What happened here gents?

[phil2015]

Hi guys

Just a quick question regarding a girl I went on a date with last night. As a background, I met her online on Wednesday and went for a first date last night, we went out, had a few drinks and then she came back too mine for a 'coffee' which turned into sex.

I passed out after she went, then texted her good morning today. She replied, and asked if she wanted to meet/do something someday.

Her response was "I'm not really sure what I want from a relationship, I think you also have a lot more free time than I do.....think we should see where it goes, see what happens''

I said that was OK let's just see what happens and we have not texted since....

I'm a little baffled/confused and feel either;

A - She used me for sex

B - I said/did something to cause her IL to drop like a brick.

Any guidance on this situation would be appreciated

Phil

 

[Infern0]

You texted her this morning.

That's a HUGE clanger.

I can't really tell but you must have done well on the date to convert but then doing that was communicating way high IL.

Fall back immediately and let her reach out to you, it sounds salvageable, she's told you in the text to slow your role, if you don't heed the warning it'll be ljbf for you

Also asking if she "used you for sex" this communicates to me that you are thinking relationship which is not a good sign of where your head is at. Women can't "use you for sex" hey you hooked up, brilliant, wrinse and repeat. The relationship stuff is her department.

Get your head in the game bro or you won't last long

 

[om1xr]

Girls are the ones who choose relationships not the other way.

She just wanted to fúck on a saturday night instead of spending the night with her orbiters online and playing with her toys lol.

Texting next morning is desperate as fück. Next time wait a couple days then text her for 2nd date or wait until she contact you.

You can turn her into a fb but it depends on your game and personality. Just wait until she contacts you or wait a week or so then contact her again if your way with words is not top notch over text/phone.

 

[Huffman]

Wow man, but this one is easy as hell. She didn't sleep over. That screams NO RELATIONSHIP, YOU ARE HOT AND I WANTED TO BED YOU.

Same happened to me some while ago. Online date, first low interest, then f*cked on the first date without me doing any crazy game whatsoever. But then she wouldn't even stay over. She actually texted "thank you" the next day, which I thought was hilarious