What every High school and College introvert must do to succeed!!

[TrojanMan]

First and foremost repeat this to yourselfe 20 times "I am a great guy; I do not need to impress; entertain; fake my emotions; qualify; or explain myself
to anyone; however people should do this for me because I am a venusian artist and I will succeed with women."

"I don't believe in rafc's you must be on one side or the other; your either an afc or your in pua ville anywhere in the middle you'll drown".
-Mystery

If your at school and you don't think you have the skills to get a girl then don't try; don't practice at school. The field is the place to practice, because you can make all the mistakes you want with no social consequence. A school is not the field. The difference is if you make enough mistakes in a school setting, that can be detremental to your survival; a field is a place where you can practice with no social strings attached. In college there are only a few groups with quality women in it (depends on how big your college is). YOu need to protect your avenues. So don't go ruining your avenues (staling all the sets of girls with weak game)unless you have all the tools; complete the 30 day challenge first.

I went to a small private school, but I lived in student housing (student housing is a place where students from multiple colleges all share a dorm) with thousands of students from different non-private colleges. Although there was so many girls; I still had to obey the rule of not hitting on girls unless I am sure I can pull, because even though I had thousands of chicks to choose from word traveled quickly. Rupturing social value wherever it reared its head. (its fine to take risk when dealing with women, BUT its not okay to go into a college setting knowing your an afc who needs a little work and just rupturing your social value by trying to work on it there. To get good at this it takes thousands of sets, so don't try to open thousands of sets at your college unless you know what your doing. Or thats a thousand girls who all belong to groups, and will try to shoot you down with thier words and weed out your genes without apologizing. Again if your not a PUA yet, you can practice but not at your college do it in the field)

The key to mastering college game (or even highschool game) is to make ALOT of women friends, to the point where you're never seen alone or with a group of guys that have no females present (who are losers that are all looking for females companions.) YOu should always have atleast one girl around you even when your with the fellows. If there are no females present your not present.

Game Plan

First and foremost, find a girl that is about a 7 or 8+, befriend her by building comfort early and being a fun person. Repeat the process with another girl. The key here is to be fun and just escalate comfort until you have them locked down and following you wherever you go! (these girls aren't your targets, so don't plan on doing any long term plan to make her your girlfriend; just leave her as a best friend) COMFORT COMFORT COMFORT FUN FUN FUN.
Benefits: YOur social proofed to the point where your status is out the window; also she might have friends and she will invite you every where. Then she will social proof you like you wouldn't believe.
Girls love to brag about there new boyfriend that is just a friend, to any and everyone. I had a buddy who, wanted to get with this girl that lived next door to him [in the dorms] she went to the bigger college of the colleges that had students at the student housing; he didn't get to be with her BUT he got to be one of her best friends and she social proofed him so much that he surpassed even me in popularity. He was spending the night in her room every night and every high status person who visited; got to know him. I got popular just beacuse of him knowing her and my being his friend. Everytime we were around she used to litterally talk him up to every girl and every girl would like him! crazy huh...not really happens all the time, you just got to be willing to not try to go after every girl that comes your way and you will be on your way to the top! I had a girl named kena who was an 8.5 that hung around me constantly, and everytime we went to eat it would be me and her. Everyone thought we were going out. I was social proofed.
Once you get social proofed by women its time to find a guy that looks the part of a pua. You hang out with him and the girl that your cool with and now you have pre-selection and leader of men

Here is a major DON'T!!!
LOOKING AROUND AT OTHER PEOPLE AS IF YOUR LOOKING FOR A MATE, OR LIKE YOUR BORED WITH YOUR SITUATION AND YOUR LOOKING FOR FUN TO JOIN IN A DIFFERENT AREA! This "don't" is simple but can mess up your game faster than anything in college. College is about FUN, if you don't look like your having fun your a loser (took me a while to learn this, and it really killed me because I have this serious face that ruins my game everytime.). The easiest way to look like your having fun is to be invested into what you doing, and never look up to see what everyone else is doing. Never talk about girls with your homies in public, thier going to look at the target and its going to bust your social value right away or someone can hear you and your social value is gone. The key is to be in your own world, have fun while your chilling with your homies and homegirls, don't look up for **** and if your walking around always appear too busy to notice who's passing by or whos watching you (only make eye contact with people if you absolutely have to otherwise just focus on your destination; like they don't even exist). IF your an alpha male your the person who is being watched; your never the person watching. The place that your at is the party, not anywhere else in the room (if your confident that where you are is the best place in the room why would you look around to see what everyone else is doing? you wouldn't).
The key to being a player and picking up hotties is not giving a hotty validation, early on in the game. If you give girls validation by noticing what thier doing or giving them eye contact; they already have your validation...(before you even talked to them) rendering your game useless. Imagine this; you don't care about carefully giving out your eye contact (validation) then imagine how many times your going to look at a hot target during the course of a year! about 45 or 50 times to even 180 times (if you look at her everyday during the school year once) ...imagine if you did this to every girl you liked, you would end up fully validating even the girls/targets with the lowest self esteem. YOur finished! Next, this is why its harder to pua if your good looking, imagine your a good looking guy, girls are going have thier eyes glue'd on you, then what will happen if your a sexual creature like me; who has learned some cheesy pick rule that was meant for club use, you would hold eye-contact. Giving her all the validation she would need to "next" you.Think about all the future targets/girls you probably validated today, if any of them are of value; you've already blown your set, negs won't work if she is really hot and now you have to somehow do damage control...Girls want the prize, be the prize. Your not the prize if every girl in the room can get you. Which is what your saying if your trying to hold eye-contact with every piece of ***** that walks through the door. Don't give attention unless they earn it, by approaching you or if your ready to open her up and put the game on. Invest your time and attention in only the people you know and are friends with, and when someone opens you look like your having a good time by putting on a smile (don't over smile though remeber to drop it or you'll look gay; which isn't a problem but if you can do withought looking gay why wouldn't you?) Follow these rules but don't miss out on chances to meet people at the same time you need to be constantly gathering high value friends whenever the chance presents itself. You don't want to not give any attention to the people you know (of value) you just want to not give attention to people you don't know.

Review

*Create social value by best friending good looking females (preferably 3 or 4)(to do this blast them with fun and comfort)
*Hang out with atleast one guy that can be lead
*make sure your homeboy looks the part of a player
*don't talk about women while your in public
*have fun
*don't pay attention to other people in the room; make it seem like you don't even know that they are there.
*internalize the fact that where your at is the life of the party just because of you being there.
*Don't over do the fun thing and appear incongruent (its okay to have bad days as long as you have you homegirl that to give you repetative value)
*every pretty girl that you talk to is not your target!
*Only start game on A chick once you get your social proof set up.
*Only game if you have to tools to pull it off, otherwise completely ignore her and turn to you "wing girl" have fun with her, which will peak the "targets" interest in you, but again don't open her unless you have the tools because you want to keep all your avenues open and your constantly learning (you might be able to get her one day why ruin it now)!
*your only allowed to practice in the field, don't practice at a school your going to be attending for a year because in a school failure might or will hold a social consequence.
*don't look at a girl or give her attention unless you are ready to game her
* if your game is not on point then keep working in the field, and or take the 30 day style life challenge.

 

[LostAndConfused]

The key to being a player and picking up hotties is not giving a hotty validation, early on in the game. If you give girls validation by noticing what thier doing or giving them eye contact; they already have your validation...(before you even talked to them) rendering your game useless.

AMEN!

greaet post

its like a light went off in my head...things make alot of sense except don't you have to make eye contact before you approach a girl anyways? doesn't that defeat the purpose of what you said when NOT to look at a girl giving her validation???

 

[BMX]

its like a light went off in my head...things make alot of sense except don't you have to make eye contact before you approach a girl anyways? doesn't that defeat the purpose of what you said when NOT to look at a girl giving her validation???

No. By you not looking around and being focused, they will give you VALIDATION, I did just that when visiting a school that I'm actually gonna attend soon. I walked around good posture, confident, spoke clearly, wore a bright yellow hat to top it off. You will get the attention and this will help put u in the position to feel that you don't need to look around because you are the center of attn.

Only start game on A chick once you get your social proof set up.
*Only game if you have to tools to pull it off, otherwise completely ignore her and turn to you "wing girl" have fun with her, which will peak the "targets" interest in you, but again don't open her unless you have the tools because you want to keep all your avenues open and your constantly learning (you might be able to get her one day why ruin it now)!

When you are ready to game a target, keep this in mind. Also refer to the bible for your social interactions. Give them just a little attn at that point and they will be seeking your validation boosting your confidence yet again. After all you NEVER pay those you don't know decent attn.

Here is a major DON'T!!!
LOOKING AROUND AT OTHER PEOPLE AS IF YOUR LOOKING FOR A MATE, OR LIKE YOUR BORED WITH YOUR SITUATION AND YOUR LOOKING FOR FUN TO JOIN IN A DIFFERENT AREA!

I whole-heartedly 2nd that. This is the clincher to avoid.

First and foremost, find a girl that is about a 7 or 8+, befriend her by building comfort early and being a fun person. Repeat the process with another girl. The key here is to be fun and just escalate comfort until you have them locked down and following you wherever you go! (these girls aren't your targets, so don't plan on doing any long term plan to make her your girlfriend; just leave her as a best friend) COMFORT COMFORT COMFORT FUN FUN FUN.

Here is how I do this: At the start of the semester, I sit in the front or middle of the classroom and pay attn only to my notes and the teacher. I don't let my eyes wonder anywhere else. I answer questions sometimes, I'll ask them and I speak LOUD & CLEAR always. Don't be afraid to stick your neck out and laugh at jokes the teacher cracks if they're at least decent. When the teacher knows your name, they'll be inclined to call on you by name and give u instant social proof.

Later on when you're chillin' around campus, lifting or eating you'll find that some HB will approach and open you. They'll more than likely say sh!t like "U are in my BLAH 202 class, my name is W/E!" It's never a dude that comes up and says that to me...EVER. From there, use moderation and not be shocked, get her name, e-mail and make them your wingwoman.

It happens every semester cuz I allow it to, when you are chillin' don't have a crazy face always, be talkative and smile when w/your real friends. That allows for them to introduce themselves. Even if you don't date these wingwoman, they can become ur FB's easily.

SOLID stuff here. Use the bible and this thread to help you out in school. An actually worthy new-poster here for a change.

 

[DonAlan456]

Thanx
cleared up alot

 

[LostAndConfused]

No. By you not looking around and being focused, they will give you VALIDATION, I did just that when visiting a school that I'm actually gonna attend soon. I walked around good posture, confident, spoke clearly, wore a bright yellow hat to top it off. You will get the attention and this will help put u in the position to feel that you don't need to look around because you are the center of attn.

But that logically doesn't make any sense, you won't even see or know that you have been "validated."

Staying so focused tunes you out to the rest of the world which is going on all around you.

Unless the intention is to have the girl approach you every time when you are off guard except for out on the field.....

 

[BMX]

You should never seek validation and approval from hordes of strangers in the 1st place. For those who are truly introverted, they have to learn that they should not care about what others think about them when out in public.

For those transgressing the confines of introversion and who do have that balance of actually paying attention to the task at hand mostly and occasional looking around, the key is if you do look around, you are distant and non-chalant...never completely WITHDRAWN or lacking color.

I agree it is human nature to do this, so it can't always be deterred. A nod or not-too-genuine smile doesn't hurt to give now and then. Again, a lesson from Pook is that if you get caught checking some HB out, never apologize or feel bad because of your testosterone, you are a MAN.

From my time inside of the ropes, I have learned the hard way about the OP saying you should never look around as if you're trying to find a mate or drowning in boredom. It will easily become a vicious circle and you will constantly be handing out validation to the undeserving and simultaneously lowering your value and even come off as a loner. If you find yourself "studying" but keep on looking around, you might wanna relocate.

Your passions, motivations and true friends are what will keep you fulfilled whether or not you're single. JoeKerr said it best, "...never make a woman the center of life" because if she dips out, you basically become an empty-AFC nest w/a trace of duckturd left behind.

The thing I said about woman approaching outside of class and introducing themselves has happened a bunch. This semester, I also did this to an HB but w/o coming on AFC or telling them "I'm in ur class!" Just approach out of class, slip the kino and they'll figure it out when you start talking about the Professor/lecture. 2 wingwoman ways. Cake.

-Your aura is better than w/e validation some stranger will give you
-OP says approach targets when your Social Status and game are on par

 

[SinJester]

Ok this is hard because I agree with some of what you are saying and disagree with some of what you are saying.

It's clear TrojanMan is playing pure social proof game. I definately agree that you should make friends with lots of girls, that is probably one of the best but most underused pieces of advice on here. It isn't just for social proof either, you will become more comfortable and confident around women and understand them more.

On the other hand I don't agree with all this ignore everone else talk, you can't do that unless you are already very popular and are the AMOG. I wouldn't even do it them. Introduce yourself to people, not just girls, be outgoing and friendly.

Howeber what you are saying about scanning the room 'value searching' is something you shouldn't do too much. You can do it just do it confidently and slowly and not too often. As Tyler Durden says "wherever you are is where the party is", so you don't have to go looking for other people to take value off. But it isn't as if you should ignore everyone and be a douche.

Also the notion that you should only practise in the 'field' not in school is gold. Everyone should take note.

In the end you have some pretty good advice and certantly have a good understanding of social dynamics. The thing is I don't like the notion of calling myself a PUA and that's just personal preferance but I don't think guys in high school should go around trying to be PUAs. You don't need negging and tactics especially not in early high scool. Just get comfortable around women.

 

[TrojanMan]

My game is based off of being new on the scene or being noticed because you have made some changes to who you are and re-invented yourself. Girls will be looking at you; and what I've noticed is when I look back more than 2 times if the girl is a hb10 the set is already stalled out because I didn't approach and she assumes i'm afraid. SO if i'm not in the mood to approach then I don't look around at the females. Every rule is ment to be broken; but these are some really good guidelines and it helped me come up in college in just half a semester.

 

[TrojanMan]

From my time inside of the ropes, I have learned the hard way about the OP saying you should never look around as if you're trying to find a mate or drowning in boredom. It will easily become a vicious circle and you will constantly be handing out validation to the undeserving and simultaneously lowering your value and even come off as a loner. If you find yourself "studying" but keep on looking around, you might wanna relocate.

Exactly looking around can really **** some **** up in college and school in general. Remember "girl game" is based heavy on looks and just getting a guy to notice her; so if you noticed them they think they got you. Note that whenever I or you talk to a girl about a guy that she really likes she starts off with statements like "he doesn't even notice me or he doesn't even know I exist". So if your the life of the party you need to make it seem like; if they are not important if they aren't apart of your reality. So yeah by acting and seeming high value people will present themselves in such a way to join your reality. Girls will come in proximinty or just flat out open you; guys will open you. But thats not what your waiting for you want to demonstrate your value to people when you get a chance to open up and talk to people you can demonstrate your value by seeming positive and socially intellegent (have a sense of humor). While your fulfilling this system; you want to be consitently opening high value people (they will open easy because of your assumed value) and demonstrating your social intellegence by just having a humorus or high value convo. Just ask them a question and then go off what they give you. But again, if you were staring at them from accross the room a few seconds ago they aren't going to be as friendly...:nervous:

 

[TrojanMan]

But that logically doesn't make any sense, you won't even see or know that you have been "validated."

Staying so focused tunes you out to the rest of the world which is going on all around you.

Unless the intention is to have the girl approach you every time when you are off guard except for out on the field.....

Lol, thats the point *tuning out the world* you want to be in your own world. And if they aren't apart of your world then they aren't important, because your having to much of a good time in your world to even look around to see what they are doing. Your not waiting for girls to approach you; youre just not giving them any validation. When you are ready then you give eye contact and approach. Which you'll be surprised at how girls put themselves in proximity of you once you have value. Iv'e tried this and in just a half of a semester my whole world changed, I could have any girl I wanted.

 

[TrojanMan]

But that logically doesn't make any sense, you won't even see or know that you have been "validated."

you don't need to see it. You know she validated you when you so to approach and she opens very easily!

 

[TrojanMan]

Also the notion that you should only practise in the 'field' not in school is gold. Everyone should take note.

In the end you have some pretty good advice and certantly have a good understanding of social dynamics. The thing is I don't like the notion of calling myself a PUA and that's just personal preferance but I don't think guys in high school should go around trying to be PUAs. You don't need negging and tactics especially not in early high scool. Just get comfortable around women.

I didn't say never game in school, I said only game if your sure you can pull (atleast are pua or don juan and not just some guy who learned the game 2 weeks ago and start throwing around ****y funny comments)

Don't practice at getting better at school, just stick to what you know. Practice your stuff in the field.