Do you guys remember the Matrix...and how Neo took the pill that told him the truth about the world.
Im 19 yrs old and in college and I think im seeing things in a new way or in a way that is not healthy or is healthy. Im not sure which.
First of all a little bit about me, I suck with women, I have only had sex with one girl and we were in a LTR and I have kissed about 4 girls. I had one club hookup that led to me sucking some breasts...thats it. Thats my action with girls. I get nervous when I talk to them. I HATE talking to random girls, because I get very nervous and uncomfortable. I have to force myself to do it, and I dont psyche myself up anymore because its too much pressure, my mind says yes, my body says no and it wants to run.
Anyway Im reading posts, and listening to conversations of women talking about men and I just get this sense of feeling that women decieve men on many levels about many things. Its the guys job to play the game right to get what he wants and thats ****. Women want sex too, but they have a gate or a test waiting first. If you pass through then she will let down her guard and reveal her slutty side. If your game is tight then you can bring down the gate. Most men seek relationships with women for sex, women want men to be caring and suportive and seduce them then they wont feel guitly about having sex. Look at all this BS, "the game" as it is called that we play.
It seems so difficult that the end result is not worth going after, when most guys just want sex after all and not meaningful realtionships. If your after the woman that completes you and shares those intrests and life partner values, then yes play the game and take your time and not devote your thought to breaking down her barriers as fast as you would like them.
Normally guys want the barriers to come down, have sex and then if their cool stick around and if not go after something else.
NOW me personally being so shy, I just dont have the motivation to play the game anymore just to get sex, because thats all I want right now. If I have to play so many games just to get a girl naked, then forget it. I can spend my life and focus on other things like baseball or studies or partying and drinking with my buddies.
I feel like I am in a sour grapes situation, for those guys who can get girls easily, im sure this post sounds moronic, but for me getting girls is hard and Ive spent the last two years trying to improve and I havent gotten very far. So just for sex spending so much time on agonizing and trying hard to improve and trying to psyche myself up to talk to chicks and play all those games and then just have a naked girl as the end product doesnt feel like the time is worth it anymore.
Im 19 yrs old and in college and I think im seeing things in a new way or in a way that is not healthy or is healthy. Im not sure which.
First of all a little bit about me, I suck with women, I have only had sex with one girl and we were in a LTR and I have kissed about 4 girls. I had one club hookup that led to me sucking some breasts...thats it. Thats my action with girls. I get nervous when I talk to them. I HATE talking to random girls, because I get very nervous and uncomfortable. I have to force myself to do it, and I dont psyche myself up anymore because its too much pressure, my mind says yes, my body says no and it wants to run.
Anyway Im reading posts, and listening to conversations of women talking about men and I just get this sense of feeling that women decieve men on many levels about many things. Its the guys job to play the game right to get what he wants and thats ****. Women want sex too, but they have a gate or a test waiting first. If you pass through then she will let down her guard and reveal her slutty side. If your game is tight then you can bring down the gate. Most men seek relationships with women for sex, women want men to be caring and suportive and seduce them then they wont feel guitly about having sex. Look at all this BS, "the game" as it is called that we play.
It seems so difficult that the end result is not worth going after, when most guys just want sex after all and not meaningful realtionships. If your after the woman that completes you and shares those intrests and life partner values, then yes play the game and take your time and not devote your thought to breaking down her barriers as fast as you would like them.
Normally guys want the barriers to come down, have sex and then if their cool stick around and if not go after something else.
NOW me personally being so shy, I just dont have the motivation to play the game anymore just to get sex, because thats all I want right now. If I have to play so many games just to get a girl naked, then forget it. I can spend my life and focus on other things like baseball or studies or partying and drinking with my buddies.
I feel like I am in a sour grapes situation, for those guys who can get girls easily, im sure this post sounds moronic, but for me getting girls is hard and Ive spent the last two years trying to improve and I havent gotten very far. So just for sex spending so much time on agonizing and trying hard to improve and trying to psyche myself up to talk to chicks and play all those games and then just have a naked girl as the end product doesnt feel like the time is worth it anymore.