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What I learned at the club

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I was at the club again last night. No girls that I were interested in were there so I was kinda carefree. I still don't have the skills to do cold approaches, but I hope to do those next week. Anyways, I went to the club alone and met one of my friends there and he brought two chicks.

Girl 1, we both recognized each other from a class we had, but never talked before. We got acquainted and conversed about each other and she was into me. I was chilling and my friend told me that she told him that she wanted to get at least one dance with me. I was planning on doing that anyways. She was about a 7, not a girl I'd be interested in, but I'd hang out with her. I ended up dancing with her twice, basically rubbing our bodies all up against each other.

Lesson learned: girls will like you if you just dance. I didn't do anything special when I danced with her the first time, but she dragged me out there to dance again and had her hands and body all over me. This just re-inforced my belief that chicks are crazy at the clubs and love to dance.

Girl 2, ugly, not my type. Used a little charm on her to make sure she was having fun too.

Lesson: Don't neglect the friend, involve everyone.

I also learned that you have to be quick with cold approaches, no standing around. It also helps to use a wingmen to dance with pairs of girls so that one isn't left out. I limited myself to 3 drinks tonight and I still got busy so I'm definitely getting more relaxed at the club.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Always remember the three second rule.
 

Hot Ice

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Originally posted by MDgood
Ummm.. what's the three second rule?
It's the classic DJ approach...
Get the eye contact and approach after 3 seconds.
Smile isn't a bad thing either.
 

Oscar Wilde

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3s rule is very simple - Approach the girl within 3 seconds of seeing her for the 1st time - you don't hang back to try and think of something to say, just do it. And see what happens.
 
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