What exactly is flirting

Prodoge

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I am a little confused by this word.

At what point are you flirting ? What subjects do you talk about when flirting ?

Does it have to be with some kind of sexual wibe ?

To me it's a vague concept
 

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Yeah, flirting and banter can get confused easily. From what I understand, flirting is banter, with a sexual vibe.

I tend to banter with everyone, to not be misread. It's fun!
 

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Flirting is very wide.

Establishing eye contact, building that cexual bond. Looking at eachother and feeling that cexual heat, she looks at you like she is about to svck your d1ck and you look back like your about to shove it in her. That's cexual attraction.

Look at her winking, getting a wink back with a little smile, that's flirting.

Even catching eye contact then smile is called flirting, a girl will know your trying to flirt with her.

Just body language that communicates, I would like to embrace or get to know you in a romantic way is called flirting.
 

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It's a little teasing and innuendo... then you see how chick responds... if she flirts back you've been given the green light to escalate.
At what point are you flirting ?
It depends, usually after you've built a little rapport. But if it's someone you already know then right away. You start to 'flirt' when you want to push boundaries a little from casual to sexy.... if she flirts back you've been given the green light to escalate.

What subjects do you talk about when flirting ?
Just about anything, a little teasing and innuendo works fairly well, eye contact is a must. If she touches you, then touch her back, go from there, but some chicks just like to flirt, and nothing is going to happen, these gals are great to practice on if you are learning how to do this. Married chicks in the 30s are the best to practice on, they like to flirt and if they've been married for a few years, sh!ts getting stale and they appreciate the attention.

Does it have to be with some kind of sexual wibe ?
Chicks dig attention, flirting is a form of attention. It's not really about putting out a sexual vibe... it's more about testing the waters to see if it's warm or cold.
 

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Its what you should be doing anytime you talk to a woman outside of a work environment
 

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Flirting is very wide.
I agree, you could be having the simplest of conversations and still be flirting. It's not really about what you're saying, it's more about the vibe and attitude behind it.
 
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