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What I want to know is ?....

DoubleA

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I asked this question in a reply a few minutos ago for the thread
"Where the Hotties Are.." from Rollo Tomassi.

It's now 2006 and excluding Ricky's "Some challenges for 2006",

I want to know what kind of female do you think you'll end up with before the end of the year?

I want to know. Everyone seems to think for some reason we all can marry a model and whatnot.

Who wants a regular GF? Why?

Who wants HB? Why?

Who wants a friend w/ benefits? Why?

Who's trying to get married?

I just want to know. It would be nice to know what's the agenda for guys who post here, whether frequently or occasionally.
 

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The only ones.......

The only ones that are a SURE THING are the ones you pay for...........lol
 

Rollo Tomassi

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Originally posted by Rollo
I want to know what kind of female do you think you'll end up with before the end of the year?

I want to know. Everyone seems to think for some reason we all can marry a model and whatnot.

Who wants a regular GF? Why?

Who wants HB? Why?

Who wants a friend w/ benefits? Why?

Who's trying to get married?

I just want to know. It would be nice to know what's the agenda for guys who post here, whether frequently or occasionally.
Why do you presume that an LTR or marriage ought to be a goal state? My question would be how many women do you plan to sample from and what would you like to learn from them this year? Or better yet, what will you do if you succeed in this? Live happily ever after?
 

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Funny.

No seriously, everytime I get on here after being gone for a minute. There's someone talking about how they blew it with some HB. Or how need advice on pulling this HB who works in this bookstore.

I'm just saying there are still 8's and 7's, who aren't booger bears, waiting to call someone daddy. Disturbing.

I'm just reading alot of guys trying to DJ but they what they want.

I know there are some dudes on this forum that need a GF. Don't matter, they need one. Their probably on some bad hitting streak, for like two years and shyt. Maybe more than that. He needs A GF. A 1 - 7. Anyone would do.

But all I read are dudes yelling for HBs. Nobody seems willing to get some steady tail, before trying to snag some dime piece.

Just an observation.

:)
 

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The reason I pr personally know essume that is eventhough guys may front, Ia few guys who in a sense act like women. I mean trying to run to the alter. It's nuts.

I'm asking because for some mugs swear up and down they're going to marry a model. If so, that's cool.

I just want to know.
 

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Well, if this year is like the last several years - there won't be any girl.

:crackup:
 

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tmpgstx,

Why do you say that?
 

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Okay, I'll bite since I know you have a good reason for your posts and honest answers seem to generate great info on this forum (ie you'll rip us a new one when you spot our AFC ways).

For the record I'm pushing 20+20, a few LTR's, never married, no kids. Great job, big house, about 3 months past a sh!tty breakup with a physco HB8.5 whom I thought was my friend until that day her friggin' Satanic horns accidentally popped through her cute little pink bonnet :))

Who wants a regular GF? Why?
I'm finally starting to lean this way. The scene is getting old. I know at this age and point in my life a nice woman, hopefully a HB8 or better will see the prize and go for it. I think I've learned enough to keep it cool, respect the reliable thing for a change and put some effort into a more serious LTR. Just no more crap, the WALK AWAY has never been more on my mind than this past 6 months.

Who wants HB? Why?
Being really honest. The last woman was very attractive, for her age her body was flawless and a wild one in bed. I love the challenge of getting one of these girls, just can't deal with their sh!t afterwards and by then its too late (ie one-itis sets in). Obviously, I'm like many guys chasing the almost mythical HB9 that is also nice and undiscovered (yeah right). Getting down the cold hard truth - I just want to prove I can still get/keep one and show her off. Great for ego, terrible for any STR or LTR potential.

Who wants a friend w/ benefits? Why?
To me this always sounds good on paper, but someone always ends up getting hurt. Ironically I would be better at this now than when I younger and much more AFC in my ways. Perhaps a few quick ONS's would be better medicine if that's the real need.

Who's trying to get married?
Definitely not ready for this yet. This one is easy, I am not currently in a LTR and I KNOW it would take me at least two years to trust and know a woman good enough to take this step.
 

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Awesome response.

I posted because I get the feeling guys are learning this stuff without knowing where they'd like to direct these new skills.

I actually believe most guys on here would go back to their AFC ways if they could obtain the dream girl.

I think it's only a few on this forum whom, like Sinistar, "would Ithink [they've] learned enough to keep it cool, respect the reliable thing for a change and put some effort into a more serious LTR."

I think most of the guys would really like to be in a LTR. But I think too many are pushing the envelope for an 8 thru 10 Hot chick and juggle 5 at a time. I'm not saying you should settle for a booger bear or date Chris Farley twin sister.

Just ask yourself, why push away chanes to sex women who are average than dream for a super HB. I see more 7's and 8's who are decent enough to get it. I don't expect to have Caviar taste with pizza money. I try to work with what I have. However I do see the flaw in settling down with an average woman, while not realizing the chances of greatness with a HB not taken.

It's just seems that in almost four years, this board has gone from getting guys in the right direction to selling a dreamy running shoes to AFCs who can barely walk. I say hit as many 7's as you can and you'll be ready to step up to the plate with major HBs.

Just an obeservation and I could be wrong in my assesment.
 
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