What happens when a chick is Nexted?

[[Rebel2]]

In the last couple months I have nexted a number of girls. They wouldn’t return calls or were acting too flaky, which I felt they were not showing enough interest level. Fed up with the run around I deleted their phone numbers so, that I would not be able to get a hold of them. However, they have my phone number if they ever wanted to get a hold of me. The days turned into weeks and later into months and still no call.

Does that mean my hunch was correct they did not have high interest level. How do they know that they were nexted?

DJ’s please advise.

 

[Starman]

There is a difference between nexting a flaky girl you just met who didnt return phone calls..and one you established some line of communication (where she may have called you once or twice)

The ones you have no rapport built with and Nexted..dont even know you exist..

the ones you have established some connection with..and nexted..will eventually call..or not

 

[DankNuggs]

Generally, you next a girl who has already nexted you in her mind. There is a reason she is being weird and flakey--Low IL. So I wouldn't worry about it.

 

[jamescr73]

how about this one. I met a girl a month ago, weve had sex, she used to call me all the time, Id call her about twice a week. We went on 4 or 5 dates, and all of a sudden I havent gotten a call in 5 days. Im like WTF? I dont see how she could of lost interest over night. I think I said the wrong thing on the phone the last time. I told her (jokingly) that her life has too much drama, and that I am the root of it (long story, very jealous stalker ex bf). So now I dont hear a thing. Hmmmm. I think im going to call her tomorrow night though, just to see if shes still alive.

 

[[Rebel2]]

4 or 5 dates and then no call. What's up with the ex stalker?

 

[drZaius09]

I don't understand the point of your post. I think it's pretty obvious, like Dank Nuggs said, there's a reason they're flakey and not calling-- perhaps because they don't like you? It's been stated here time and again that just because you are a challenge, and stop calling, and make yourself unavailable, doesn't automatically guarantee that a girl's IL in you is going to change considerably, if at all. You shouldn't be concerned with what these girls do once you Next them. Who gives a sh1t whether they call you again or not, that's the whole point of Nexting someone-- they are out of your life for good. In fact, you should be dreading the occassion that they DO call, for it could only be a desperate plea for attention or a quick ego boost from a known sucker, i.e., you.

Go live your friggin' life and stop worrying about the past. It's over, deal with it and move on.

 

[[Rebel2]]

So, it doesn't matter what the girl thinks in her mind she may have already nexted me.

Time to find another batch to go after