Originally posted by El brujo
I had a strange experience today...
I know a girl, and I think she's in love with me...
but the weird thing is:
she applies all the DJ skills on me!!!!
giving me neg hits, kino, all the other stuff...
What to do, coz i like her but I cant apply dj skills on her coz she knows them!
bye
Ok, bro, I'm going to say something agaisnt everyone who has posted about this already. Despite my alternative viewpoint I wish for you respect it, most people choose the majority but I want you to be open-minded. Ok? Ok.
She's not in love with you, and you are sadly mistaken. I've seen situations quite similar to this before and I will explain.
Girl's aren't DJs, they are sad confused people with breasts -- they do not use any special tactics outside of magazines and their girlfriends -- they are as confused as you were before finding this site. This is my observation.
When a man think's hes found a female DJ, he is more then likely absolutely confused. A women who uses a neghit on you is not interested in you. I suppose an example of a neg-hit used would be desirable, but generally a women would be without reason or justication (haha women do things despite this however, of course) to do such a thing. Additionally, I am without doubt that they would be unaware of the use of said tactics agaisnt men. Neg-hits on a guy do not work. If a chick came up to me and said "Nice clothes, except the shoes, my dad wears those and hes 50".... She's not interested in me, she's ignorant and unintentionally making a negative remark without thinking of any consequences (very common in women).
More likely she is just playing with you, I've met many girls who have given me quite a bit of kino... I was not as aware of such things at this point in time, but it occured.
The only logical conclusion I can draw is that this lady thinks of you as a sister. She loves you as a sister perhaps, but not as a boyfriend.
But who listens to Smooth, anyway?