what happened?

[dswens]

I've been dating my girlfriend for 2 1/2 years. We are hardly ever apart. Her parents totally hate my guts and she lives with them. The last time I saw her we had an awesome day and then she just stopped calling. I called her 3 days after our last date and she said everything was fine between us. Yet I still haven't heard from her. It's only been 8 days but I tried calling her and I feel like she's avoiding me. Do I just pull away and let her call me? I really feel like were supposed to be together forever. Yes I know I sound like a baby but I miss her and am just looking for some advice what to do. Practice your dj skills and give me a clue. -dswens

 

[DankNuggs]

don't smother her if she's removing herself from the situation...Chances are sometihng is up...don't make the decision for her by acting AFC.....

 

[italostud]

After 2 1/2 years you shouldn't be calling them "dates", but anyways. Yeah, 8 days is a pretty long time to go without talking especially for a LTR. I'd say something serious is probably up. You should probably call her and say something like "If something is wrong, then let me know because I don't want to waste my time waiting for you to make up your mind." Or something like that.

 

[diablo]

Off the top of my head, I'd say there's really not enough information to work with, but I'll give it my best shot. You say that you've been dating for 2.5 years. If you've never been through a rough patch in your relationship, you're about due. I doubt highly that she won't ever call you again - it's not in people's nature to invest that much time and effort into something and then call it quits without so much as a fare-the-well. I'd recommend finding something to do until the inevitable call, whether it be to ask you how you're doing, or to tell you what's been going on. For that matter, after 2 1/2 years, you aren't able to go over to her house? Regardless of what her parents think of you, I'd say this isn't exactly something that guys haven't been doing for the better part of a century or two (sneaking over to their girlfriends house whilst the parents were away/asleep). You should definitely find out what's going on, if for no other reason than to put your mind at ease.

 

[Skel]

Something is up. Just leave her alone. I bet she breaks up with you soon.

 

[Chemistry]

There's little you can do...

You've been you... but whatever might be happenin is all on her, you aren't gonna alter the way a person who's been with you 2 years plus, thinks about you with a phone call or somethin you say...

Best advice... havin been together 2.5 years there must be some things that you've wanted to do that you're not able to do during that time... use this time to explore them some

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Hombre, don't give in to this chick and absolutely do not call her and ask "what's wrong?" - she is playing a head game with you and she is waiting for your call! Don't cave in to your curiosity! If you call her you'll look like a weak man. If she calls act as if you are not affected by her absence and talk and act as if you moved on without her. You know you are lying to yourself, but don't give her the satisfaction of knowing that you are miserable without her.

Accept the possibility, fact in my book, that you may never be together again. She may be seeing another dude, don't be shocked - expect it!! She is obviously testing you to see if u r a weak enough man to beg for her attention - whatever you do don't do it!! I have a feeling u r going to call her anyway!!

I don't know what happened, but I bet she is seeing another dude!! Girls become uncaring and callous towards their current beau, when they find another pimp to take his place!!