What if you're stuck with her?

[brod716]

Are nice guys always losers?

What if you don't have the balls to break it off with her?
What if you are attached to her but you think you can do much better?
What if everything in your relationship is perfect on the surface, but you're not happy?
What if you can't stand her friends?
What if you despise her eating habits?
What if you think she's fat, but you're a health and exercise maniac?
What if she professes her love to you and you to her, but you don't believe yourself?
What if you have already had intimate relations with her and now feel that she'll use that as the explanation for loss of interest? And what if it's true?
What if you don't think she's pretty enough? Smart enough?

That pretty much sums it up... which ones are important, which ones are not? What do you suggest? Or is it just the weather that's making me crazy to raise all these questions

Thanks, I need help

 

[Oscar Wilde]

Been, done, bought the t-shirts...

It's hard, it's tough, but you must break it off. You must break it off. Repeat that to yourself.

I almost didn't. And to this day (months after the event), she still doesn't fully accept it. It's tough. But you need to move on.

My 0.02 euros.

 

[squirrels]

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What, exactly, are you afraid might happen if you break up with her?

 

[brod716]

Re: ...

Originally posted by squirrels
What, exactly, are you afraid might happen if you break up with her?

What happened last time I did this... I really got attached to her and especially to the idea of being with someone so I wimped out... But she's going away for the summer, so maybe time will show. But, it's just so easy, she loves me, i seem to love her, we have most everything we need from each other, sex, work, relationship, trust, etc.

I think I know my problem... When we didn't have sex, work, relationship, trust, I was AFCing, waiting for those things, hoping, etc. Now that I finally GOT all of them, I'm bored. Now I can move on... that doesn't sit right with me, that's another thing...

 

[brod716]

Re: ...

Originally posted by squirrels
What, exactly, are you afraid might happen if you break up with her?

What happened last time I did this... I really got attached to her and especially to the idea of being with someone so I wimped out... But she's going away for the summer, so maybe time will show. But, it's just so easy, she loves me, i seem to love her, we have most everything we need from each other, sex, work, relationship, trust, etc.

I think I know my problem... When we didn't have sex, work, relationship, trust, I was AFCing, waiting for those things, hoping, etc. Now that I finally GOT all of them, I'm bored. Now I can move on... that doesn't sit right with me, that's another thing...

 

[georgie24]

so what happend? did you snake back into her life?