What EXACTLY does 'I need some space' mean?

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When a women that cares about you gives you the 'I want some space' routine what exactly is she saying??? Thanks Jordo
 

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You're not going to like this reply

Well it means one of two things:

1) I need more space because there is someone else and I want to spend time with/f*ck him.

or

2) I need to time to reevaluate the relationship. Women have a tendency to this.

Guys don't really do this all that much, but it still happens.
 

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I need space = Buh-bye...
 

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"I need some time/space" = I wanna see if i can get someone better, but if i dont you stay right there as a backup ok?

This is why i did it and would do again, and why women also do it.
 

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I.N.S.S. =

IMO: there is no point in trying to interpret what the c^nt is saying when she says this...the best thing to do is think about what I.N.S.S. means to you...and what does I.N.S.S. mean to you?

I.N.S.S. means = it is time for you to walkaway and start banging hotter women...When you hear this take the initiative and end the relationship on the spot....Trust me you will not regret this and you will get the checkmate by ending the relationship first.....You could respond to the wench by saying something harsh (and you know what i think you have the right in this instance to be as crude as you like)...you could respond with something really masculine and ballsy like:

"Im really glad you told me that because I was really starting to get bored by you and I met a much more exciting woman that I have been waiting to go out with"
 

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It means you should cut all contact with her until she contacts you back. Give her that space she so desires. In the mean time, go out, meet new girls and everything that that entails.
 

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Jordo,

Give us some more details....

Were you two involved in an LTR or happened to just be dating?

Were there signs that she was backing off from you before she dropped this bomb?

If you tell us more details, then we can provide you with a better answer; rather than just blurting out NEXT.
 

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"I need some space" - You are too fat, stop hoggin the couch.
 

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"I need some space" could mean, in my experience:

1) I still want to have sex with you but also with other guys.
2) You're smothering me.
3) I'm about to break up with you, but I can't be straighforward so I'm giving you hints.
4) Stay away from me.

When a woman says "I need some space," the best thing to do is put some distance between you and her. Go out with other chicks and enjoy your time with them. Don't make any one chick your major focus.
 

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"I need space"= I'm putting you on the backburner while I shop around for someone else. If I can't find anyone I'll come back to you.

Doesn't this piss you off?






Next her, go out and start getting phone numbers from other chicks immediately.
 

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1) Ur 2 clingy ~!!!!!
2) I wanna revaluate the relationship
3) ive got some personal issues and dont question me on these
 

Peace and Quiet

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This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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"You're too clingy" is exactly what it means. And this feeling CAUSES a woman to find another man.
 

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Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
Stay cool and see what happens.
Stole the words outta my mouth.



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Basically she doen't feel the same any more and she wants to shop around to replace you. She doesn't want to hurt your feelings and your idea that she really cares for you....is actually just YOUR idea.

It has no revelance in her reality. Even though she may actually care about you...that is what women do...it's no big deal to them.

Better get ready for the big break up! Start shopping yourself for a new girl and get a few more as back up in the future.
 
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Originally posted by Jordo
When a women that cares about you gives you the 'I want some space' routine what exactly is she saying??? Thanks Jordo
Girls that 'care about you' don't say this. They are saying I 'care' for someone else!!
 
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