what frame of mind gets you laid?

[pupil-number-7]

what point of view separates those who get laid easily from those who don't?

let's say I began to adopt the point of view that "all woman are sluts", and as a result, it changes the way I felt, thought, and behaved around women.. would those thoughts, emotions, and actions lead to more sex? Or would it lead to less success?

for example, maybe they'll sense you have little respect for them and as a result, they'll deny you sex even if they felt an attraction for you. Or, on the upside, you'll naturally spot the sluts (cause we all know they're everywhere - no disrespect women) and get laid that way.

what frame of mind have you found to work for you?

best poster gets a cracker.

 

[Trader]

what point of view separates those who get laid easily from those who don't?

let's say I began to adopt the point of view that "all woman are sluts", and as a result, it changes the way I felt, thought, and behaved around women.. would those thoughts, emotions, and actions lead to more sex? Or would it lead to less success?

for example, maybe they'll sense you have little respect for them and as a result, they'll deny you sex even if they felt an attraction for you. Or, on the upside, you'll naturally spot the sluts (cause we all know they're everywhere - no disrespect women) and get laid that way.

what frame of mind have you found to work for you?

My frame of mind

best poster gets a cracker.

More like $1,000 through Paypal, then yes

 

[ARrocket]

what point of view separates those who get laid easily from those who don't?

Those that over-think things like this are less likely to get laid

Your mindset should be one where you know that YOU are the sh!t and that you are UNAFRAID to go after what you want. If you combine those two, you'll be unstoppable.

Get your inner game great, get your seduction game to be average at worst, and you'll get laid plenty.

What kind of cracker?

 

[Nexus Polaris]

Pook's "fun shall be the focus" mentality works best for me. For a couple of reasons.

For one, women are drawn to the fun guy. If you're enjoying yourself, other people will want a part of your energy and you will become somewhat of a magnet for attention. This is how you become the life of the party. Just enjoy the **** out of whatever you are doing.

For two, even if you don't get laid, you won't really care. Because you're already having fun. And that's the whole purpose of getting laid in the first place; to have fun.

 

[Alien]

what point of view separates those who get laid easily from those who don't?

let's say I began to adopt the point of view that "all woman are sluts", and as a result, it changes the way I felt, thought, and behaved around women.. would those thoughts, emotions, and actions lead to more sex? Or would it lead to less success?

for example, maybe they'll sense you have little respect for them and as a result, they'll deny you sex even if they felt an attraction for you. Or, on the upside, you'll naturally spot the sluts (cause we all know they're everywhere - no disrespect women) and get laid that way.

what frame of mind have you found to work for you?

best poster gets a cracker.

Man! Im sorry to say but this is pathetic! You care way too much about what the girls think about you. If they sense something about me and they dont like it they can kiss my a$$. And if they like it ...they can kiss my a$$ too I dont care what they think about me.
1. If you just want to have sex then hit the gym, learn to dress, and start going to clubs. ...and dont wait for any magic "frame of mind".
2. If noone told you jet, every girl is a slut. ...one less thing to worry about, huh?

 

[HeyPachuco!]

I'll break mine down completely, since this has been on my mind recently. How I get laid.

In all honesty, thinking back of the Same Night Lays and Takeaways from Clubs or bars. Its been Don't take everything too seriously. In my interactions, I make use of calling her name often, which will create a stronger connection between the two of us and allow you to "stake your claim" on her or whatever target indirectly. Also, very heavy in the ****y and funny department, adding that with a sudden change of the amount of attention I give her at any given moment.

This also can relate to knowing a target for a period of time. Maybe, a few weeks to a few months until I lay her. She'll get my undivided attention for an extended period of time one day, and then I'd appear to be too busy to even talk to her the next. This has driven girls crazy before, so much so. That one was chasing me for months! until she gave up and just came miles away to my house for a good thrashing.

Mindset - Un-responsive, un-reactive, ****y, humour, facial expressions when not satisfied, everybody loses one way or another if they reject me, indifferent. I'd say having a mindset of all women are slvts can be damaging in the longrun, what happens when that "slvt" rejects you or a few "slvts" reject you often? You're going to become a huge misognyst. Another thing which puts me in the right frame of mind and psyche, is having the mindset that any NEW hot chic that gives me resistance, I just think to myself - "My ex-girlfriend gave me resistance in the beginning , whats the difference with this one, Nothing"?

 

[pupil-number-7]

Those that over-think things like this are less likely to get laid

tell that to micheal hall the author of Frame Games

Those that over-think things like this are less likely to get laid

what kind of resistance did your ex give you? And how can you tell the difference between a girl who is just not interested and one who might be if you tried a little harder?

 

[HeyPachuco!]

what kind of resistance did your ex give you?

I had resistance such as "I'm not going to sleep with you", "I'm not a whvre" and "I've got a boyfriend". Even though, she didn't and once I plowed through, built rapport and put her guard down. Turns out she was just "SEEING" someone, but not exclusively boyfriend and girlfriend. I made her discard whoever he was, and she fell into my lap. She was "RESISTING" my advances - A force that tends to oppose or retard motion. As apose to being "DISINTERESTED" - b. Having lost interest, Not interested; indifferent. Anti-Slut Defenses comes to mind here.

And how can you tell the difference between a girl who is just not interested and one who might be if you tried a little harder?

You can tell the difference between getting resistance and persisting when she says things like (I've got a boyfriend ..BUT, No we're not going to have sex, Why are you talking to me, I'm not coming home with you, she smiles at you, eye contact, BUT still resists, eventually laughs at your jokes) Sometimes it's easy to misinterpretate shyness for resistance. Than being disinterested and getting blown out (I'm not interested, go away, walks away, denies eye contact, speaks in a breaking rapport tone, doesn't ask questions, will not smile at you, ). Its easier for a chic to be angry with you and get turned on quicker, than to be happy with you and get turned on. If you're are totally p1ssing some chic off, but shes STILL there after five minutes of you talking, its very likely shes attracted. This is me, at my finest.

Having a little experience in the game, you can tell the differences. I don't pick people who are obviously going to give me a hard-time, but I do go for the hard-to-get chicks too, I put myself out there most of the time. But theres a difference with insecure validation-seeking women and women who just play hard to get, try to skim through the differences. This is where IOI's can help you. Pick your targets wisely, don't pick targets likely to resist too much. When people tell you to go away or are shouting at you, you've lost. Game over most of the time. You messed up somewhere and she thinks you're lame.

Girls are constantly giving off signals directly or indirectly that they want to be approached, so I go for those. Most guys need an abundance of evidence that the girl likes them in order to feel like they should keep talking to her. I used to want that "NEED" aswell And maybe she doesn’t want your d1ck yet; but she’s willing to give you the opportunity to MAKE her want your d1ck my showing what an awesome dude you are by being irreverent, getting physical, passing her tests, thus inspiring attraction in her. READ THE SIGNS.