mag333
Don Juan
First, let me say that I know many of you are against even attempting a friend-conversion and it this point I might have to agree with you... I am dealing with the slight case of oneitis O.K. but I am getting unnerved by the seemingly endless supply of contridictory signals...
I have been employing DJ methods and I give them most of the credit for the seemingly positive responses I have gotten but at the same I have been careful (maybe too careful) because if her interest level is too low and she is forced to hand out a rejection, it could really mess up a few friendships... If it worked out, strangley enough, it likely would make all of the friendships stronger in the long run...
In any case, I think she is concerned with or at least VERY aware of my increasing kino,c+f attitude, and my seeming lack of interest in her for the past week or so (which is partly because I have had no time/money and partly because I have been discouraged with my progress and wanted to give her time to sweat it...
My concern (and I am glad I thought of the possibility beforehand) is that she will come right out and ask if I am romantically interested in her... She may not, but I sure as sh*t would like a decent response that might make an IL jump happen.
The friendship is important to me to some extent, but unfortunatly I think I have reached the point where if it didn't lead to something more I would be so haunted by my failure every time I talk to her that even friendship wouldn't work...
I dunno, anybody? anything??? Beuller? Beuller?
-mag
I have been employing DJ methods and I give them most of the credit for the seemingly positive responses I have gotten but at the same I have been careful (maybe too careful) because if her interest level is too low and she is forced to hand out a rejection, it could really mess up a few friendships... If it worked out, strangley enough, it likely would make all of the friendships stronger in the long run...
In any case, I think she is concerned with or at least VERY aware of my increasing kino,c+f attitude, and my seeming lack of interest in her for the past week or so (which is partly because I have had no time/money and partly because I have been discouraged with my progress and wanted to give her time to sweat it...
My concern (and I am glad I thought of the possibility beforehand) is that she will come right out and ask if I am romantically interested in her... She may not, but I sure as sh*t would like a decent response that might make an IL jump happen.
The friendship is important to me to some extent, but unfortunatly I think I have reached the point where if it didn't lead to something more I would be so haunted by my failure every time I talk to her that even friendship wouldn't work...
I dunno, anybody? anything??? Beuller? Beuller?
-mag