things to do, and it's not a game... if she doesn't want to play by your rules, she can shove it, you don' t have time, whereas if you are "playing" hard to get, once it is evidant that you are "playign" the ball is in her court, hence why we get **** tested time in and time out.
b) A man is someone who isn't always georgous, but keeps himself in shape and well groomed.
Now, I've never had a girl tell me I was ugly... even the girls who LJBFed... or better yet, GIRL since it only happened to me really once, told me that I was very good looking... but I have been out of shape before, and trust me when I say, a average-good looking guy that is great shape looks better than a naturally handsome guy that is out of shape..
