What I don't get. This is interesting...

[edger]

Why HOT women will join and PAY for sites like Match.com or any website designed to meeting the opposite sex. These women are getting hit on around the f*cking clock, why would they PAY $20-$40 to meet someone?? For guys it's one story, as it's much harder for us(we need as many portals as possible), but for a hot chick? I don't get it.

 

[Bonhomme]

Simple. They have impossible criteria that are their real "husband." All the men with decent self-esteem & quality they meet are driven away by the interrogation.

 

[Jitterbug]

I haven't done the Internet dating thing, but I've browsed through some popular sites and hardly seen any hot women. There are quite a number of bot accounts to attract guys to join, but few real ones. Sorry, no idea why they'd join a dating site. If I have to guess, I'd say they probably do it as a one-off fun thing to see what's all the fuss about with Internet dating.

 

[lookyoung]

Simple its all for validation and attention. Some of these girls probably get 100 messages a week. Woman love attention and the reason for this is because they all think they have flaws. You could bang an HB10 with a vida guerra azz and she will think its fat. Woman are one of the most insecure creatures in the world and that includes the HB9 and 10's. Woman love to feel secure and AFC's kissing there ass makes them feel better about themselves.

That is why many men verbally abuse woman. Because they could get away with it. If an HB10 husband tells her she is fat than she is more than likely to believe him.

WOMAN ARE VERY INSECURE BY NATURE.

 

[KontrollerX]

Women like to shop.

Women like extracting loads of attention and ego boosting.

Women like to get a feeling that they will be safe when getting together with a guy.

Joining one of these sites helps them do all three at once.

 

[Dongfu]

Simple , it's about screening. They have a chance to read some bs about a guy without then having to say, "I have a boyfriend." They just click a button ot next him.

 

[joekerr31]

Why HOT women will join and PAY for sites like Match.com or any website designed to meeting the opposite sex. These women are getting hit on around the f*cking clock, why would they PAY $20-$40 to meet someone?? For guys it's one story, as it's much harder for us(we need as many portals as possible), but for a hot chick? I don't get it.

they get endless admiration without having to act on it. every day they can come home and have 25 emails saying 'When i saw your picture I called my priest and told him that an angel was missing from heaven.'

thats their primary reason.

their secondary reason is that they believe that 'the one' is out there somewhere. all there experiences with men have been less than satisfactory, but instead of taking any responsibility for that they choose to believe that its the result of the pool they have to choose from.

so they figure this is an easy way to find mr. perfect (while also getting daily ego boosts from all the AFCs).

 

[Bonhomme]

they believe that 'the one' is out there somewhere. all there experiences with men have been less than satisfactory, but instead of taking any responsibility for that they choose to believe that its the result of the pool they have to choose from.

I think that's another way of stating the main reason ... with the attention being the secondary reason, based on what I've observed in that bizarre alternative universe... at least as far as the "really hot" ones go.

They're looking for a guy who does not exist. The whole online thing is set up to put out a perfect checklist for this mythical "Mr. Right." They're married to the list.

 

[edger]

I know they thrive off attention, but I could never imagine a woman going as far as to PAY $40 for the attention. Man, how f*ckin' pathetic can you get?

I'm telling ya, truth be told, women are seriously only good for a good hard f*cking, that is it. I'm almost positive that is their only purpose. Otherwise face it, they're a BIG FAT waste of time.

 

[joekerr31]

if you think they are only good for f*cking then they will be only good for f*cking.

 

[edger]

if you think they are only good for f*cking then they will be only good for f*cking.

Tell me, what positive do women like the above contribute?

 

[jophil28]

The internet is just another extension of their dating landscape without the risks and with a minimum of effort.. It is an ooportunity to cast their net wider hoping to snare " Mr Tall,Good-looking and Wealthy." The internet suits HOT women pefectly -all they have to do is post a copule of photos which present her body as bait and the emails start pouring in . That puts her up on a pedestal in her mind (and that is her God appointed place after all ).
Then she gets to go "shopping" and what hot woman does not like to shop - in this case for the best accessory of all next to a Cartier - a weathy, handsome, tall man...

Think about it - no smoky bars, no drunks telling you how gorgeous you are, no c0ckblocking girlfriends, no having to find drink coasters to write out your # one hundred times a night, and no cabfare home...perfect.

 

[Last Man Standing]

Tell me, what positive do women like the above contribute?

Replace the word "women" with "hor" and you are correct! You have to have a world view and not just an American hor view!

 

[MikeYikes122]

Tell me, what positive do women like the above contribute?

Come on man, seriously? You have a mom don't you?

There are plenty of women who bring a whole lot to the table. You just have to look for them in the right places. You can't expect to find a female of quality out at a club or a bar. You can, however, expect to find a flaky party girl (or as LMS says a hor!) in that kind of a setting.

There are good girls all around you. Maybe the chick who cuts your hair, maybe the HB you see at the grocery store all the time. The thing is, the majority of these chicks are out in public and not at bars getting hammered on Tuesday nights.

I will admit that there are plenty (maybe even a majority) of girls who are only good for a few hard fvcks, and that's it. But you can't rule out the entire gender. I can think of plenty of quality chicks that I have known in my life, and at 28 I'm sure you know have come across some decent females as well.

 

[ketostix]

I know they thrive off attention, but I could never imagine a woman going as far as to PAY $40 for the attention. Man, how f*ckin' pathetic can you get?

Like some of the other posters said, they get masive amounts of attention and offers from a full spectrum of guys without hardly any effort. What would they care about paying the monthly fee when it means expensive dates, free drinks from dates?

If you were a guy and you were getting attention and offers from sh1tloads of girls with little effort would you care about the nominal monthly fee? Your question is kind of silly. A better question would be why do guys pay a monthly fee and get so little having to compete with a ton of other guys over mostly average looking women on there?

 

[Knight's Cross]

Ahh, the age old, "Why join match, yahoo personals, etc.?" Well let me tell you my experience. IF you treat it as another venue, and not THE ONLY venue to meet women, match can be a useful means to secure more dates.

I agree with ALOT of what is written above. ALL women seek attention. That's their mission wherever they are right? We all agree to that. Whether they are giving you a come hither look at a bar, grocery store, or bowling alley. Now on match it's a little different. I've found if there's a lady that's intreresting I write a SHORT 3 line or so intro, and see what I get back. No return, then she's deleted from the list. If I get a return, I go DIRECT for the #, and date. ANY FLAKING, and again she's off the list.

What dating site neophytes do wrong is the same thing any onitis/ sniper mentality man does wrong. They continue to THROW GOOD $ on bad $. Hoping for a return. Again match can be useful, and I have had plenty of experience using it as an extra way to meet women. You just have to be ready to deal with the flaking woman and treat her accordingly.

There are SOME quality women on the sites, you just have to be WAY up on your game to find them. Women are screening just as we are. Do you expect them to do any different? SO when I hear endless whining about a woman is looking to fill a perfect checklist for what she wants....well aren't you doing the same SS members? I've found that LOTS of women will flock to you if you are the ALPHA male with a PLAN. If you don't put a quality profile together....well that's all she has to look at. That and whatever e-mail you write. That's a HUGE turnoff to a woman, just as a woman that doesn't go to the gym/ take care of herself etc. is a huge turnoff to us.
Honestly I've found that water truly does seek its own equilibrium on match.

My 2 cents,

KC

 

[Colossus]

Why HOT women will join and PAY for sites like Match.com or any website designed to meeting the opposite sex. These women are getting hit on around the f*cking clock, why would they PAY $20-$40 to meet someone?? For guys it's one story, as it's much harder for us(we need as many portals as possible), but for a hot chick? I don't get it.

I have noticed this as well. In simple terms I think it's a 'safer' option for them than something like Craigslist. Sites like Match, Chemistry, eHarmony et al have millions of members, they have a system set up where random dudes cant just browse their profiles and message them (except match), and it has become socially acceptable even for a beautiful woman to join these sites.

Women are approval seekers. They learn this from the time they are little girls; it is just how they are wired.

To reiterate: It has become more accessible and socially acceptable, it's convieniently buffered and personalized, and they can present themselves in a way that is most favorable for their purposes.

I disagree somewhat with the attention explanation. First of all, dont fool yourself into thinking that these women get hit on all day long. That it is a myth that i think a lot of guys (and DJs in training) buy into. They certainly recieve more attention than average looking women, but keep in mind the VERY attractive women arent being asked out all day long. It is intimidating for men to approach someone who they percieve is out of their league.

If what they were really after was attention, then there are far more satisfying mediums for them to get that from. Granted they may glean a good deal of reinforcement and ego-pump from 25 hits on match.com, but the internet is a buffer zone. They are sifting just like you are.

I personally think online dating can be a great supplemental addition to your game, but it should never be your primary medium for metting women. See my general rules for online dating in my blog if you are interested.

 

[squirrels]

Simple. They have impossible criteria that are their real "husband." All the men with decent self-esteem & quality they meet are driven away by the interrogation.

This is pretty much dead-on. However, the main reason they have such "impossible criteria" is because there's so much quantity of demand, they HAVE to filter it out.

It really is sad the way it works. But it's the same as you signing up and getting messages from fat chicks. After a while, you just stop caring and start filtering EVERYONE out.

Women who are attractive are hit on CONSTANTLY in the so-called "real world". After a while, the decent guys and the tools all just start to blend together, and the effort to filter them all is overwhelming...plus there are so many so-called-juans out there trying to "fool" the women, that even if they DO like what they see, they suspect some kind of ruse that they would catch if they weren't too preoccupied with filtering everyone else out.

So they just give up on the real-life scene entirely and sign onto dating/meeting websites.

MySpace was one of my greatests sources of tail when it first came out and no one knew about it. Because there were fewer guys to filter through, girls were more willing to give people a chance. Not that these guys were any better or worse than the ones they met at the local booze-n-puke, but it provided an arbitrary filtering standard.

Now, a hot girl cannot log onto MySpace without receiving a dozen messages a day from random guys and, from what they've told me, these messages are not necessarily all flattering or respectful either. "I'd like to split you like a 2x4, baby! Let's meet up!"

It's all a big attempt to find "the road less travelled" and hopefully filter the dating pool down to a reasonable number of good candidates.

The simple fact is that in this world, there are too many arseholes out there, both male and female. That's why so many people give up on being HAPPY and instead just look to find "someone" to get married and get the whole thing over with. And then divorce skyrockets.

People in today's society are just not comfortable with being human. :woo:

 

[edger]

But you can't rule out the entire gender.

Mike, I never ruled out the entire gender. I stated, "What positive do the women ABOVE contribute", talking about the women in discussion in this thread. I will say though that MOST hot women are good for nothing(except of course a good hard f*cking) and don't contribute anything positive to the world.

 

[Phyzzle]

To answer your question, WE all know that good, normal people go to bars from time to time. But many people, including many hot women, have this notion that "the bar scene" just isn't a great place to meet new people.

Plus, realize that a lot of women are schoolteachers or studying nursing. They can either go to a bar, or basically never meet guys.

Sometimes, they just wonder "what if I met a guy, but not at a bar!? That would be something different."

Come to think of it, I only see maybe one actually HOT woman on a pay site in my area. Surprise, she's a nursing student. Probably has less than a dozen guys in her life to choose from, but that's not a whole heck of a lot for a beautiful, apparently intelligent woman.

So can you understand why even a hot woman might want to expand the pool online sometimes? It makes sense to me.