What if Your Wingman's a Stud?

[DirkPitt]

Okay, My best friend is a stud. I'm not gay but he is one sexy motherfvcker. He's funny/****y/charming. He's a natural DJ when it comes to approaches but he is a mad AFC once he's in a relationship.

Am I doomed to be in his shadow forever? He sometimes plays the wingman but then my target goes ape**** over my wingman and it all goes down hill from there.

Is there anything I can do besides find an uglier guy to be my wingman?

 

[downfallofdisbelief]

Maybe YOU are the wingman.

 

[eba]

Sorry, but can someone explain what a wingman is? Sounds like it's pretty much a DJ's b1tch or lacky.

 

[drixsa]

Originally posted by eba
Sorry, but can someone explain what a wingman is? Sounds like it's pretty much a DJ's b1tch or lacky.

a wingman is usually a friend that helps you get the chick. he is usually there to talk to her friend so that you 2 can have some alone time to talk.

ok Dirk-

2 of my good friends are close to what you described as yours

i happen to hang out with them seperatly.

but when it comes down to it, woman want 2 things initally:

1. a looker (cute face and/or good body)

2. a cool guy (interesting personality, funny, charming, exciting to be with

and believe it or not some girls do not have the order in which you may expect

so what you need to do is have certain bold traits of an Alpha Male.

when i go to a party or whatever i realize im good looking but i am not the best looking one there

i do know that i am one hell of a good time to be with and i let my personality do what it wants.

i realized after coming here though that i had most of the traits an alpha had. what i used and continue to use this site for (partially) is to fine tune those skills.

i cannot give you specific advice on what to say or how to act but when you are the alpha male most girls will want you eventually and even if they dont they will still wanna meet you and/or get to know you

 

[Julian]

Me and my friend are always trying to out shine each other. We both have are + and -'s. I think we compliment eachother well, just our styles, personalities and how we interact. Theres no hating between us and say, if hes digging a chick but she digs me, he will let me have her. And vice versa..

I think we are both good looking succas and always shine wherever we are. We make a good team. however, he is tied down with a girlfriend who is having his baby which he tries to hide from new female prospects, in fear of turning them off.

If im with anyone else they are my wingmen. ALWAYS

 

[Gold Heart]

Originally posted by Julian

If im with anyone else they are my wingmen. ALWAYS

Amen.

 

[WingS]

i can relate to this, im gonna be a wing man on tuesday and i feel sorry for my friend coz i know his girl is gonna want me

 

[Ronny_Neumonic II]

maybe you could try going up to 2 girls with him...or else you could try on your own

 

[dElAvA]

Im in the same pos my best friend is one sexy beast and hes charming as hell but Im funnier and we work well together. Now Im not exactly a looker I wear glasses but I dress nice and I have a good C+F game. What helps about having THE alpha as your best friend is it gives you so much confidence when Im around him I just slip right into his vibe and go with it. Usualy my best friend attracts the girls then we both keep them around cause were so damn charming. Whats nice is though I don't even have to out shine him or anything hes THE most popualar kid in the school so everyone whos good friends with him can get a girl easy just cause all chicks are attention *****s. If a girl thinks she could be one of the top 3 couples it usually turns into a real cat fight for my attention. Ok so its kind of a gimick but my style is what got me into this position in the first place.

 

[Nocturnal]

learn from him.

 

[seulaxplaya]

yeah learn from him. duh

 

[Sexy_Malibu]

Believe me... this happens to girls too. Sometimes the guy wants my "wingwoman" (or what HeyPretty called "chicknwing") but ususally we don't go after the same guys, so thinks don't go farther than that. I am an excellent wing-woman, I do more than just keep the friend occupied... I sometimes go out of my way to get my friend their guy (or my guy friend their girl).

 

[Brazilian_Blues_Boy]

I don't like being the main personna whenever I'm interacting with girls with my buds.

Seriously, I love being the Wingman. I'm a sort of Cupid. I've set almost all my friends with a lot of girls.
I don't know why, but that gives me a feeling of fullfillment.

Like, when I'm with my buds, I always make them shine, I do my thing but when I'm through with it I always make sure that they are on top.

It's something to think about. With all the knowledge I have, I sometimes feel ashamed of "needing" help. I can do very well on my own, so why not help my friends who do not have access to the knowledge I have??

As far as your wingman being a stud, it happens to me all the time. To be honest with you, I've been dealing with that since 7th grade

Learn what you can with them, and help them. If a girl falls for him is because you're probably not her type.
And if you're nice to girls that he catches, they'll like you and advertise you to all of her friends. Women are the best advertisers of the world.

I've seen cases where a male friend talks to a girl about his friend who digs her for weeks and still the girl stays indifferent. Then one of her friends comes and tells her how great the guy is and stuff and bam! She decides to go for that guy.

Use this to your advantage. Even if he's a hell sexy mofo, hardly ever ALL girls of a group will fall for him. Some will always fall for you.

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